Women in Danger

So MEN are FLIES then?

I came across this pic and it caught my interest. It's a good comparison to hejab (head cover). Women are like sweets, men are like disgusting flies :-D. However, it also cause some dissatisfaction in me.

So yes, women are told to cover up to protect themselves. It seems like every where a woman goes, she needs to protection. And if she doesn't that the protective steps, society will blame her. Example, if she doesn't dress decently, and she gets raped, people will say serves her right. But if she dresses decently and she was raped, only then people will call the man an animal.

That's another reason why woman can't go out late at night, because of the dangerous men lurking around, waiting for women who are ALONE.

Ha, you don't even have to wait night time for it to be dangerous. So long as you are alone, you will be in danger. Like me, I go to public places but because i'm ALONE, there are a few occasions when i came face to face with dangerous men.

Me doing things alone, is it my fault? It's not always practical to do things with friends. Furthermore, i don't have a bf who can accompany me and protect me in some way. So is this why women are encouraged to get MARRIED? Ha, even in marriages some women have to deal with abusive husband.

This world have never been fair to women. Then again, when were things ever fair? If you don't dress decently, people say it's your fault, you are just looking for trouble. If a robber robs a rich man, do you blame the rich man for having a lot of property?

When it comes to women, women are always at fault. There will always be ads to remind women do dress decently to protect themselves. Yes, i admit it's a good thing but why should women bear all the damn BURDEN? Why can't there be ads to remind men to look after what they "see" or "feel". When you see a scantily clad woman, you think she's immoral, lacked religous teachings. It's so easy to judge a woman right? But when a man ogle or drools after scantily dressed women, or owns porn it's NORMAL, he's not a bad man.

A Clean Man is a Must!

Men always accused women of nagging over small things. When i was young, my mom always nag me and my brother for messing up the house. But now i understand the basis of her nagging. When you clean the house and it's being messed up by someone, you will feel irritated. There goes your hard work of cleaning only to be messed up by someone who never cleans or never bother to clean up after causing the mess.

I don't know how to cook but i'm good at cleaning. I mean it doesn't take skills to clean but it takes HARD WORK and DEDICATION. That's why people hate to clean, because they are lazy.

Most men are dirty and unhygienic. Why??? Most of them are just plain lazy. I once viewed a house because i was planing to rent and the current tenants were a bunch of male students. God, the house was a mess and it was disgusting! Especially the bathroom. It looks like it was not cleaned for ages. I actually thought one of the tenant was cute but when i see that he's capable of living in such a place, it just turns me off.

Today i had the "privilege" to clean my brother's toilet since he was going to go to Terengaganu to work and my dad asked me to clean the toilet. I think he has been staying at our house for 2 years and in that 2 years, i did nag to my father to tell my brother to clean his disgusting toilet. I could see my brother's bathroom was filthy dirty because he lets his room door open. Was that some kind of invitation for me to clean is bathroom? Hell, i wouldn't even want to go an inch near his bathroom. If i was ghost, his bathroom's condition is capable of EXORCISING me.

Either my dad did remind my brother to clean his toilet or my brother just turn a deaf ear to it. Why do i nag? It's not even my bathroom and it's not like i'm gonna clean it. WRONG! I have foreseen that this day will come when i have to clean my brother's bathroom when he has to move out from the house.

Let me show you just how DIRTY his bathroom was :


EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW X infinity



The detergents. He never buy new ones. These stuff have been there for 1 YEAR PLUS. Proof he never cleans his bathroom.


And now, pictures after i have cleaned his bathroom :







I scrubbed the floor like mad but the stain just won't go away. This is the cleanest i can get.


Yes, i used A LOT OF DETERGENT just to get rid of the stains.


You need to clean bathrooms 1-2 times a WEEK. If you don't clean, mold or fungus will start to appear. If you leave it for weeks or even years, it will leave a stain and no matter how much you scrub, it won't come off!!!

So now you understand the importance of cleaning AT LEAST ONCE A WEEK? Screw your laziness! Women are not slaves to clean after you men. A clean man is a "VERY BONUS". What, you think being clean or cleaning a house is gay? Your mind must be gay. I don't expect a man to be a clean freak but i expect him to be able to keep his own house and himself clean. And i seriously hate men who PEE ALL OVER THE TOILET SEAT AND NEVER CLEAN! Do you want me to cut off your penis because with it, you can't even aim properly. Don't you even wash???

