Today i read in the news about a Malay celebrity who married his "adik angkat". I was like ??!!. Isn't it kindda disgusting to marry someone who you treat as an adik angkat? Sure, some will say it's not disgusting because it's allowed since you are not blood related. But you don't see the bigger picture here. This is what i personally think :
Is there any difference when you call someone a FRIEND, GF/BF and adik angkat?
A friend is basically someone you like and spend your time with because you guys have some kind of common interest.
GF/BF is someone you love and want to be intimate with.
Adik/Abang/Angkat is like making someone who is not blood related to you as a family member because you probably adore them as a sibling and don't have the urges to be intimate with him/her. If you want to be intimate with him/her you would make her/him your lover right?
When i was in HIGH SCHOOL, there is a stupid,lame and pathetic trend where the senior students will make the junior students (especially the cute pretty or handsome ones) as their adik angkat. My problem with this is that there will be FLIRTING going on. Some will even end up coupling with each other.
So really, what's the point of this adik/abang/kakak angkat concept? Does giving the title adik angkat give you a strong reason to shower gifts and be "super friendly" with your adik angkat without people immediately jumping into conclusion that you and your adik angkat have "something" going on? I can compare this to a situation where a guy is so eager to make you his gf because if you are his gf, he can touch you.
People really need to respect the essence of adik/kakak/abang angkat. If i told you i had an ayah angkat and 5 years later told you i'm gonna marry him, doesn't that sound retarded? Why should it be any different with an adik angkat?
Sunday, April 24, 2011
Thursday, April 21, 2011
Whorish Couple
Ah my dearest blog, sorry for abandoning you for some time. Been a little bit tired from work. It's more like mentally tired. I feel tired but i can't sleep. Maybe i need some time to get used to the working schedule.
So blogging time!
What is a Whorish Couple? Lately i've been noticing some people (couple) who like to post pictures of themselves in a SEXUAL MANNER. Seriously, why? Do you want to give the impression that you have f*cked each other before? Or groped and fondled each other? The world doesn't need to know you guys have had sex or making out non stop as if making out is a declaration of your undying love for each other.
There are DECENT couples too. This kind of couple take pics with each other in a loving non sexual manner. I mean the girl can be wearing sexy but the way she pose with her bf doesn't have any SEXUAL ELEMENT. Hugging is not sexual. Like the other day, i saw there's a picture of this guy with his gf where both of them are like topless. of course you can't see the girl's boobs but obviously she's naked or half naked. I don't know, maybe the guy think it's cool to show off he's f*cking his gf.
It's not just pictures, but you can see LIVE couples acting whorish. Like :
1. Kissing in public.
2. Hugging while using the escalator and face so close that you just want to bump their heads together.
3. The guy hugging the girl from behind.
All these are PDA a.k.a Public Display of Affection
You don't see older couples doing this kind of nonsense. Only those young naive couples who think it's SOOO COOL to have a gf/bf. Seriously, you don't couple because it's a trend or it's cool. That's so stupid.
Even when i was in my teens i don't do this kind of nonsense with my ex bfs. I don't need to show my affections to my partner in public. Why act like you want to hump each other in public when you can just hold hands?
So when i see such couples doing this kind of nonsense, i will smile gleefully when they break up. When in love you wanna show off, why not show off when break up? But judging from the so called "loving" a.k.a sexual pics, you look as if you will last forever *sarcasm*
What you do with your partner should always be kept private.
So blogging time!
What is a Whorish Couple? Lately i've been noticing some people (couple) who like to post pictures of themselves in a SEXUAL MANNER. Seriously, why? Do you want to give the impression that you have f*cked each other before? Or groped and fondled each other? The world doesn't need to know you guys have had sex or making out non stop as if making out is a declaration of your undying love for each other.
