http://malaysia.news.yahoo.com/ap/20101221/tap-as-malaysia-gay-confession-1st-ld-wr-b3c65ae.html
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SJLSteQIcms
Above are the news and video link to the incident where a Malay guy openly confessed that he's gay and proud of it.
I've been wanting to blog about this 2 days ago while the news is still hot but i was having writer's block and i didn't have a comfortable place to blog (busy moving so currently i'm blogging with my laptop on the stool and i'm sitting on the floor and it's hurting my back).
What can you conclude from this video based on what the gay dude is saying?
1. It's hard being gay in Malaysia, especially if you are a MUSLIM (when you are a Malay, it's implied you are a Muslim).
Do tell me, is Islam the only religion that says being a homosexual is a SIN? Islam and Christian tells the story of Prophet Lut/Lot, whereby during his time God turned the world upside down to punish those who practice homosexual lifestyle after the wrongdoers refused to listen to the prophet as the messenger of God. I'm not going to lecture you on religion but since the guy brought religion up, it's only FAIR that i do so.
Let's be truthful, it seems like Muslims are more AGGRESSIVE when it comes to religion and God. We don't like it when people make fun of our religion and neither do we like it when some Muslim suddenly want to be SO BLOODY OPEN and GO AGAINST THE TEACHING OF THE RELIGION OPENLY. We show our anger and some Muslims even go to extend of giving death threats (which i think in certain cases is way too extreme).
I'm not saying other followers don't care about their religion but perhaps they are more laid back, more on forgiving perhaps? Perhaps that is caused by the Western culture. I've seen so many cartoons and even shows making fun of Jesus. I personally think it's wrong, sorry if my sense of humor sucks. I don't like it if people make fun of my family, what more my religion?
Yes, to some of you non muslims out there, you probably think we OVER REACTED when we Muslims become angry when somebody draw a picture of Prophet Muhammad with the bomb on his head or when a Muslim killed the guy who made a very degrading video on Islam (he damn deserved it) BUT we are just showing over strong disapproval. If we just keep quiet, people will be MORE DARING to insult the religion even more. If your child did something wrong, do you, as a parent just keep quiet and let him continue doing that wrong thing? No. You must scold him and punish him, only then he will learn and won't dare repeat the same mistake.
Islam also believe in forgiving, but before you can forgive someone, sometimes punishment in necessary so other people won't dare repeat the same mistake.
2. It's hard being gay in Malaysia because of culture and religion.
Duh, one of Malaysia's RUKUN NEGARA is "Kepercayaan kepada Agama" a.k.a "Believe in Religion". So Religion have more priority than whatever damn human right you want to claim that contradicts the religion. I have to thank my dad for telling me this. He was explaining this to me in regards to why gay marriages in Malaysia shouldn't be allowed.
AM I AGAINST GAY?
Be gay all you want but do it privately. Don't go around telling people it's ok to be gay because it isn't. Even if you don't believe in religion, COMMON SENSE tells you that gay is just against HUMAN NATURE because only sex between a man and woman can produce a child. That's how the system is suppose to work. You know something is WRONG when it DOESN'T WORK. Being gay is all about LUST. Sex out of wedlock is wrong but yet people do it. It is caused by lust. But you can't go around telling people and encouraging people it's OKAY TO HAVE SEX OUT OF WEDLOCK. neither do you encourage people and tell people it's okay to have child out of wedlock. Yes, these things happen even if it's wrong but telling people it's ok is not right.
YOU THINK THESE GAYS WANT TO BE GUIDED TO THE RIGHT PATH?
People can't help you unless you help yourself. If you demand society to accept you into society as a gay, you demand the government to give rights to gay and allow gay marriages, how will all these indicate you want to be guided to the right path?
Allowing all these are just encouraging them to be further from the right path because you are giving them what they want.
IF YOU ACKNOWLEDGE GAY, YOU ARE JUST SPREADING THE "DISEASE"
You think i will be happy if one day i have a son and he chooses to be gay because gay is no longer taboo in society and it's a norm? What's happening now in this world is that whatever bad things that is taboo ages ago have been a norm. Like transvestite and having child out of wedlock. These have become norms. If you do any of these, there won't be shame because it's accepted in society TODAY.