I admit, some women are dirty too. It's funny how they care so much about their looks and appearance that it makes you think she's a clean person just by looking at her. But when you go to her house or even her room, she's a dirty freak!

Being dirty and unhygenic not only shows you are dirty and unhygenic but also the fact that you are LAZY.

Degrading Women?

Seriously, you can't go to bed angry. It's 4 30 am and i was planning to sleep and was trying to fall asleep while reading my Bankruptcy notes but my mind was simply too active. Active with ANGRY THOUGHTS that is. This is like a terrible week for me because there are so many things that pisses me off, not to mention the latest "midget bitch of whore" saga.

Just now i almost had a heart attack when i switched on the lights and found a cockroach on the wall and i was facing the wall exactly, as if the damn thing wants to give me a 'welcome' back surprise. Just a few days ago i was wondering why aren't there any cockroaches at my condo after 9 months staying here, all i saw were lizards. It's like as if the cockroach reads my mind and decide to appear. And i immediately sprayed the damn thing while screaming (cockroach is my phobia). Reminder to self, need to get a more poisonous spray coz the one that i used took a long time to kill the damn thing. Hmmm... i was using a mosquito spray actually because in the state of FEAR, i really didn't look which spray i took.

A hypothetical question for you MEN :

What do u think of a woman if :

1. Her laptop wallpaper is a semi nude hot man.
2. Her handphone wallpaper is a semi nude hot man.
3. She stares and ogles at the sight of hot men.
4. She talks about hot men in your presence.
5. She talks about hot men frequently every time she hangs out with her girl friends.
6. Her wall posters are semi nude hot men either in underwear with something bulging in the middle or shirtless and wet (just being dramatic here).
7. When she watch movies, she screams and make excited noises when she sees a hot man doing something hot.

Do you respect such woman? Does this all sound familiar if it was vice versa for the opposite sex? Well, let me get straight to the point :

I definitely don't respect men who throw themselves at women, who ogles at women, who talks about a woman's body like as if its the greatest thing in the universe, makes too much sexual jokes, who's laptop or hp wallpaper are semi nude women with fake tits etc.

Songs these days talk about women shaking her tits or booty or whatever. Is that how you express your attraction towards a woman? Saying you can't stand it when she shakes her booty? And people accused me being lame or very old fashion listening to Modern Talking love songs or Bee Gees love songs? Hell, at least Modern Talking and Bee Gees actually sing love songs instead of singing too much about a woman's ass and tits. Songs these days sounds as if men are always HORNY for women. The video clips even shows that.

And just now i just saw a pic of a bunch of women wearing g strings and football jersey for each country for the World Cup 2010 and the jerseys are designed in such way that it's cut to show half of the woman's breasts, just about enough to cover her nipples. What i think of this pictures?

1. It degrades women but i really don't care because those women posing like that are being paid and they don't mind being paid to dress like whores.

2. Men stuff are always associated with half naked women. Football is a man's sport yet they use women in this manner to promote it? Men become gaga and horny at the sight of women wearing like this but they are ignorant of women who actually enjoy playing football and have talent for it. Instead, men want to see a bunch of stupid women who are clueless about football parading semi nude in sexy football jersy with shorts as g strings. I guess these are all marketing strategy right? Marketing strategy can kiss my ass for being this pervert.

For me, women should and can be sexy without being degraded by men. And the only way to accomplish that is if the women is sexy because of herself, and not because she is being paid to dress sexy or being paid to attract men. Then there goes your value of a woman. Being used and controlled by men.

Sometimes i find it's useless to fight for rights on behalf of other women because most women just don't appreciate it. Most women prefer to be subordinate to men, prefer to be submissive to men, prefer to be used and abused mentally and physically to men and willing to forsake their dignity in return of money.

And men are suppose to be world leaders right? Men are suppose to be the smarter ones, to be the guide or whatever. Yet they use their power to manipulate and degrade women via advertisements most of the time.

