Marriage is my right, says 14-year-old Maya
Look at the link above.
What is WRONG with this picture?
1. OBVIOUSLY a 14 year old getting married. She's not even done with her studies. She's not even halfway done with her studies.
2. She's 14, and he' 23. 9 years age difference. it's not a problem if the girl was older, like 20 and he's 29 because it's ASSUMED that by then she already reached a mature mind. So it's ok if a 14 year old gets married if she's MENTALLY and PHYSICALLY MATURE? Not really. You can't really measure a person's maturity. But that's why you have juvenile and adult offenders because it's assumed that when you reached 18, you should be responsible for your actions. So regardless whether you are mature or not at 18, you will be tried as an adult. But if you are a 14 year old offender but a genius criminal offender, perhaps even mature beyond your age, you will still be tried as a juvenile offender because there's still an assumption that you haven't reach the age of majority and that you are just a young offender. So is it right for young teens to get married and asked to be treated like an adult, claiming they are mature but yet face the consequences of their bad decisions as a young teen and not as an adult? People will defend them and say "but he/she is just a childdddd"...
3. If you choose to get married, shouldn't you be INDEPENDENT? Have your own place, not depending on parents, etc. There don't know what is the hardship of a marriage as long as they are still staying with the parents. Besides, is it healthy if your parents are involved in your marriage? Interfering here and there?
4. Being a married woman means you need to look after your husband and his needs. What does a married woman do? Work, clean the house, cook for the husband, fulfill her husband's sexual desire. So her mother will do the house cleaning and cooking while she will be busy preparing for exams and night time be with her husband? Even SOME adult married woman who is working need the assistance of a maid to look after the house. And despite that, when they come back from work, they r too tired to entertain the husband. One of the factors why some marriages end up with divorces.
5. Parents always try to prevent their children from being in a relationship while they are still studying. Some parents are so carefree and so called open minded that they think it's cool if their 13 year old child has a bf/gf. Why won't parents allow their children to be in a relationship while studying? Well, relationship can be distracting to your studies. God knows, when you and your partner have a fight, for some young emo people, they think the world is going to end and thus can't concentrate on their studies. Marriage is a big responsibility.
6. With this current 14 old girl girl's case, people think they are an ideal couple because the guy seems to be "islamic" since he's tutoring religion to the girl's siblings. That is also the explanation on how they met. Yeah, he's so professional too. Tutor + flirting. You know, people always like to use RELIGION as a defence to something as controversial as this. they think, oh the girl and the guy are religiously well taught, marriage shouldn't be a problem. With the knowledge of religion, the relationship should be blessed. Did you hear of the story when the ustazah was caught having an affair and she claims she's unhappy with her husband? Mind you, that's an USTAZAH you are talking about.
7. Would there be a bigger uproar to this controversial marriage if the guy was perhaps 30, 40 or even 50 while the girl is still 14 years old? Why should there be any difference if you claim that the girl is a 14 year old mature girl? Maybe some people are so so with this marriage because the age difference isn't that great, just 9 years. But the main issue here is that most people are unhappy because the child is just a child. And who cares if she's not forced to get married? People will attack her parents anyway.
8. If every 14 year old claims they are mature enough to get married, why is there a need to rate movies as to whether its contents are suitable for underage viewers or not. I can be a 14 year old and i can claim i'm mature enough to watch a movie that contents sex and violence.
9. Yeah, i read somewhere that in Islam, there is no AGE LIMIT to getting married. This will be some of the defending arguments that will be used by Muslims who wants to get married below the age of majority. Use your common sense people, don't make the religion look bad.
10. The concept of pedophile will be made redundant if this kind of young marriage trend were to continue. What is a PEDOPHILE? Dictionary.com --> a person who is sexually attracted to children. A man can disguise his pedophile tendencies by disguising his relationship with a child as a MARRIAGE. You know, if it's OKAY for a 14 year old to get married, why not an 8, 9, 10 or 12 year old. Some girls already get their period even at the age of 5.
11. And what kind of a man let themselves have "FEELINGS" for children? Don't you have an age limit on what kind of people who you can flirt with?