There are DECENT couples too. This kind of couple take pics with each other in a loving non sexual manner. I mean the girl can be wearing sexy but the way she pose with her bf doesn't have any SEXUAL ELEMENT. Hugging is not sexual. Like the other day, i saw there's a picture of this guy with his gf where both of them are like topless. of course you can't see the girl's boobs but obviously she's naked or half naked. I don't know, maybe the guy think it's cool to show off he's f*cking his gf.
It's not just pictures, but you can see LIVE couples acting whorish. Like :
1. Kissing in public.
2. Hugging while using the escalator and face so close that you just want to bump their heads together.
3. The guy hugging the girl from behind.
All these are PDA a.k.a Public Display of Affection
You don't see older couples doing this kind of nonsense. Only those young naive couples who think it's SOOO COOL to have a gf/bf. Seriously, you don't couple because it's a trend or it's cool. That's so stupid.
Even when i was in my teens i don't do this kind of nonsense with my ex bfs. I don't need to show my affections to my partner in public. Why act like you want to hump each other in public when you can just hold hands?
So when i see such couples doing this kind of nonsense, i will smile gleefully when they break up. When in love you wanna show off, why not show off when break up? But judging from the so called "loving" a.k.a sexual pics, you look as if you will last forever *sarcasm*
What you do with your partner should always be kept private.
Thursday, April 14, 2011
Gay Muslims
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-12486003
The article above is about a Gay Imam and how Gay Muslims are getting married by 'nikah'
I'm not a saint and i do commit sins. And if my religion, Islam says something is a sin, i accept it. I won't go around saying the sinful thing is not a sin. I won't encourage people to do what i did because it is a sin. So if what i did is a sin, why do i still do it anyway? Human weakness. But I do feel guilt and shame. And the guilt and shame to God and Public is the main reason why i keep quiet about my sinful acts.
But there is ANOTHER KIND of people who do a sinful act without any shame or perhaps even try to use the name of religion to make that sinful act non sinful. A perfect example of this is where gay people insist that they should be allowed to get married. If i was gay, i would be gay privately. From religious perspective, homosexuality is wrong and sinful so i have no right to demand this and that for being gay which is clearly wrong.
Why do you want to go against the words of God? If He says something is SINFUL, it's sinful. End of story. Don't give excuses saying that heterosexuals have no right to say homosexuality is wrong because the religion clearly prohibits it. Don't say let God be the judge of it because the Quran, Bible and other religious books already shows God's hatred towards homosexuality.
Since i'm a Muslim, i will only quote verses from the Quran :
Verses 7 :80-81, 26:165-172, 27:54-58, 29:28-29 tells the story of Prophet Lut whereby during his time, homosexuality was practiced openly. He told them to ceased such practice but they refused. So God asked Lut and the followers who listened to him to leave the place and in return, God destroyed the place and the people who practices homosexuality.
So you already see the wrath of Allah towards homosexuals, so why are you still doing it again? To make it even worse, homosexuals these days demand their rights to be recognized. Are you defying God openly? It's like as if you are saying what you are doing is NOT A SIN AT ALL.
Verse 4:23 tells a man of the kind of WOMEN he can't marry. This impliedly tells you that MAN CAN ONLY MARRY A WOMAN. If God says men can marry both men and women, why didn't he include the types of MEN which men can't marry too?
According to the article above, the stupid shameless gay imam says that if gays are not allowed to get married, it will be going against the Quran because and i quote him, "Since Islamic legal precedence does not allow same sexes to wed, Muslim societies make it a legal impossibility within Islam [but] by not allowing same-sex couples to wed, there is a direct attack on the Koran's message that each person has a mate who is their 'comfort and their cloak'."
What a pathetic lame argument. Yes, God promises you a MATE but if you are a MAN, your mate is a WOMAN, vice versa. There are many verses in the Quran that says homosexuality is wrong. So why is the stupid imam being IGNORANT?
