P/S : For those who are married or are getting married, DON'T READ THIS ENTRY.
The "Last Touch" have been a common phrase which i've been hearing frequently lately. It applies to people who have sex or oral sex with their ex partner before getting married to another person. They call it final because they claim they won't be naughty once they are married. *Snorts*... Tell me that once your marriage have enter year 5 or year 10.
They are people who are involved with commitment relationship but yet they are sleeping around with other people. I'm talking about both men and women because i hear stories of both doing this. It amazes me to know there are a bunch of people who can be in a committed relationship, saying "i love you", "you are my world", "i can't live without you" and other various romantic crap lines but at the same time sleep with other people. No doubt, i do believe that they do love their partner despite their whoring activities.
This kind of people are greedy. They want stability from their committed partner and at the same time enjoyment from their sexual partner.
It makes me wonder, if you can't be loyal and committed while in a relationship, what makes you think you can when you get married? Although i'm not married, i know marriage is a very difficult task. You have to live with another human being who can be totally opposite from you for the rest of you life and you need high tolerance for that. Some say if they have a child, it should make them more responsible. I wouldn't even want to tell you stories which contradicts this because i don't want to sound as if i'm the queen of marriage destroyer. One thing i will tell you, don't think having a child or more children will keep your marriage SECURE. Learn from the local actress Abby Abadi.
There's only one philosophy in marriage, "ignorance is bliss". What your partner don't know won't hurt the marriage. And when the time your partner eventually finds out, he or she will be TOO OLD to give a shit to your past affairs which you committed while in the marriage.
Going back to the Last Touch thing, i hope i don't have to hear about it anymore because the more i hear of it, the more fake and untruthful marriages are on its way to the making. It only undermines the marriage institution. Real marriages these days are very rare.
Some people have the privileges to only hear the beauty part about marriage.
While some have the privileges to hear the bad but truthful part about marriage. Then again, it's only human nature that people want to hear good things. That's why fairy tales always end with happy endings. Yes, i'm very negative thinker but that's because i acknowledged the pros and cons of everything in life. Good things are always expected while the bad things are very unexpected. Never take things for granted.
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