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Saturday, December 11, 2010
Random Thoughts of The Day : 11.12. 2010
1. People say when you are married, you shouldn't tell your marriage problems to a third party. For me, it's better to tell your friends because your friends won't INTERFERE. But if you tell your PARENTS, your parents will DEFINITELY INTERFERE. Why?
a. They see your partner often, obviously they might bring up some of the problems either directly or indirectly.
b. They think you guys are a FAMILY NOW. So as family, they have rights to interfere.
c. They spend money on your wedding etc, they look after your child. So it's implied they have a say in the family if there's a problem.
Sharing problems is a good thing, that way you will know whether what you did is wrong or right. You can try marriage counseling but that would mean you and your partner have to hear each others problem and if one partner is not happy hearing about that problem, you are dead. Honestly, if you have a problem with your partner, just tell it to your partner. Why prolong an irritating problem?
2. Patience. Don't even claim that you are patient or accept things as there are with your partner if you are cheating behind her/his back. People say they have a so called "problem" with their partner and it's an ongoing problem. If they tell the partner, the partner wouldn't listen or change. So why not go for a break up/divorce? Most people simply don't want to take this drastic solution but yet they have the nerve to say they accept things as there are but turning to the wrong solution, a.k.a affairs/scandals/cheating.
3. I'm beginning to think affairs are a norm in relationship, especially in marriage. Ignorance is bliss.
4. Children. I went to Ikea today and so damn annoyed with the children running around. For crying out loud, why don't you just send your children to the playhouse while you do your errands in the store? I don't mind if your child is well behaved not running around. And why am i annoyed with running children? Coz i can knocked them over with my trolley and I DO FEEL LIKE DOING IT. It's bad enough that the place is crowded with adults and now with children too? And do you know it's not good to bring your newborn child out to a crowded place?
5. People who like to show off should get a life. No point having fancy stuff if you are having many debts.
6. License to Love. Attempting or committing suicide over a failed relationship is lame and pathetic. Sometimes i wonder why some people are so emotional when it comes to relationship, as if the world will end if you can't have that guy or girl. Your dignity is more important than your partner. Some people are simply not fit to be in a relationship if they can't think rationally.
a. They see your partner often, obviously they might bring up some of the problems either directly or indirectly.
b. They think you guys are a FAMILY NOW. So as family, they have rights to interfere.
c. They spend money on your wedding etc, they look after your child. So it's implied they have a say in the family if there's a problem.
Sharing problems is a good thing, that way you will know whether what you did is wrong or right. You can try marriage counseling but that would mean you and your partner have to hear each others problem and if one partner is not happy hearing about that problem, you are dead. Honestly, if you have a problem with your partner, just tell it to your partner. Why prolong an irritating problem?
2. Patience. Don't even claim that you are patient or accept things as there are with your partner if you are cheating behind her/his back. People say they have a so called "problem" with their partner and it's an ongoing problem. If they tell the partner, the partner wouldn't listen or change. So why not go for a break up/divorce? Most people simply don't want to take this drastic solution but yet they have the nerve to say they accept things as there are but turning to the wrong solution, a.k.a affairs/scandals/cheating.
3. I'm beginning to think affairs are a norm in relationship, especially in marriage. Ignorance is bliss.
4. Children. I went to Ikea today and so damn annoyed with the children running around. For crying out loud, why don't you just send your children to the playhouse while you do your errands in the store? I don't mind if your child is well behaved not running around. And why am i annoyed with running children? Coz i can knocked them over with my trolley and I DO FEEL LIKE DOING IT. It's bad enough that the place is crowded with adults and now with children too? And do you know it's not good to bring your newborn child out to a crowded place?
5. People who like to show off should get a life. No point having fancy stuff if you are having many debts.
6. License to Love. Attempting or committing suicide over a failed relationship is lame and pathetic. Sometimes i wonder why some people are so emotional when it comes to relationship, as if the world will end if you can't have that guy or girl. Your dignity is more important than your partner. Some people are simply not fit to be in a relationship if they can't think rationally.
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
Possible Solutions to Baby Dumping
Cases of baby dumping are on the rise in Malaysia, thus many authorities try to find the solution to overcome this sickening problem. I was reading an article in yesterday's paper in NST where the Malacca Islamic Religious Council has agreed male Muslims below 18 and female Muslims below 16 to wed provided there's permission from Syariah court and the parents.
Why do people get married? I give you some of the reasons :
1. Prevent out of wedlock sexual intercourse and out of wedlock pregnancy since it's immoral and sinful.
2. Undying love for each other.
3. Financially stable to get married.
4. Ready to build a family.
5. And many more reasons.
So you get married if you have the financial means, you find someone you love and you are ready to settle down.