If gay becomes a norm, people who won't do it might do it because it's a normal thing, nothing to be embarrass about.
This is Malaysia. Respect the cultures and religions. Do bad things privately until you get caught and then you face the consequences, don't force society to accept your "bad thing".
This gay guy and people who support him are just stupid idiots. Were they born yesterday? Don't expect to come up with something as stupid as this and declare it openly without getting death threats or harsh criticisms. And then have the nerve to say Malaysians aren't open or too conservative or Muslims are violent. Screw you and your way too liberal immoral values.
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
Sunday, December 19, 2010
Top 10 Gruesome Fairy Tale Origins
Top 10 Gruesome Fairy Tale Origins
This is something interesting to be read... so much for happy endings :-)
This is something interesting to be read... so much for happy endings :-)
Saturday, December 18, 2010
Bad Things - Privacy or Hypocrisy?
This is about good and bad things that happened to you...
Why DO people tell each other GOOD THINGS?
1. They want to share happiness together OR
2. They want to boast OR
3. They tell when being asked about it.
Why WON'T people tell each other GOOD THINGS?
1. They won't tell when not asked OR
2. If they tell, others may think they are being boastful, especially since they never ask you OR
3. To some, some good things can be privacy.
Why DO people tell each other BAD THINGS?
1. Seeking advice or sympathy or opinion.
Why WON'T people tell each other BAD THINGS?
1. Privacy OR
2. It's an embarrassing matter for them.
So the issue here is that some people only want to share the good and happy things that happened to them, thus giving the impression that his life is all perfect. Is it good to give the impression that your life all perfect? That you are invisible and immunized from problems? The General Rule here is that, NOBODY IS PERFECT, no matter how rich or beautiful the person is.
It is further irritating when people tell good things WITHOUT being asked, giving the impression they are being boastful. Of course not all good things which you tell may make you look boastful. Example, if you are going to get married, engaged, get a baby, get a new job, etc.
One common irritating scenario that i face during my schooling years is when it comes to exam results. I observed people telling others that they happily PASSED the exams when no one asked them. Which is a good thing because you are sharing the JOY of your happiness in passing the exams. But then this same person WON'T tell you he FAILED another exam. The funny thing is that, you tell people you pass without people asking you but you won't tell people you fail? And when people ACTUALLY ASK YOU (which you may accuse the person of being insensitive and busy body), you give a very vague answer as to whether you pass or not. Then if you pass an exam you will be busy calling people about their results so that you too can have the opportunity to tell them you passed BUT if you FAILED your exams, you will be MISSING IN ACTION a.k.a won't pick up calls, won't keep in touch with your friends, etc.
Some claim bad things are privacy. One shouldn't tell bad things because it might give bad impression to those who are involved with the "bad things". Example, like marriage. If your marriage is not doing well, why do you let others think it's all perfect and harmony when they ASKED you how it's doing? You don' have to tell them the juicy details on WHAT kind of marriage problems you are having, just tell them it's having its ups and downs and is not as perfect as they claim to be. Because imagine, if 10 years you have been telling your friends how perfect your marriage is and suddenly you get a divorce, obviously people will be shocked and perhaps talked even more about it because it's UNEXPECTED. Of course have you told them the truth, perhaps the divorce is expected.
Yes, bad things are embarrassing. It happened to me too but i think from the POSITIVE view of it despite you might not agree with me. Personally for me, divorce is not embarrassing but to some it's very embarrassing. And personally i think you think it's embarrassing because YOU CARE TOO MUCH ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE THINK. And why do you care so much? Have you been misleading people into letting them think that they your marriage is flawless? Then that's your problem.
It's simple, if you keep the good things to yourself instead of telling without being asked, then you deserved to keep the bad things to yourself. Why not? You chose not to disclose both good and bad things. but if you are always telling people the good stuff, obviously people will keep on asking more and more about that matter, and probably will want to know any bad things that might happened.
Just like Celebrities. They want to show off how glamourous and hip and happening their life style is, encouraging paparazzis and media to sensationalized those good things. Then when they are in deep shit whereupon they face criminal charges, relationship scandals, etc, they want the media to get off their back. Do you think it's fair? Not at all. Don't expect the media just to report on the good stuff and leave out the bad stuff. Have you not been a MEDIA WHORE, the media wouldn't even be interested in the good and bad things that happened to you.