I simply don't understand why these gays want their rights to be acknowledged by giving them the right to get married. Would it kill you just to be gay in your private capacity? A thief knows that stealing is wrong, that's why he steals quietly and don't go around telling people he's a thief. Having sex out of wedlock is wrong too. Nobody goes around saying they are having sex out of wedlock openly unless he doesn't feel shameful of it.
The article above is about a Gay Imam and how Gay Muslims are getting married by 'nikah'
I'm not a saint and i do commit sins. And if my religion, Islam says something is a sin, i accept it. I won't go around saying the sinful thing is not a sin. I won't encourage people to do what i did because it is a sin. So if what i did is a sin, why do i still do it anyway? Human weakness. But I do feel guilt and shame. And the guilt and shame to God and Public is the main reason why i keep quiet about my sinful acts.
But there is ANOTHER KIND of people who do a sinful act without any shame or perhaps even try to use the name of religion to make that sinful act non sinful. A perfect example of this is where gay people insist that they should be allowed to get married. If i was gay, i would be gay privately. From religious perspective, homosexuality is wrong and sinful so i have no right to demand this and that for being gay which is clearly wrong.
Why do you want to go against the words of God? If He says something is SINFUL, it's sinful. End of story. Don't give excuses saying that heterosexuals have no right to say homosexuality is wrong because the religion clearly prohibits it. Don't say let God be the judge of it because the Quran, Bible and other religious books already shows God's hatred towards homosexuality.
Since i'm a Muslim, i will only quote verses from the Quran :
Verses 7 :80-81, 26:165-172, 27:54-58, 29:28-29 tells the story of Prophet Lut whereby during his time, homosexuality was practiced openly. He told them to ceased such practice but they refused. So God asked Lut and the followers who listened to him to leave the place and in return, God destroyed the place and the people who practices homosexuality.
So you already see the wrath of Allah towards homosexuals, so why are you still doing it again? To make it even worse, homosexuals these days demand their rights to be recognized. Are you defying God openly? It's like as if you are saying what you are doing is NOT A SIN AT ALL.
Verse 4:23 tells a man of the kind of WOMEN he can't marry. This impliedly tells you that MAN CAN ONLY MARRY A WOMAN. If God says men can marry both men and women, why didn't he include the types of MEN which men can't marry too?
According to the article above, the stupid shameless gay imam says that if gays are not allowed to get married, it will be going against the Quran because and i quote him, "Since Islamic legal precedence does not allow same sexes to wed, Muslim societies make it a legal impossibility within Islam [but] by not allowing same-sex couples to wed, there is a direct attack on the Koran's message that each person has a mate who is their 'comfort and their cloak'."
What a pathetic lame argument. Yes, God promises you a MATE but if you are a MAN, your mate is a WOMAN, vice versa. There are many verses in the Quran that says homosexuality is wrong. So why is the stupid imam being IGNORANT?
I simply don't understand why these gays want their rights to be acknowledged by giving them the right to get married. Would it kill you just to be gay in your private capacity? A thief knows that stealing is wrong, that's why he steals quietly and don't go around telling people he's a thief. Having sex out of wedlock is wrong too. Nobody goes around saying they are having sex out of wedlock openly unless he doesn't feel shameful of it.
Saturday, April 9, 2011
Giving a Shot at Malay Comedy
I like comedy movies but not all are worthy to watch. I don't really watch Malay comedies because most of it are typical, try too hard and childish. But yesterday i gave a shot at the comedy Hantu Kak Limah balik ke Kampung. I have to admit, there are like 2-3 scenes that actually made me laughed. So i won't really say it's bad because it managed to make me laughed.
What made me give this movie a shot? Thanks to Facebook for introducing the character "Usop" from Hantu Kak Limah. There was a FB fanpage for him and i read some of the movie lines and it actually sounded funny and smart.
And when i watched the movie, his character attracted me the most. His character was sarcastic and he doesn't try so hard to be funny. His character was even unique : wheel chair bound (but occasionally somehow managed to run away by carrying his wheelchair instead), the constant waving of his right hand, the way he talks and his facial expression.