There are those who think that it's better just to get married to prevent social illness like sex out of wedlock. Not much consideration is given whether those who are about to get married get a proper picture what marriage is all about. They don't think about this because they are driven by lust.
Of course it's good to get married to prevent social illness but the downside to this is that when people don't fully understand the concept of marriage get married, that's when all the marriage problem will arise like infidelity or early divorces.
18 year old boys getting married... do they have the financial means to look after a wife and a child without the help of his parents? he just finished secondary school for crying out loud and isn't this the time for him to get a degree? Then when he has a child with his wife, they will dump the child with the parents while the two of them will go to work to earn money. Or the two can be married without having a child and can still continue with marriage? This would be the better and acceptable scenario but it's hardly the case. Only those who are careful with their future will not get pregnant at such an early age. Then again, baby dumping and pregnancy out of wedlock won't happen if the parties were smart and careful right?
Unwanted pregnancies happen because people are NOT CAREFUL and they don't use their brains to think by taking measures to prevent such thing from happening. The least you can do is have safe sex.
Thus, i still believe providing SEX EDUCATION is the better method to give rise to awareness, unless the people are too stupid and ignorant to care.
And shouldn't abortion be cheaper than the cost of having to raise a baby? And you rather kill an innocent life by letting it fully developed only to kill it later by dumping the baby in the open compare to aborting it at an early stage? If you are gonna be evil, be the better evil and choose abortion.
My idea is all about giving awareness to those who might not be totally aware about sex and the consequences aside from only being aware of how fun it is until the baby pops out.
Why do people get married? I give you some of the reasons :
1. Prevent out of wedlock sexual intercourse and out of wedlock pregnancy since it's immoral and sinful.
2. Undying love for each other.
3. Financially stable to get married.
4. Ready to build a family.
5. And many more reasons.
So you get married if you have the financial means, you find someone you love and you are ready to settle down.
There are those who think that it's better just to get married to prevent social illness like sex out of wedlock. Not much consideration is given whether those who are about to get married get a proper picture what marriage is all about. They don't think about this because they are driven by lust.
Of course it's good to get married to prevent social illness but the downside to this is that when people don't fully understand the concept of marriage get married, that's when all the marriage problem will arise like infidelity or early divorces.
18 year old boys getting married... do they have the financial means to look after a wife and a child without the help of his parents? he just finished secondary school for crying out loud and isn't this the time for him to get a degree? Then when he has a child with his wife, they will dump the child with the parents while the two of them will go to work to earn money. Or the two can be married without having a child and can still continue with marriage? This would be the better and acceptable scenario but it's hardly the case. Only those who are careful with their future will not get pregnant at such an early age. Then again, baby dumping and pregnancy out of wedlock won't happen if the parties were smart and careful right?
Unwanted pregnancies happen because people are NOT CAREFUL and they don't use their brains to think by taking measures to prevent such thing from happening. The least you can do is have safe sex.
Thus, i still believe providing SEX EDUCATION is the better method to give rise to awareness, unless the people are too stupid and ignorant to care.
And shouldn't abortion be cheaper than the cost of having to raise a baby? And you rather kill an innocent life by letting it fully developed only to kill it later by dumping the baby in the open compare to aborting it at an early stage? If you are gonna be evil, be the better evil and choose abortion.
My idea is all about giving awareness to those who might not be totally aware about sex and the consequences aside from only being aware of how fun it is until the baby pops out.
Compliments and Criticisms
They say that if you have nothing nice to say, then you better just shut up. That's one of my principles in life among my many other principles.
It's human nature that we like to hear compliments and not criticisms. We become proud and happy if we received compliments and upset if we are being criticized. Sometimes, criticism is necessary especially when you are working or studying because we need to produce good results or work. Without criticism, you won't be able to better yourself when there's a need for you to better yourself.
However, there are some people who like to criticized unnecessarily. The possible reasons why people criticized you unnecessarily :
1. they naturally don't like you.
2. they feel better if they criticized you.
3. they simply have a foul mouth and are insensitive beings.
4. they THINK they are doing it for your own good. But you DON'T THINK so.
Being commented you are fat or you gained weight is a common thing in society. General rule, being called fat is a criticism. While being called skinny, thin, slim is a compliment and when someone say you lose weight it's also a compliment provided you are not sick or a drug addict. That's what you get living in a SUPERFICIAL society.