Nobody is perfect in this world. So don't bother to attempt to be one. And SCREW JEALOUSY. Be content with what you have. You think others have what you want to have, but think and be proud that others may not have what you have.
Why DO people tell each other GOOD THINGS?
1. They want to share happiness together OR
2. They want to boast OR
3. They tell when being asked about it.
Why WON'T people tell each other GOOD THINGS?
1. They won't tell when not asked OR
2. If they tell, others may think they are being boastful, especially since they never ask you OR
3. To some, some good things can be privacy.
Why DO people tell each other BAD THINGS?
1. Seeking advice or sympathy or opinion.
Why WON'T people tell each other BAD THINGS?
1. Privacy OR
2. It's an embarrassing matter for them.
So the issue here is that some people only want to share the good and happy things that happened to them, thus giving the impression that his life is all perfect. Is it good to give the impression that your life all perfect? That you are invisible and immunized from problems? The General Rule here is that, NOBODY IS PERFECT, no matter how rich or beautiful the person is.
It is further irritating when people tell good things WITHOUT being asked, giving the impression they are being boastful. Of course not all good things which you tell may make you look boastful. Example, if you are going to get married, engaged, get a baby, get a new job, etc.
One common irritating scenario that i face during my schooling years is when it comes to exam results. I observed people telling others that they happily PASSED the exams when no one asked them. Which is a good thing because you are sharing the JOY of your happiness in passing the exams. But then this same person WON'T tell you he FAILED another exam. The funny thing is that, you tell people you pass without people asking you but you won't tell people you fail? And when people ACTUALLY ASK YOU (which you may accuse the person of being insensitive and busy body), you give a very vague answer as to whether you pass or not. Then if you pass an exam you will be busy calling people about their results so that you too can have the opportunity to tell them you passed BUT if you FAILED your exams, you will be MISSING IN ACTION a.k.a won't pick up calls, won't keep in touch with your friends, etc.
Some claim bad things are privacy. One shouldn't tell bad things because it might give bad impression to those who are involved with the "bad things". Example, like marriage. If your marriage is not doing well, why do you let others think it's all perfect and harmony when they ASKED you how it's doing? You don' have to tell them the juicy details on WHAT kind of marriage problems you are having, just tell them it's having its ups and downs and is not as perfect as they claim to be. Because imagine, if 10 years you have been telling your friends how perfect your marriage is and suddenly you get a divorce, obviously people will be shocked and perhaps talked even more about it because it's UNEXPECTED. Of course have you told them the truth, perhaps the divorce is expected.
Yes, bad things are embarrassing. It happened to me too but i think from the POSITIVE view of it despite you might not agree with me. Personally for me, divorce is not embarrassing but to some it's very embarrassing. And personally i think you think it's embarrassing because YOU CARE TOO MUCH ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE THINK. And why do you care so much? Have you been misleading people into letting them think that they your marriage is flawless? Then that's your problem.
It's simple, if you keep the good things to yourself instead of telling without being asked, then you deserved to keep the bad things to yourself. Why not? You chose not to disclose both good and bad things. but if you are always telling people the good stuff, obviously people will keep on asking more and more about that matter, and probably will want to know any bad things that might happened.
Just like Celebrities. They want to show off how glamourous and hip and happening their life style is, encouraging paparazzis and media to sensationalized those good things. Then when they are in deep shit whereupon they face criminal charges, relationship scandals, etc, they want the media to get off their back. Do you think it's fair? Not at all. Don't expect the media just to report on the good stuff and leave out the bad stuff. Have you not been a MEDIA WHORE, the media wouldn't even be interested in the good and bad things that happened to you.
Nobody is perfect in this world. So don't bother to attempt to be one. And SCREW JEALOUSY. Be content with what you have. You think others have what you want to have, but think and be proud that others may not have what you have.
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Muslim Sudanese Woman Whipped for Wearing PANTS
Above is the video.
Islam never ban women from wearing pants/trousers, provided that it's not revealing as in tight to the extend showing off the shape of your ass and legs. Some women, who dress properly, would wear a long blouse with pants so that the blouse will cover her ass, not showing the shape of her ass.
