Why People Do Stupid Things For Love...

When i say STUPID things, i mean the following :

1. Hurting yourself or commit suicide when the love goes wrong.

2. Stalking, threatening your partner when your partner breaks up with you.

3. Punishing yourself by isolating yourself from the world or potential partners. These are people who think about their ex. I call it stupid because in life, you always move on andby not leaving the memory of your ex behind, you can never move on. Not only are you torturing yourself but you are hurting your potential partners when you choose to be with them but you can't get over your ex.

4. By being depressed over a failed relationship.


And WHY people do stupid things for love?

1. They are a sucker for romantic movies. Watching too much of these crap can really damage your brain. I mean, it's okay to watch it occasionally but ALWAYS? And kindly stay away from those really lame romance movies. It's true, sometimes movies can really brainwash your mind, if you are WEAK. Once i read in a newspaper about why Indians are the most likely to commit suicide (this was in regards to the incident where the mother brought her children do the railway to commit suicide), they say it's because of the influence of Indian movies. Hmm, i can't really remember many Indian movies that show couples trying to commit suicide, then again, i've stopped watching Hindustan movies. The last i could remember of attempt at suicide is the movie BOBBY, where they try to drown themselves. Hell, i wish their parents weren't on time to save their asses. I really hate when people try to commit suicide because of love. That's just too retarded. Another incident i read was in the newspaper where this idiot guy tried to swallow poison because he found out his gf is engaged to another guy. Asshole.

2. They gave everything to their partner. So when they partner choose to leave them, they become lost and disorientated. That's why people say never give 100% of your love. Just because you don't love your partner 100%, doesn't mean you don't love your partner. If you don't love your partner, how can you feel hurt or jealous when your partner did something taht hurt you?

3. Lacked rationality and reasonableness. When you don't value your dignity, you do stupid things for love. Why BEG for someone to accept you when the person already dumped you? Is your love for that person so great that you are willing to sacrifice your dignity? Why do you choose look weak and vulnerable? You may feel weak and vulnerable inside over a break up or love gone bad but never show on the outside how weak you are. Firstly, it damages your dignity and secondly it indirectly gives satisfaction to your ex partner of the power they had over you and in a way, you won't get any respect from your ex partner. Do you really want to do that? Personally, i don't think it's an attractive trait at all.