The prob with most Malay comedy is that there will be at least one very "pondan" like character. The character will be either gay or a man who likes to act,talk and move like a woman. Even Awie character in the movie has a little bit of these typical kind of pondan traits. I don't know, maybe majority of the Malays think this is very funny. I just find it irritating. Usop's character has this pondan kind of character too but somehow it isn't irritating because he's not using his pondanish character to make people laugh.
I'm not totally a big fan of Hollywood comedies either. Some can be really bad and freaking stupid. The worst comedy movie i can remember is "Don't Mess with the Zohan". It's utterly disgusting and what kind of idiot can come up with such bad movie script. It's filled with too many sexual dialogs.
One problem with Hollywood comedy is that they use sex as a joke. If a comedy have to rely on sex jokes through out the movie, then it's not worth watching because majority of the sex jokes will be stupid, disgusting and humiliating to either gender. That was the problem with the movie DON'T MESS WITH THE ZOHAN. A disappointing movie by Adam Sandler because most of his comedies are actually good.
So i don't like comedies that tries too hard to be funny. A good comedy is one where they have really good lines which make you laugh or smile.
What made me give this movie a shot? Thanks to Facebook for introducing the character "Usop" from Hantu Kak Limah. There was a FB fanpage for him and i read some of the movie lines and it actually sounded funny and smart.
And when i watched the movie, his character attracted me the most. His character was sarcastic and he doesn't try so hard to be funny. His character was even unique : wheel chair bound (but occasionally somehow managed to run away by carrying his wheelchair instead), the constant waving of his right hand, the way he talks and his facial expression.
The prob with most Malay comedy is that there will be at least one very "pondan" like character. The character will be either gay or a man who likes to act,talk and move like a woman. Even Awie character in the movie has a little bit of these typical kind of pondan traits. I don't know, maybe majority of the Malays think this is very funny. I just find it irritating. Usop's character has this pondan kind of character too but somehow it isn't irritating because he's not using his pondanish character to make people laugh.
I'm not totally a big fan of Hollywood comedies either. Some can be really bad and freaking stupid. The worst comedy movie i can remember is "Don't Mess with the Zohan". It's utterly disgusting and what kind of idiot can come up with such bad movie script. It's filled with too many sexual dialogs.
One problem with Hollywood comedy is that they use sex as a joke. If a comedy have to rely on sex jokes through out the movie, then it's not worth watching because majority of the sex jokes will be stupid, disgusting and humiliating to either gender. That was the problem with the movie DON'T MESS WITH THE ZOHAN. A disappointing movie by Adam Sandler because most of his comedies are actually good.
So i don't like comedies that tries too hard to be funny. A good comedy is one where they have really good lines which make you laugh or smile.
Tuesday, April 5, 2011
Polygamy Again and Again
So there was this poll on Facebook asking IF THE HUSBAND WANTS TO POLYGAMY AND POLYGAMY THE RIGHT WAY, WILL YOU AGREE? the 2 choice of answers are as follows :
1. Yes. At least he told me.
2. No. Over my dead body!
I answered no 2 of course! I have addressed this matter many times so i'm just gonna make this blog entry short and simple. I need to vent out my anger on this issue anyway and that's why i'm blogging on this matter again.
It bloody hell irks me when Muslim Men used the argument that "Islam allows it. Women shouldn't say it's wrong men can't polygamy". Feel like punching their faces.
Firstly, we didn't say that polygamy is wrong. We women just hate polygamy. And the hate can be justified by the fact that we don't want to share our partner. Did Islam say WE MUST SHARE OUR PARTNER? HELL NO.
Secondly, go ahead and polygamy. If the wife gets angry, you can't blamed her and use religion as your defence.
Thirdly, most men polygamy for all the WRONG REASONS. Why was polygamy allowed in the first place? Because there were many WIDOWS back then because men go to war. Nowadays men just go to prison. By the way, according to recent statistic, in Malaysia, men outnumbered women in terms of population. In other words, there are not enough women for men. You only polygamy when there is too many women but not enough men.