And i'm fucking fed up with men making a big issue about women dressing sexy, hence it's women's fault for attracting the wrong attention and perception. I say, fuck you. You think you are so fucking angelic? Watching porn and masturbating? That makes you a saint? Why do women have to be prim and proper most of the time? We women are deprived of freedom because of men. Why can't we go out late at night? because they are dangerous men prowling late at night and you can get rape or murdered. Everything a woman does it's being limited because of men's high sexuality. And i'm fucking tired of some women accepting the idea that "they are men, it's normal and okay for them to do it". You know what has been the norm is society?

1. It's normal for a man to sleep around.
2. It's normal for a man to cheat.
3. It's normal for man to watch porn.
4. It's normal for man to look and ogle at other woman.
5. Make sexual remarks about a woman's physical.

Because society thinks it's so normal, that's why men keep on doing these kind of stuff without the feeling of guilt. Maybe some do feel guilt but majority just don't.

Damn, it's 5 15 am here.. getting sleepy and tired.. there will be some typos but i'm too tired to check it.

Men think they know everything?

Today is a funny day, while checking my Facebook, i came across 2 SAME QUESTIONS, basically a question posed by men why is it a "MYSTERY" a pretty woman is with a handsome man. Actually, even before coming across these 2 questions, several people kept on asking the same question. For me, it's not a mystery at all (this doesn't imply i'm a know it all ok ;)!

It's a common sight where you see young women are with an old man or a pretty woman with an ugly man. I'm a woman, so i know the reasons. In the end, we women prefer a financially stable man compare to a good looking man. Good looking men are just for entertainment and amusement. If you watch Desperate Housewives, you will know what i mean. Look at the character name Gabriel Solis, a pretty ex model who is married to an overweight, not so hot but kind hearted rich man name Carlos. Though being married to him, she has a scandalous affair with her young, good looking, sexy and hot gardener. Of course after she was caught with the affair, she finally regret being foolish not to appreciate her husband and hence chose her husband. Not a surprising decision anyway if the woman was SMART. Why choose a poorly paid good looking guy if you can have a rich not so good looking man? After all, who will pay for her makeup, expansive and luxurious stuff but not the partner with tons of money? Men love sex, women love many expansive things.

And when you talk about men, men are always associated with pretty and sexy women. Playboy, Motor or car magazines with scantily dressed women, car racing and motor GP with those umbrella girls and promote cars also involved women scantily dressed. Talk shows or game shows involved pretty women wherelse the host is an old man or just a normal looking guy. So you see how much emphasis is being made for a woman to be pretty or sexy in the commercial industry or men stuff? Now tell me, can you find things which women are interested in where a good looking or half naked man is being used to supposedly lured them to buy the items? No. There's no half naked men promoting women's handbags or shoes but you have half naked women promoting beers and sport stuff for men.

Men need beautiful women. Men go gaga at beautiful women. Men feel so proud and mighty in the presence of beautiful women. They bragged when they are with beautiful women. Basically, they treat women like sex objects or trophies to make their friends or the world jealous. I mean, you look at porn. Most of the women are heavily clad with makeup and silicones to make themselves look beautiful. It's either you are hot or pretty or both. Very rare to find an overweight or ugly woman to star in porn movies. Now, there a lots of porn which involved ugly men or not so hot men. And really, who cares because majority watching porn are men so the women got to be beautiful. Perhaps when the men is ugly it boost the male viewer's self esteem :|.

Thus, my ultimate theory : men find it a mystery that pretty women are with ugly men because men are in fact the ones who are superficial (most ok). They love pretty women, thus they think women should love handsome men. Well, sorry to burst your bubbles. We rather settle for a man who can give us security (the smart ones anyway who thinks of her future). In the animal kingdom, a female will only mate with a male who she thinks has good genes, thus the male have to be the alpha male and the strongest among the rest of the males. The good genes is to ensure the offsprings will be strong and healthy. So a pretty boy is basically useless. Beauty is only temporary.

You men are actually no different. You will settle down for marriage with a good woman but have affairs with young pretty women, prostitutes, GRO, etc.

Men can be real bitches...

I'm in the mood of bashing men.. so if you are a man, don't read this entry.