My question : why do you need to tell someone that he/she gained weight or is fat? WHY?! Are you concern about his health? Gaining slight weight doesn't mean you are doomed for diabetes or heart attack. Skinny people do get heart attack you know.
Some say they comment such thing because they think the other person DON'T REALIZED his physical flaw. Excuse me, the other person sees his naked body in front of the mirror everyday and you think he doesn't know what flaw his body has?
It's not just about weight but sometimes people comment why don't you get your eyebrows trimmed, it looks hideous. Or your hair is horrible, etc etc... The main thing is that people like to comment about PHYSICAL APPEARANCE. Isn't everyone entitled to their very own choice of physical appearance? Not everyone is into looking perfect or plastic or fake.
Another unnecessary critical comment is skin complexion like your are getting darker or you are having pimple break out or whatever it is.
If you are happy with the way you look, why should you change yourself just because someone tell or suggest you to change?
People are so obsessed with looks and if you don't follow the typical-what-society want look, you will be criticized. Like in Malaysia, especially in the Malay community, the typical beauty is being FAIR, SLIM and HEAVY DUTY MAKEUP. This is what i observed anyway.
I don't hear people commenting "Oh, you are so STUPID!" or "Oh, you are so POOR!", but noooo, it's a must to comment on physical appearance. It's like they will die if they don't comment your physical flaw.
Don't comment unless you were asked to comment. Some people are simply happy with the way they look and they don't need some person to lower their self esteem just because he/she doesn't have the ideal look. And if you do want to be commented, be prepared for the worst answer. Who ask you to ask anyway.
It's human nature that we like to hear compliments and not criticisms. We become proud and happy if we received compliments and upset if we are being criticized. Sometimes, criticism is necessary especially when you are working or studying because we need to produce good results or work. Without criticism, you won't be able to better yourself when there's a need for you to better yourself.
However, there are some people who like to criticized unnecessarily. The possible reasons why people criticized you unnecessarily :
1. they naturally don't like you.
2. they feel better if they criticized you.
3. they simply have a foul mouth and are insensitive beings.
4. they THINK they are doing it for your own good. But you DON'T THINK so.
Being commented you are fat or you gained weight is a common thing in society. General rule, being called fat is a criticism. While being called skinny, thin, slim is a compliment and when someone say you lose weight it's also a compliment provided you are not sick or a drug addict. That's what you get living in a SUPERFICIAL society.
My question : why do you need to tell someone that he/she gained weight or is fat? WHY?! Are you concern about his health? Gaining slight weight doesn't mean you are doomed for diabetes or heart attack. Skinny people do get heart attack you know.
Some say they comment such thing because they think the other person DON'T REALIZED his physical flaw. Excuse me, the other person sees his naked body in front of the mirror everyday and you think he doesn't know what flaw his body has?
It's not just about weight but sometimes people comment why don't you get your eyebrows trimmed, it looks hideous. Or your hair is horrible, etc etc... The main thing is that people like to comment about PHYSICAL APPEARANCE. Isn't everyone entitled to their very own choice of physical appearance? Not everyone is into looking perfect or plastic or fake.
Another unnecessary critical comment is skin complexion like your are getting darker or you are having pimple break out or whatever it is.
If you are happy with the way you look, why should you change yourself just because someone tell or suggest you to change?
People are so obsessed with looks and if you don't follow the typical-what-society want look, you will be criticized. Like in Malaysia, especially in the Malay community, the typical beauty is being FAIR, SLIM and HEAVY DUTY MAKEUP. This is what i observed anyway.
I don't hear people commenting "Oh, you are so STUPID!" or "Oh, you are so POOR!", but noooo, it's a must to comment on physical appearance. It's like they will die if they don't comment your physical flaw.
Don't comment unless you were asked to comment. Some people are simply happy with the way they look and they don't need some person to lower their self esteem just because he/she doesn't have the ideal look. And if you do want to be commented, be prepared for the worst answer. Who ask you to ask anyway.
