Thursday, March 4, 2010

Reality of relationships

I cam across an article about the relationship about men and women. The writer was listing down things which men do that women don't like, basically the title was pretty much the same thing. It affords some guidelines as to the irritating things that men do that just pisses women off. It's a good article in the sense that as a woman, i felt that all the irritating things that are being listed really do get on my nerves and turned me off about men. Example, turning women into sexual objects via advertisements, video games etc. Making women dressed in sexy and provocative clothes in order to sell things. A lot of female characters in video games are depicted with extremely large boobs. I was telling a friend before that the maker of the video games are PERVERTS and so are the buyers of such video games. Not to sound insulting but Japan is like the pornography of Asia. Look at their "animes". They don't have to be "hentais" to scream sexual contents.

Despite being a good article, i wonder whether men actually read it since men don't really read stuff unless there's sexual connotation to it. If only few men read it, then it'll be pointless since the article is aimed for men to be more aware of their "annoying" habits. Sure men do read stuff but when it comes to 'caring' and 'pleasing' women, they don't really care. Well, if im wrong and that men do actually READ A LOT on things about women necessity and sex stuff, im sorry for being shallow.

For guys out there, who find it DIFFICULT to get women, this is the reality :

A. How to attract a lot of women? Where they will come to you like bees attracted to honey :

1. You are good looking with good body.
2. You are filthy rich.
3. Good in bed? Hardly that important if you are talking about physical attraction (as in things that you can see on the outside). Being good in bed is probably important if you want to keep a woman.

P/s : there's a lot of women like this and from the looks of things, men don't really care if a woman is a gold digger as long as he's being surrounded by a lot of pretty hot women willing to fulfill his needs. Somehow a lot of men have this EXTREMELY LAME mentality that if they have a lot of women at their feet, it means they are "cool" and "happening". Whatever. "Buying" women doesn't make you a cool person.


B. How to attract women for a lasting relationship :

1. Stop acting like a naturally born pervert. One can be naughty, but not pervert. I'm sure you can tell the difference.
2. Respect a woman and you shall equally be respected by the woman.
3. Be more considerate of their feelings because they are sensitive. Never touch on weight. This need a lot of elaboration but i hope you can figure it out yourself.
4. Give constant attention. Women are like cats. They carve for attention.


P/s : in this modern age, women can be as equally bad as men. they are a lot of cheating women out there. Sometimes it takes experiences in relationship to figure out what went wrong in your past relationships. They key is never trust someone 100% no matter how much you think they can be trusted or how they seem to look like a trustworthy person.

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