There's a saying that goes "Lelaki ada 9 akal, 1 nafsu. Perempuan ada 9 nafsu 1 akal". It's a phrase commonly used but after googling it up, i still can't find the source of it. On the surface of the phrase and without totally analyzing it in detailed, i would have to agree on the statement based on instances which you can OBSERVED with the EYE in our society nowadays:

1. Men's basic and FUNDAMENTALLY lust ---> WOMEN. Cars and sports suppose to be men "toys" whereby they use women who are scantily dressed to promote sports and cars. Why do men have cheerleaders for basketball while women basketball team have no men cheering in TIGHT SHORTS? Why do u have half naked overly thick make up sluts advertising themselves with cars or bikes (im pretty sure these girls knowledge on motor vehicles are like 0.5%). Many more examples but i won't mentioned all.

2. Men are smarter than women. They r "supposed" to be leaders of the country, why? Because women are supposedly "too emotionally" to make reasonable decisions. Most women don't really care to be politicians because they are more concern with fashion and make ups than politics. Hence, this explains the 9 "intelligences" that men they have. I hope that's the correct English translation for "akal". Basically, men are suppose to be smart and "leaderly" despite the fact that most of them end up in jails and juvenile centers, becoming transvestites, dressing and acting like women, becoming mail escorts or gigolos, catering the needs for married women or DATINS. Need i illustrate more?

3. Women have many lusts --> sex, makeup, fashion, handbags, clothes, accessories, etc. Look at women magazine, they are hardly half naked guys posing here and there. Do we have a calender of half naked men posing every month? Do we keep half naked men as wallpapers for our laptops or hand phones? Truth to be told, we are attracted to good looking guys with great bodies but we don't go gaga over them as much as men go gaga over naked or half naked women. In a woman's life, we DON'T REALLY ASSOCIATE OUR INTERESTS WITH HALF NAKED MEN.

4. So women only have 1 intelligence? I admit, in a class of 20 students for example, there will be a lot of top scorers who are women but perhaps the best student would be a man. The prob with men is that they are smart, but they LACKED DISCIPLINE (unlike women), hence that's why they have discipline problems and most end up in jails. So because women are not as smart as men, we are expected to be "less smart" hence, we need the guidance of men. Hence, the reason why men should be the world, country, state, and family leaders. Hence, because men are sooo smart, they use their intelligence to degrade women in many ways. Like in SOME COUNTRIES, they make prostitution LEGAL, allow porn magazines to be sold, allow porno stuff etc...


You know, women are always associated with being bitches because they gossip here and there, back stab one another. One thing i admire about men is their "brotherhood" bond. It's strong, and they don't talk bad about one another except maybe go around sleeping with his best friend's gf or ex gf (coz only a woman is capable of coming in between them).

Woman's "sisterhood" bond is laughable. A woman won't be that friendly to another woman that she doesn't know. Men, on the other hand, can communicate to all kinds of men, making instant friends. Women don't make instant friends.

One thing that i learn about men is that SOME can be REAL BICTHES. A woman who bicthes another woman don't really degrade that woman like how a man degrade a woman. I've come across some men, who would publish pictures of sexy girls (they copy and paste the pictures from the girl's social networking profiles) and then make a "porn like" pages of these girls. Or comply a video of these girls pictures. Or go around giving the girl's number to other guys. Or bitch they have slept with this girl and that girl.

You see, when a woman bitches, she only say bitchy things (bitch about clothes, styles, fatness), unlike men, who do bitchy stuff to women who they don't even know (i assume, they suffer sexual deprivation), thus the need to do these non sense of degrading women in a sexual manner.

Really, if men are suppose to be smarter than women and be the leaders of women, they should RESPECT women. Not disrespect them. The problem with men is that if they see a prostitute, or a woman who he thinks he can easily that advantage of, he will USE them just because they think these women are 'goners'.

But in this society, everything will be blamed on the women. If a woman dresses sexily and was raped or taken advantage of, they blame the women for dressing in a way to attract the wrong men. Personally i think that if you are BLESSED WITH 9 INTELLIGENCES, you won't let yourself be CONTROLLED BY A WOMAN, unless that 1 lust overpowers all your 9 intelligences.

