Too Open or Too Conservative

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wjehii-jjHE&feature=player_embedded

Above is a link that will lead you to a video of a bunch of 7 year old girls doing a dancing performance of Beyonce's Single Ladies. We all know how Beyonce video clips are like, a lot of booty shaking, grinding and whatever things she wants to shake that will men explode with raging testosterone hormones. Basically, her dances are sexual and erotic. Nothing innocent about it

So the dance sequences performed by the girls are exactly like Beyonce's.

But people have this thinking that goes : adult stuff done by adult is not good for adult but is okay for children because children don't have well developed boobs and asses to shake hence there can't be any sexual tension between a female child and a grown up male adult. Well, then explain the existence of paedophiles?

Hence ...

1. If a 20 year old girl were to wear a midriff bearing her tummy, walking in public, people will call her a slut and her dressing is inappropriate but if you dress a 7 year old girl that way, people don't think it's troubling.

2. If a 20 year old girl were to dance and shake her booty provocatively, people will find it offensive and improper. If a 7 year old girl were to do it, people will think she's cute or talented.

My question is : why is it not okay for an adult to do a particular thing but it's okay for a child to do the same thing? If the thing it self is morally wrong, who cares what kind of person regardless of age or gender does it?

I think children shouldn't dance dances that have sexual elements which are performed by adults.

Again, why do you make children wear adult clothes? You think it's cute? Seriously? Why don't you think it cute on a full grown adult woman with developed assets? It'll look even better. So back to the children who are performing the Beyonce's dance. Is it appropriate for them to wear such costume for any performance? It looks like a stripper costume. You like to dress and make up your child to look like a stripper/hooker?

Only recently i saw a video where a 4 year old child was shown smoking and looking at porn. 4 YEAR OLD doing these disgusting things? And the way he act is already like an adult. He's surrounded by irresponsible jackass people who taught him these. The adults around him encourage him to do smoke, probably thinking it's cool, cute and funny how a 4 year old try to imitate an adult.

You think it's cute how a child try to imitate and adult? doing things only adult suppose to be doing? So you think it's cute teaching a 7 year old to pole dance or belly dancing (the exotic belly dancing, not the normal one).

Sometimes as an adult, i feel embarrass that we are teaching and encouraging children to do all these. Children should be doing what is meant for children. Let them wear those long frilly gowns, not mini skirts and halter top. Let them dance children dance, not grinding here and there like a horny prostitute. Let them listen to children music and do dances from children musical, not listen to grown up songs talking about love, break up, heartbreaks or whatever crap adults listen to and do dances from it.

Are we training children to do the wrong things? Eventually these children will grow up and enter their teens years and that's when they will screw up their life (some). If they want to dress sexy, smoke, take drugs, watch porno, dance like a hooker, grind their booty or whatever, let them decide to do it and not us adult encouraging them to do it just because it's supposedly soooo cute to be done by children.

As long as they are children, we adults are responsible for whatever bad things happened to them. Children don't learn bad things unless it comes from adult. So when they are mature and they want to do bad things, it's their wish and responsible. By then, they will know what's wrong and what's right.