Fourthly, if a man says he wants to help that woman and that's why he wants to make her his 2nd/3rd/4th wife, then just help her FINANCIALLY. Why must you get married to her? Is it also important that you satisfy her lust? And hence that's why you need to get married to her? Isn't it good enough that since you want to be a bloody saint just help her financially? Or you think that what's the point of helping her financially if you don't get to screw her?
Fifthly, it's my PERSONAL OPINION that i think polygamy is like indirect cheating which is legal because it's allowed in Islam. It's INDIRECT CHEATING because why would you marry a woman if you don't love her? So you let yourself fall in love with another woman because you know you have a SAFETY NET a.k.a POLYGAMY IS ALLOWED IN ISLAM. If you say you don't love her but want to marry her because you want to help her out, then give your money to her instead. And it's LEGAL because it's allowed in Islam. If you are not a muslim, then you can be guilty of bigamy. Or you want to come up with an argument that you want to help her fulfill her sexual lust in a legal non sinful manner? One hard powerful kick in the crotch for you is on the way.
And screw you if you think i will let you screw other women while i ONLY screw you.
1. Yes. At least he told me.
2. No. Over my dead body!
I answered no 2 of course! I have addressed this matter many times so i'm just gonna make this blog entry short and simple. I need to vent out my anger on this issue anyway and that's why i'm blogging on this matter again.
It bloody hell irks me when Muslim Men used the argument that "Islam allows it. Women shouldn't say it's wrong men can't polygamy". Feel like punching their faces.
Firstly, we didn't say that polygamy is wrong. We women just hate polygamy. And the hate can be justified by the fact that we don't want to share our partner. Did Islam say WE MUST SHARE OUR PARTNER? HELL NO.
Secondly, go ahead and polygamy. If the wife gets angry, you can't blamed her and use religion as your defence.
Thirdly, most men polygamy for all the WRONG REASONS. Why was polygamy allowed in the first place? Because there were many WIDOWS back then because men go to war. Nowadays men just go to prison. By the way, according to recent statistic, in Malaysia, men outnumbered women in terms of population. In other words, there are not enough women for men. You only polygamy when there is too many women but not enough men.
Fourthly, if a man says he wants to help that woman and that's why he wants to make her his 2nd/3rd/4th wife, then just help her FINANCIALLY. Why must you get married to her? Is it also important that you satisfy her lust? And hence that's why you need to get married to her? Isn't it good enough that since you want to be a bloody saint just help her financially? Or you think that what's the point of helping her financially if you don't get to screw her?
Fifthly, it's my PERSONAL OPINION that i think polygamy is like indirect cheating which is legal because it's allowed in Islam. It's INDIRECT CHEATING because why would you marry a woman if you don't love her? So you let yourself fall in love with another woman because you know you have a SAFETY NET a.k.a POLYGAMY IS ALLOWED IN ISLAM. If you say you don't love her but want to marry her because you want to help her out, then give your money to her instead. And it's LEGAL because it's allowed in Islam. If you are not a muslim, then you can be guilty of bigamy. Or you want to come up with an argument that you want to help her fulfill her sexual lust in a legal non sinful manner? One hard powerful kick in the crotch for you is on the way.
And screw you if you think i will let you screw other women while i ONLY screw you.
Monday, April 4, 2011
The Art of Seduction : 2 CATS, 1 HUMAN
I was busy watching tv when i suddenly heard a cat meowing loudly. First i thought some cats were fighting but it sounded more like a horny male cat meowing. So i went out to check and was all excited when i saw another kitty trying to woo my cat.
The male cat, black and white in colour and which i would like to call him MOO MOO. He wasn't that friendly but since he didn't run away the moment he saw me, he was still approachable so i tried my LUCK to LURE HIM so they i can snuggle him :-). So the events that took place are as follows :
HERE COMES THE SEXY BEAST TO SEDUCE MY CAT...