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Thoughts In My Head - 28th May 2010
1. Woke up this morning feeling de ja vu.
2. Prince of Persia was a good movie. Jake Gyllenhaal is funny. Hot too but not hot enough to make me swoon like Micheal Ballack :L. You know, people can be typically beautiful or handsome but there are some that are "attractive". Attractive doesn't have to be good looking but there's something about that person's personality or particular unique look that makes you attract to them. Like Jake, he's not good looking but i find him attractive. The actor Bradley Cooper is good looking but i don't find him attractive. He reminds me of Hithrik Roshan (Bollywood actor). i don't watch Hindustan movies anymore. Find them irritating now.
3. So many married people are unfit to be married.
4. It's not your problem but you feel frustrated by it because you want justice to be done.
5. People with cheating spouses, are they so ignorant of reality that they fail to see their partner was cheating the whole time? I guess it's true, when you have a problem with your spouse, the best solution is to discuss it with them. But that was also one of the reasons why i broke up with my ex. We had a problem, he told me his problem with me, i acknowledged my flaw. I refused to change so hence, i told him better we break up. He didn't see that as a solution. Well, for me it's a straight forward and reasonable solution. What's the point of being together if that flaw of mine is causing us to argue frequently? Sure he says he will wait for years for me to change but did he ever think if i never change? And while waiting for the change, that flaw will be the cause of every argument. So doing everybody a favour and having the guts to find a solution, break up is the best. Some people seem to remain in relationships for a long time despite being unhappy because they hope and think things will change for the better. That's a risk. Gambling with the fact that your partner will change for the better.
6. Currently i'm still seeing my ex. People may find that weird. Honestly, i don't have an ounce of feelings towards him or intention of getting back to him (people don't believe me because most ex still have feelings for the ex. Not me, when i say i move on, i move on and behave like i move on). I go out with him because he asked me to and plus i'm still single. Of course i have to remind him constantly that no matter what he do, we will not be together. Am i using him? No. When we go out, i still pay some of the stuff. My friend was right when talking to him one day, he told me that when women sometimes pay for her share instead of letting the guy pay the whole thing every time, it gives the woman some kind of power over men, in other words, he's not 100% dominant over her.
7. I LOOOOOOVEEEEEEE GLEE.
8. I need to concentrate more on my studies.
9. I had a weird dream 2 nights ago but i can't remember. It was very weird and meaningless but interesting.
10. England, Brazil and Italy, you will never win World Cup 2010!!! I just need something to make it a 10 :D.
2. Prince of Persia was a good movie. Jake Gyllenhaal is funny. Hot too but not hot enough to make me swoon like Micheal Ballack :L. You know, people can be typically beautiful or handsome but there are some that are "attractive". Attractive doesn't have to be good looking but there's something about that person's personality or particular unique look that makes you attract to them. Like Jake, he's not good looking but i find him attractive. The actor Bradley Cooper is good looking but i don't find him attractive. He reminds me of Hithrik Roshan (Bollywood actor). i don't watch Hindustan movies anymore. Find them irritating now.
3. So many married people are unfit to be married.
4. It's not your problem but you feel frustrated by it because you want justice to be done.
5. People with cheating spouses, are they so ignorant of reality that they fail to see their partner was cheating the whole time? I guess it's true, when you have a problem with your spouse, the best solution is to discuss it with them. But that was also one of the reasons why i broke up with my ex. We had a problem, he told me his problem with me, i acknowledged my flaw. I refused to change so hence, i told him better we break up. He didn't see that as a solution. Well, for me it's a straight forward and reasonable solution. What's the point of being together if that flaw of mine is causing us to argue frequently? Sure he says he will wait for years for me to change but did he ever think if i never change? And while waiting for the change, that flaw will be the cause of every argument. So doing everybody a favour and having the guts to find a solution, break up is the best. Some people seem to remain in relationships for a long time despite being unhappy because they hope and think things will change for the better. That's a risk. Gambling with the fact that your partner will change for the better.
6. Currently i'm still seeing my ex. People may find that weird. Honestly, i don't have an ounce of feelings towards him or intention of getting back to him (people don't believe me because most ex still have feelings for the ex. Not me, when i say i move on, i move on and behave like i move on). I go out with him because he asked me to and plus i'm still single. Of course i have to remind him constantly that no matter what he do, we will not be together. Am i using him? No. When we go out, i still pay some of the stuff. My friend was right when talking to him one day, he told me that when women sometimes pay for her share instead of letting the guy pay the whole thing every time, it gives the woman some kind of power over men, in other words, he's not 100% dominant over her.
