Women in Danger

So MEN are FLIES then?

I came across this pic and it caught my interest. It's a good comparison to hejab (head cover). Women are like sweets, men are like disgusting flies :-D. However, it also cause some dissatisfaction in me.

So yes, women are told to cover up to protect themselves. It seems like every where a woman goes, she needs to protection. And if she doesn't that the protective steps, society will blame her. Example, if she doesn't dress decently, and she gets raped, people will say serves her right. But if she dresses decently and she was raped, only then people will call the man an animal.

That's another reason why woman can't go out late at night, because of the dangerous men lurking around, waiting for women who are ALONE.

Ha, you don't even have to wait night time for it to be dangerous. So long as you are alone, you will be in danger. Like me, I go to public places but because i'm ALONE, there are a few occasions when i came face to face with dangerous men.

Me doing things alone, is it my fault? It's not always practical to do things with friends. Furthermore, i don't have a bf who can accompany me and protect me in some way. So is this why women are encouraged to get MARRIED? Ha, even in marriages some women have to deal with abusive husband.

This world have never been fair to women. Then again, when were things ever fair? If you don't dress decently, people say it's your fault, you are just looking for trouble. If a robber robs a rich man, do you blame the rich man for having a lot of property?

When it comes to women, women are always at fault. There will always be ads to remind women do dress decently to protect themselves. Yes, i admit it's a good thing but why should women bear all the damn BURDEN? Why can't there be ads to remind men to look after what they "see" or "feel". When you see a scantily clad woman, you think she's immoral, lacked religous teachings. It's so easy to judge a woman right? But when a man ogle or drools after scantily dressed women, or owns porn it's NORMAL, he's not a bad man.

Men can be real bitches...

I'm in the mood of bashing men.. so if you are a man, don't read this entry.

There's a saying that goes "Lelaki ada 9 akal, 1 nafsu. Perempuan ada 9 nafsu 1 akal". It's a phrase commonly used but after googling it up, i still can't find the source of it. On the surface of the phrase and without totally analyzing it in detailed, i would have to agree on the statement based on instances which you can OBSERVED with the EYE in our society nowadays:

1. Men's basic and FUNDAMENTALLY lust ---> WOMEN. Cars and sports suppose to be men "toys" whereby they use women who are scantily dressed to promote sports and cars. Why do men have cheerleaders for basketball while women basketball team have no men cheering in TIGHT SHORTS? Why do u have half naked overly thick make up sluts advertising themselves with cars or bikes (im pretty sure these girls knowledge on motor vehicles are like 0.5%). Many more examples but i won't mentioned all.

2. Men are smarter than women. They r "supposed" to be leaders of the country, why? Because women are supposedly "too emotionally" to make reasonable decisions. Most women don't really care to be politicians because they are more concern with fashion and make ups than politics. Hence, this explains the 9 "intelligences" that men they have. I hope that's the correct English translation for "akal". Basically, men are suppose to be smart and "leaderly" despite the fact that most of them end up in jails and juvenile centers, becoming transvestites, dressing and acting like women, becoming mail escorts or gigolos, catering the needs for married women or DATINS. Need i illustrate more?

3. Women have many lusts --> sex, makeup, fashion, handbags, clothes, accessories, etc. Look at women magazine, they are hardly half naked guys posing here and there. Do we have a calender of half naked men posing every month? Do we keep half naked men as wallpapers for our laptops or hand phones? Truth to be told, we are attracted to good looking guys with great bodies but we don't go gaga over them as much as men go gaga over naked or half naked women. In a woman's life, we DON'T REALLY ASSOCIATE OUR INTERESTS WITH HALF NAKED MEN.

4. So women only have 1 intelligence? I admit, in a class of 20 students for example, there will be a lot of top scorers who are women but perhaps the best student would be a man. The prob with men is that they are smart, but they LACKED DISCIPLINE (unlike women), hence that's why they have discipline problems and most end up in jails. So because women are not as smart as men, we are expected to be "less smart" hence, we need the guidance of men. Hence, the reason why men should be the world, country, state, and family leaders. Hence, because men are sooo smart, they use their intelligence to degrade women in many ways. Like in SOME COUNTRIES, they make prostitution LEGAL, allow porn magazines to be sold, allow porno stuff etc...


You know, women are always associated with being bitches because they gossip here and there, back stab one another. One thing i admire about men is their "brotherhood" bond. It's strong, and they don't talk bad about one another except maybe go around sleeping with his best friend's gf or ex gf (coz only a woman is capable of coming in between them).

Woman's "sisterhood" bond is laughable. A woman won't be that friendly to another woman that she doesn't know. Men, on the other hand, can communicate to all kinds of men, making instant friends. Women don't make instant friends.

One thing that i learn about men is that SOME can be REAL BICTHES. A woman who bicthes another woman don't really degrade that woman like how a man degrade a woman. I've come across some men, who would publish pictures of sexy girls (they copy and paste the pictures from the girl's social networking profiles) and then make a "porn like" pages of these girls. Or comply a video of these girls pictures. Or go around giving the girl's number to other guys. Or bitch they have slept with this girl and that girl.

You see, when a woman bitches, she only say bitchy things (bitch about clothes, styles, fatness), unlike men, who do bitchy stuff to women who they don't even know (i assume, they suffer sexual deprivation), thus the need to do these non sense of degrading women in a sexual manner.

Really, if men are suppose to be smarter than women and be the leaders of women, they should RESPECT women. Not disrespect them. The problem with men is that if they see a prostitute, or a woman who he thinks he can easily that advantage of, he will USE them just because they think these women are 'goners'.

But in this society, everything will be blamed on the women. If a woman dresses sexily and was raped or taken advantage of, they blame the women for dressing in a way to attract the wrong men. Personally i think that if you are BLESSED WITH 9 INTELLIGENCES, you won't let yourself be CONTROLLED BY A WOMAN, unless that 1 lust overpowers all your 9 intelligences.

In this society, women are limited to do what they want because of the danger of men. We can't go out late night because it's dangerous. Why? Dangerous men prowling on the street. We can't dress whatever we want, why? Because it might attract men.