Looking at the video, do you think the punishment is justified? To be whipped for wearing pants? Not only that, the whipping is not being carried out properly. If REALLY you are dying to whip her, why can't it just be one stroke on the ass? Do you think for this kind of so called offence she deserved to be whipped many times? Not only many times, but all over the body? Even rapist only get whipped at the ass SEVERAL TIMES because the ass has strong/hard skin or something. If you say the reason why you have to whip her many times is because she's moving around, well screw you. Had you carried out the whipping procedure properly, she wouldn't move around and you can just give her one whipping. Shouldn't someone be holding both of her arms so that she won't try move or run when you whip her? If you can get her to go to her place execution of punishment, i don't see why you can't hold her.. Or do you find it fascinating to see her trying to run here and there to prevent being whipped?
I'm not a religious expert but i don't think the Quran stated the punishment for wearing pants is WHIPPING.
Why can't you just impose FINE on her? WARNING? Why must it be whipping? Who in the F*ck are you to impose whipping over something as petty as a woman wearing pants? Is whipping the only punishment over all sinful acts? Can wearing pants even amount to a sinful act?
Why do some people have to make Islam a difficult religion? You make it look as if Islam is all about torturing it's people when the people do PETTY MISTAKES. This is not even a criminal kind of offence. This is the very reason why people accused Islam of being a religion of terror, extremist etc. I as a Muslim try to show the non Muslims Islam is not like that but when you have a bunch of Muslims who do things like the whipping because the woman just wear pants, then it's useless.
It further angers me that people can laugh and smile watching someone being punished. Yeah, it shows HOW F*CKING COMPASSIONATE you are. Yeah, maybe you will laugh too when your mother gets whipped for wearing pants.
People can't Appreciate the Things which they CAN'T SEE..
Kindly be informed that this entry will contain many bad languages because some asshole just triggered my bitch mode blogger by provoking me.
Humans, they like to judge. Yes, i'm guilty of it too. But although i judge, i won't open my big fat mouth and unnecessarily insult that person if it happens i don't like the person's appearance or whatsoever.
There are another particular type of humans who loooove to insult someone indirectly. This kind of people, they are rude, shallow bastards. Such people will defend their action by saying they are being HONEST (yeah, honest my ass asshole), direct and not a hypocrite. If you see a person is ugly, do you tell the person straight to the face he is fugly? No. Why? It's unnecessary. The same goes to fat comments. I don't see the point of telling someone he/she gained weight UNLESS YOU WERE ASKED to give your opinion. Fat comments only makes the fatty feel low self esteem. Unless that person has a serious health probs or something. But really, don't you think a fat person already knows he's fat without you having to tell him?
Then there's the difference between INSULTING and being SARCASTIC. The latter is less irritating. INSULTING someone is wrong. Being sarcastic is okay okay because some people don't get it and for those who do get it, I just think that it doesn't hurt that much. Example :
Insulting : "You Are Stupid".
Sarcastic : "My Cat is smarter than you".
So, after a few weeks of not being in my SHE HULK BITCH mode, an asshole decides to provoke me. What's the story?
There was a question open to the fans in a facebook page which asked you to comment about why hookers are hookers. So I decide to comment, stating my opinion. Making a general comment about how hookers want to find easy money and easy work which just requires them to spread their legs wide open (i didn't say that but i'm being sarcastic because i'm fucking pissed off).
So then this motherfucker, who perhaps think he's a fucking saint, made a statement saying that i'm just like them (hooker) since I wear sexy to get men. The fucker's exact words were
"mcm hang gak la...tunjuk body kat fb supye org bleh lggn???"
Now, that really fucking pissed me off. This fucker has a problem with the way i dress. Yes, i dress sexy or like a slut but if you insult me by calling me a hooker, you are going to wish you were never born.
Go look up at the definition of a HOOKER but to make your life simpler, a hooker/prostitute is a person who sells her body for SEX. So it means you will get MONEY with the condition that you have sex or perform any sexual favours.