THE ART OF SEDUCTION BEGAN KINDDA SLOW.. MAYBE COZ I'M WATCHING AND TAKING PICS :-)...
AND NOW BEGINS THE ART OF SEDUCTION.. A LIL BIT OF ROLLING DONE BY THE MALE MOO MOO
BUT MY KITTY WASN'T IMPRESSED...
MOO MOO REALIZED THAT MY KITTY IS A TOUGH COOKIE... SO HE ROLLED TO THE RIGHT...
THEN TO THE LEFT...
HE FINALLY GOT MY KITTY'S ATTENTION...
UNFORTUNATELY HE GOT DISTRACTED BY A BIRD... So TYPICAL OF MALE TO GET DISTRACTED BY OTHER STUFF...
MOO MOO STILL DISTRACTED... SO MY KITTY TOOK THIS OPPORTUNITY TO SCRATCH HER EAR...
NO MORE FIREWORKS...
ART OF SEDUCTION FAILED. A NOTE TO MY KITTY --> NEXT TIME DON'T JUAL MAHAL!
HEHE NOW I'M DEMONSTRATING TO MY KITTY HOW TO SEDUCE A MALE CAT, THE HUMAN VERSION :-)
SCRATCH HERE AND THERE, THE SENSITIVE SPOT LIKE THE NECK... AND WHAT DO YOU GET? THE MALE CAT FALLING FOR UR FRIENDLY CHARMS :-)...
KITTY LOOKED ANNOYED AND JEALOUS OF MY SUCCESSFUL ART OF SEDUCTION.. HEHEH
KITTY --> "I CAN'T TAKE THIS HUMILIATION ANYMORE!!!"
DEJECTED LOOKING KITTY "I GIVE UP!!"
HANDSOME BOY...
A HAPPY AND SATISFIED KITTY AFTER BEING SCRATCHED IN THE NECK AND PETTED LIKE A KING
CURIOUS BOY. OR A SLAVE NOW AT MY FEET NOW :-)?
THE END... I WIN :-)
The male cat, black and white in colour and which i would like to call him MOO MOO. He wasn't that friendly but since he didn't run away the moment he saw me, he was still approachable so i tried my LUCK to LURE HIM so they i can snuggle him :-). So the events that took place are as follows :
HERE COMES THE SEXY BEAST TO SEDUCE MY CAT...
THE ART OF SEDUCTION BEGAN KINDDA SLOW.. MAYBE COZ I'M WATCHING AND TAKING PICS :-)...
AND NOW BEGINS THE ART OF SEDUCTION.. A LIL BIT OF ROLLING DONE BY THE MALE MOO MOO
BUT MY KITTY WASN'T IMPRESSED...
MOO MOO REALIZED THAT MY KITTY IS A TOUGH COOKIE... SO HE ROLLED TO THE RIGHT...
THEN TO THE LEFT...
HE FINALLY GOT MY KITTY'S ATTENTION...
UNFORTUNATELY HE GOT DISTRACTED BY A BIRD... So TYPICAL OF MALE TO GET DISTRACTED BY OTHER STUFF...
MOO MOO STILL DISTRACTED... SO MY KITTY TOOK THIS OPPORTUNITY TO SCRATCH HER EAR...
NO MORE FIREWORKS...
ART OF SEDUCTION FAILED. A NOTE TO MY KITTY --> NEXT TIME DON'T JUAL MAHAL!
HEHE NOW I'M DEMONSTRATING TO MY KITTY HOW TO SEDUCE A MALE CAT, THE HUMAN VERSION :-)
SCRATCH HERE AND THERE, THE SENSITIVE SPOT LIKE THE NECK... AND WHAT DO YOU GET? THE MALE CAT FALLING FOR UR FRIENDLY CHARMS :-)...
