The "Root" of cheating....

And so it seems that I'm very active in talking about cheating and affairs... not thanks to the kind of people that i've met, stories I've heard and Hollywood news where recently it was alleged that Sandra Bullock's husband has 11 mistresses. I love Sandra but she's stupid for marrying a guy which she is aware who's FIRST WIFE was a PORNSTAR. Sandra is a sweetheart, she's no match to a pornstar. And a guy who married a pornstar tells you a lot about him. Hell, one of the 11 mistresses he had is a porn star. Sandra should have seen it coming. But she's still pretty and hot for her age, she can find a better man.

So the ROOT of cheating? SEX. When men are accused of cheating, 99.9% (yes, i have a habit of giving figures to make it sound more dramatic) of them will always sleep with their mistresses. Have you heard of a man who cheats but never sleeps with the other woman? NooOoO... Do you think he just go out for lunch, dinner or a movie with the other woman without sleeping with her? Some cheat just for the sake of getting laid. No strings attached. Some have sex, watch movies, go out on dates with their mistresses. But there's only ONE thing in COMMON, they will most DEFINITELY sleep with that other woman.

Let's trace back to why he sleep with the other woman while being married to another woman or attached to a long term gf :

1. Not getting sex in the marriage.
2. The sex is boring.
3. Not getting enough attention from partner.


And if a guy is actually serious with his mistress and it goes beyond just sex, he'll end up marrying that woman (i'm only talking about LEGAL POLYGAMY). Sometimes it made me wonder, which is better : he actually LOVE his mistress and marries that woman OR that he doesn't love his mistress and just have casual sex with her?