The last time i checked, i didn't get money for dressing sexy and neither did i have sex and get money. So how does that qualify me as a hooker motherfucker? I didn't state in my profile that i offer sex services and neither did i offer any men any sex services. Oh, just because i dress sexy i'm a hooker? Then what about those who dress decently but secretly providing sex services? This kind of person is better than me?
You want to complain about my dressing, be my guest. But calling me a hooker? If you are a girl, i'll bitch slap your fugly face and if you are a man, i'll kicked your dick and punch your fugly face.
Men, they always emphasized that a woman should be decently dress, and not dress scantily. Yes, i admit it's a good thing but you don't have to insult me about it. If you think a person's dressing is more important than her attitude, fine by me.
That's why i smile gleefully when the guys get screwed over by girls who wear head cover. They have this implied perception that if you are decently dress, you will be a good partner. Well, if you don't bother to investigate your partner's true colours, that doesn't mean your partner is a darling angel.
I've been with men who have a problem with the way i dress despite the fact that i'm loyal to them. Of course when i'm single i'm flirty but when i'm in a relationship, i'll give full commitment if he gives me his commitment too.
I gave that fucker a piece of my mind. I don't know whether because i'm getting older or the fact that i think before i say something, but i didn't curse him like hell. I wanted to say that his mother is a hooker. But i chose not to say it. Just say it in my blog. The fucker can go fucked himself and i hope he sleeps with a hooker and gets AIDS
Humans, they like to judge. Yes, i'm guilty of it too. But although i judge, i won't open my big fat mouth and unnecessarily insult that person if it happens i don't like the person's appearance or whatsoever.
There are another particular type of humans who loooove to insult someone indirectly. This kind of people, they are rude, shallow bastards. Such people will defend their action by saying they are being HONEST (yeah, honest my ass asshole), direct and not a hypocrite. If you see a person is ugly, do you tell the person straight to the face he is fugly? No. Why? It's unnecessary. The same goes to fat comments. I don't see the point of telling someone he/she gained weight UNLESS YOU WERE ASKED to give your opinion. Fat comments only makes the fatty feel low self esteem. Unless that person has a serious health probs or something. But really, don't you think a fat person already knows he's fat without you having to tell him?
Then there's the difference between INSULTING and being SARCASTIC. The latter is less irritating. INSULTING someone is wrong. Being sarcastic is okay okay because some people don't get it and for those who do get it, I just think that it doesn't hurt that much. Example :
Insulting : "You Are Stupid".
Sarcastic : "My Cat is smarter than you".
So, after a few weeks of not being in my SHE HULK BITCH mode, an asshole decides to provoke me. What's the story?
There was a question open to the fans in a facebook page which asked you to comment about why hookers are hookers. So I decide to comment, stating my opinion. Making a general comment about how hookers want to find easy money and easy work which just requires them to spread their legs wide open (i didn't say that but i'm being sarcastic because i'm fucking pissed off).
So then this motherfucker, who perhaps think he's a fucking saint, made a statement saying that i'm just like them (hooker) since I wear sexy to get men. The fucker's exact words were
"mcm hang gak la...tunjuk body kat fb supye org bleh lggn???"
Now, that really fucking pissed me off. This fucker has a problem with the way i dress. Yes, i dress sexy or like a slut but if you insult me by calling me a hooker, you are going to wish you were never born.
Go look up at the definition of a HOOKER but to make your life simpler, a hooker/prostitute is a person who sells her body for SEX. So it means you will get MONEY with the condition that you have sex or perform any sexual favours.
The last time i checked, i didn't get money for dressing sexy and neither did i have sex and get money. So how does that qualify me as a hooker motherfucker? I didn't state in my profile that i offer sex services and neither did i offer any men any sex services. Oh, just because i dress sexy i'm a hooker? Then what about those who dress decently but secretly providing sex services? This kind of person is better than me?
You want to complain about my dressing, be my guest. But calling me a hooker? If you are a girl, i'll bitch slap your fugly face and if you are a man, i'll kicked your dick and punch your fugly face.
Men, they always emphasized that a woman should be decently dress, and not dress scantily. Yes, i admit it's a good thing but you don't have to insult me about it. If you think a person's dressing is more important than her attitude, fine by me.
That's why i smile gleefully when the guys get screwed over by girls who wear head cover. They have this implied perception that if you are decently dress, you will be a good partner. Well, if you don't bother to investigate your partner's true colours, that doesn't mean your partner is a darling angel.