KITTY LOOKED ANNOYED AND JEALOUS OF MY SUCCESSFUL ART OF SEDUCTION.. HEHEH
KITTY --> "I CAN'T TAKE THIS HUMILIATION ANYMORE!!!"
DEJECTED LOOKING KITTY "I GIVE UP!!"
HANDSOME BOY...
A HAPPY AND SATISFIED KITTY AFTER BEING SCRATCHED IN THE NECK AND PETTED LIKE A KING
CURIOUS BOY. OR A SLAVE NOW AT MY FEET NOW :-)?
THE END... I WIN :-)
Friday, April 1, 2011
Dealing with Pregnant Women...
I think marriage and having children is one of my many fears. It's not easy to have and maintain these things. Yes, i've never been married, never been pregnant and never have any children of my own so what do i know about any of these things? Simply put it this way, must you try drugs to know that it's bad for you or the hallucination feels good but can cause brain damage? NO. Sometimes we learn from other people's experiences.
So there was this news where this pregnant woman was punched and kicked because her husband was annoyed with her pregnancy cravings. Yes, her husband shouldn't do that no matter how annoying the wife was but i couldn't help but feel that the wife was somehow 30% blamable. She was probably pestering and nagging him about her cravings and he just lost it.
There are STRONG and WEAK pregnant women. The strong ones hardly nags, whines and act like a victim 24/7. These strong ones don't let her pregnancy get into her way if she wants to do something, like work. While the weak ones will constantly nag and whine about her pregnancy and demands everyone around her to be her slaves and carter to her needs. Just because you are pregnant, it doesn't give you a license to be a bitch.
I'm pretty sure there are those who are currently pregnant but don't know what's POST NATAL DEPRESSION. I'm not pregnant but i know what it is. Every time you wanna do something, you THINK about it and you do RESEARCH about it. Like the consequences of getting pregnant. Don't simply go get yourself pregnant because your FERTILITY CLOCK tells you do so. Are you physically, financially and mentally prepared to be pregnant? As for the men, are you ready to deal with a pregnant woman?
As for some stupid men out there, you got your wife pregnant so just tolerate a few months of not able to have sex instead of complaining or having the urge to fool around with other women. And pregnant women, don't expect your men to understand and tolerate your needs that long. They say they don't mind waiting for the sex but in fact they MIND. Despite being pregnant, you need to be sensitive about your man's feelings and needs.
And that's why i'm not married because i don't think i'm ready to deal with any of this crap.
So there was this news where this pregnant woman was punched and kicked because her husband was annoyed with her pregnancy cravings. Yes, her husband shouldn't do that no matter how annoying the wife was but i couldn't help but feel that the wife was somehow 30% blamable. She was probably pestering and nagging him about her cravings and he just lost it.
There are STRONG and WEAK pregnant women. The strong ones hardly nags, whines and act like a victim 24/7. These strong ones don't let her pregnancy get into her way if she wants to do something, like work. While the weak ones will constantly nag and whine about her pregnancy and demands everyone around her to be her slaves and carter to her needs. Just because you are pregnant, it doesn't give you a license to be a bitch.
I'm pretty sure there are those who are currently pregnant but don't know what's POST NATAL DEPRESSION. I'm not pregnant but i know what it is. Every time you wanna do something, you THINK about it and you do RESEARCH about it. Like the consequences of getting pregnant. Don't simply go get yourself pregnant because your FERTILITY CLOCK tells you do so. Are you physically, financially and mentally prepared to be pregnant? As for the men, are you ready to deal with a pregnant woman?
As for some stupid men out there, you got your wife pregnant so just tolerate a few months of not able to have sex instead of complaining or having the urge to fool around with other women. And pregnant women, don't expect your men to understand and tolerate your needs that long. They say they don't mind waiting for the sex but in fact they MIND. Despite being pregnant, you need to be sensitive about your man's feelings and needs.
And that's why i'm not married because i don't think i'm ready to deal with any of this crap.
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