7. I LOOOOOOVEEEEEEE GLEE.
8. I need to concentrate more on my studies.
9. I had a weird dream 2 nights ago but i can't remember. It was very weird and meaningless but interesting.
10. England, Brazil and Italy, you will never win World Cup 2010!!! I just need something to make it a 10 :D.
Sunday, May 23, 2010
The Good, The Bad and The Ugly
When there are good news, people like to tell. When there are bad news, people like to keep quiet. There's nothing wrong to share good news with people but some people share good news with the intention of SHOWING OFF. How do you know? Sometimes you can just tell by the way the person is telling you of the good news. And because when you know the person is trying to show off, it irritates you. Example of showing off? You can say your daughter is getting married but in addition to that, you added that she's getting married to a rich man or a so called "anak dato". That my dear friends, is showing off in disguise.
Sometimes showing off happens when you tell people a certain info voluntarily without being asked. Then again, whether the person is showing off or is genuinely trying to tell you of something good happening to them, it will depend on the circumstances of the situation. Perhaps when the good news or voluntarily giving info of good news is always frequent, it'll tend to look like showing off.
As for bad news, people don't want to share bad news for the obvious reasons, it's embarrassing and humiliating. Since i'm a student, the common example i can give you is when a person show off she has good results but when her results are bad, she keeps quiet about it. Don't you just hate people who, after finding out her result is good, she goes around calling people and asking what are their results but if her results are bad, she won't call any of her friends because she's afraid her friends will ask her results.
For me, i keep a simple principle, tell when you are asked. But if you want to show off in your social network or blogs, go ahead, it's yours anyway right? And people will only know about it if they bother to read bout it.
Because of an incident when this person thinks that i'm showing off just because i have new things and asked her what she thinks of it, i never bother to ask people's opinion that often any more. Hell, my genuine intention was to ask what she really thinks of the new shoes or clothes that i bought. Not to show off i have a lot of money and can buy it. So right now, if someone noticed that i have something new and asked about it, only then i will further ask what she/he thinks of it.
As for bad things, if something bad happened to me, of course i'll keep quiet but if people ask, i'll answer instead of avoiding people in hopes that i don't have to answer any so called "controversial" questions about my life. I don't see the point of hiding something bad because in the end people will know about it and people will bitched even more since you LIED to them when they inquired to you about it. Hence, don't pretend as if your life is blessed with perfection and show it off to the public while keeping quiet about bad stuff, it'll only give others more reason to attack you. Sometimes what's bad to others you can somehow make it look good for yourself ;-). Of course, if something is personal, you shouldn't tell, be it good or bad.
Sometimes showing off happens when you tell people a certain info voluntarily without being asked. Then again, whether the person is showing off or is genuinely trying to tell you of something good happening to them, it will depend on the circumstances of the situation. Perhaps when the good news or voluntarily giving info of good news is always frequent, it'll tend to look like showing off.
As for bad news, people don't want to share bad news for the obvious reasons, it's embarrassing and humiliating. Since i'm a student, the common example i can give you is when a person show off she has good results but when her results are bad, she keeps quiet about it. Don't you just hate people who, after finding out her result is good, she goes around calling people and asking what are their results but if her results are bad, she won't call any of her friends because she's afraid her friends will ask her results.
For me, i keep a simple principle, tell when you are asked. But if you want to show off in your social network or blogs, go ahead, it's yours anyway right? And people will only know about it if they bother to read bout it.
Because of an incident when this person thinks that i'm showing off just because i have new things and asked her what she thinks of it, i never bother to ask people's opinion that often any more. Hell, my genuine intention was to ask what she really thinks of the new shoes or clothes that i bought. Not to show off i have a lot of money and can buy it. So right now, if someone noticed that i have something new and asked about it, only then i will further ask what she/he thinks of it.
As for bad things, if something bad happened to me, of course i'll keep quiet but if people ask, i'll answer instead of avoiding people in hopes that i don't have to answer any so called "controversial" questions about my life. I don't see the point of hiding something bad because in the end people will know about it and people will bitched even more since you LIED to them when they inquired to you about it. Hence, don't pretend as if your life is blessed with perfection and show it off to the public while keeping quiet about bad stuff, it'll only give others more reason to attack you. Sometimes what's bad to others you can somehow make it look good for yourself ;-). Of course, if something is personal, you shouldn't tell, be it good or bad.
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