Happy Father's Day 2010!

Father's Day is this coming Sunday. Unfortunately i won't be able to meet him on Sunday since he's going to Terengganu with my brother. But i'll meet him on Tuesday... Anway, i bought him a card, and i really like the words written on the card because that's exactly how i feel. Below is a picture which i took of the card :





And below is the crap that i wrote in the card :-) :



On special occasions, i love to give cards to my love ones. When i had a bf before, i would give him cards for his birthday, valentines and anniversary. And he'll give me cards too, but he'll just write one, two or three sentences. MEN!

Why i like to give cards? Knowing myself, i express my feelings better through words in writing rather than verbally. Very rare for me to express words verbally but i do do it sometimes. I don't say words like "I Love You" or "I Miss You" easily. I only say it when i really mean it. I put value to those words so sometimes it amazes me how many men can say i love you or i miss you to me that easily even when they r not my bf. It just shows either they say that frequently to all girls or they don't really mean it.

Anyway, what i write in cards i mean it. Perhaps that's why i can write a lot in cards because i don't know how to say it verbally or too shy to say it verbally.

So back to Father's day. My dad is the number 1 Man in my life. No man, including my husband (if i had one in the future) can overtake that number 1 spot but that doesn't mean i don't love my bf/husband. It's only logical that my dad is at the number ONE spot because he has been looking after me since the day i was born, provide me with necessities of life, give me the best things in life and always looking out for me.

And what does my partner do? Sure he will look after me once I'm married to him but he will never sacrifice himself as much as my dad. Again, this is only logical. Men will care for his children more than his wife. Why not? Children is his own flesh and blood. Ha, that's why when you read cases on "wills", the husband will leave more to the children than his wife.

Not every man can be the best dad in the world. Not every man can live up to the task of being a responsible father. You hear stories of so many irresponsible fathers doing irresponsible things that they don't deserve to be called fathers at all like rape, backstabbing, murder, etc. I'm just very thankful and grateful that my dad isn't like that and that he's always there when i need him the most. I will always remember the sacrifices he made for me for the past 24 years of my life.

I have learned a lot from my dad. He's a wise man. In a way, i think 60% of my personality is more like him while the 40% is like my mom.