In this society, women are limited to do what they want because of the danger of men. We can't go out late night because it's dangerous. Why? Dangerous men prowling on the street. We can't dress whatever we want, why? Because it might attract men.

About Men...

At this "old" age of 24 (just celebrated my bday last month), i have met and dated all kinds of men, ranging from those who are sweet to those pure evil bastards.

I am conscious of what kind of image i portray to guys based on the way i dress whereupon guys like to take advantage because they are simply stupid and SHALLOW.
This is the problem with men ---> they see a girl who dresses sexy, they think the girl is open minded, sexual etc. Hence they make their pervertish moves. But that same pervert guy wouldn't behave like that to a decently dressed girl. So tell me now, who is the 2 face bastard here?

Once a upon a time i was NAIVE, when i was between the age of 15-20. My naivety led me to anger, sadness and heartbreak with men. I was lied to. But i always move on because i never let my hatred for men get into my way of happiness with future men. At this naive stage, i did many stupid things which I'm not proud of but it is a learning stage for me. After all, there are bound to be mistakes which i will make with men. You will never learn anything unless u make a mistake. Of course, some mistakes can be pricey...

When i was studying in matriculation, there was this whore of a bitch who told me i won' get married because of the way I dress, as in no men would want to make a woman like me as his wife. I'm not angry that she insulted my morals or whatsover but i'm angry at the fact that she dare say no men would want to marry me. Who in the F*ck does she think she is? She's an OVERSIZE Ape and uneducated (she flunk her matriculation and plans not to continue her studies and instead get married and be a baby making machine). With her bloody ugly monkey face, she thinks she can FOREVER keep her husband happy? Up until now, i have wished for nothing but her marriage to FAIL like shit. I may sound more evil than Hitler but that is how i am when i REALLY REALLY HATE SOMEONE WHO DID SOMETHING WRONG TO ME. No amount of apology i will accept from that kampung whore until i see her suffer for making such statement to me.

Anyway, I'm diverting from the main topic of this blog entry. I can get carried away when I'm angry.

I know men because i have met those who are GOOD and those who are EVIL. By not knowing the evil ones, how would you truly understand the very nature of men because 80% of men out there are manipulative, unfaithful, like to take advantage and are perverts.

Because some men think I'm a girl with loose morals, they DARE to show their ugly sides (and all of these are revealed through out chatting and social networking). There are married men who cheat, bf's who cheat, bfs who want to break up but couldn't do so because the gf wouldn't let go. Some men are soooo happy with their partners but yet they cheat with other women for fun. Some men say they cheat now but when they get married, they will change. Some men they are sooooo tolerant with their gf/wife's bad habits/attitude to the extend they are willing to be in that relationship while at the same time seek the symphathy or love or fun from another woman.

Men, they have this 'I don't really care attitude'. They don't listen, they don't care. They are simply not emotional. They don't feel guilt as much as women. They are controlled by their sexual desires. Most of them are like that any way.

For a long time, this kind of men are the only ones that keep on crossing my path. Then i come across those decent and nice ones, the ones that can be a family man, the loving ones, the responsible ones, the one not controlled by their sexual desires. But these men are very rare species. They exists, but very rare. Unfortunately, even for these men, they never get the right women.

It's funny indeed where the bad boys get the right women while the good ones get hurt and dumped by the wrong women. So be bad then you say? Why change your principles just because you get hurt, dumped or heartbroken? Only unwise people do that. Take for example, a girl who get screwed by her bf, then dumped by him, thinks the world is going to end for her and thus become a prostitute because she thinks all men are the same. Or a girl who was raped, thinks the world is going to end, and decides to be a prostitute. A man who gets dumped by a girl, can't handle the hurt, starting to hate all the girls, and start to use and manipulate any girls that he meet. All these are STUPID PEOPLE. You don't commit suicide or be a bastard or whore because you get dumped. You take this as a valuable learning experience. There are so much more important things in this world than a failed relationship or marriage.

There is NO such thing that all men are the same or all women are the same. I used to think that way about men but i was sooooo wrong. Nevertheless, that never stop me from bitching about men because most of them are assholes anyway.