I've been with men who have a problem with the way i dress despite the fact that i'm loyal to them. Of course when i'm single i'm flirty but when i'm in a relationship, i'll give full commitment if he gives me his commitment too.
I gave that fucker a piece of my mind. I don't know whether because i'm getting older or the fact that i think before i say something, but i didn't curse him like hell. I wanted to say that his mother is a hooker. But i chose not to say it. Just say it in my blog. The fucker can go fucked himself and i hope he sleeps with a hooker and gets AIDS
Monday, December 13, 2010
Why Mistresses/Scandals go Public....
Remember Tiger Woods's Mistresses? Or Bill Clinton's Monica Lewinsky? Wayne Rooney's hooker/pornstar mistress? What do they have in common? These are mistresses of famous MALE politicians/celebrities who go public about the scandals...
Immediately you would have thought that these women are FAME and MONEY WHORES. They go public and sale stories and get paid doing so. Well, they are in fact fame and money whores and that the men having scandals with such women are actually stupid and naive to think that these women won't kiss and tell...
But perhaps another reason is that these women were irked by these men so called "good and loving husband and father" image. These men are celebrities/famous people, their lifestyle and family life will occasionally be featured by the media. So the mistresses will know what's going on with them. So when you show off how family man you are when in fact you aren't, that will perhaps be the trigger point where the mistress decides to go public with the scandal.
It's simple concept actually. You have a friend. Your friend brags about how rich he is. And that simply irks you. Then perhaps you tell someone of your dissatisfaction or you came across someone who happen to know the "TRUTH" bout your friend, the fact that he owes money to loan shark or he's going to be a bankrupt, you can't help yourself from feeling a little smug because your friend is a liar. Probably if your friend continue to go around telling other people how rich he is, it will trigger you to tell those people that he's actually debt ridden and going to be a bankrupt.
Some may think you are bad mouthing that person. Can it be bad mouthing if it's the TRUTH? Your purpose is not to embarrass the person, but to give that person a taste of his own medicine. He asks for it anyway, who asked him to brag in the first place? If your purpose is to merely embarrass the guy, then that's kindda wrong.
If you did something wrong, don't try to misrepresent yourself by saying you are a good person, holy person or whatsoever. It will only want to make people bring you down more.
So yes, all those married people who, on the surface, show off how happy they are but in fact behind their marriage is all about scandals and affair, it irks me. Not that i'm saying i hate seeing people happy. But there's a difference when you see someone who is genuinely happy and doesn't intend to show off and a person who show off the whole time, as if wanting to whole world to know his/her world is super perfect.
But going back to these mistresses, they should have personally inform the wife about her husband affair instead going public for the whole world to know and see the wife embarrassed by the media reports. Then again, you won't get anything by telling the wife personally right? Better to wreck a person's marriage publicly and get money doing so. So for famous married people, if you are famous, and you have affair, your affair will be famous too.
Last but not least, be SAFE, don't BRAG...
Immediately you would have thought that these women are FAME and MONEY WHORES. They go public and sale stories and get paid doing so. Well, they are in fact fame and money whores and that the men having scandals with such women are actually stupid and naive to think that these women won't kiss and tell...
But perhaps another reason is that these women were irked by these men so called "good and loving husband and father" image. These men are celebrities/famous people, their lifestyle and family life will occasionally be featured by the media. So the mistresses will know what's going on with them. So when you show off how family man you are when in fact you aren't, that will perhaps be the trigger point where the mistress decides to go public with the scandal.
It's simple concept actually. You have a friend. Your friend brags about how rich he is. And that simply irks you. Then perhaps you tell someone of your dissatisfaction or you came across someone who happen to know the "TRUTH" bout your friend, the fact that he owes money to loan shark or he's going to be a bankrupt, you can't help yourself from feeling a little smug because your friend is a liar. Probably if your friend continue to go around telling other people how rich he is, it will trigger you to tell those people that he's actually debt ridden and going to be a bankrupt.
Some may think you are bad mouthing that person. Can it be bad mouthing if it's the TRUTH? Your purpose is not to embarrass the person, but to give that person a taste of his own medicine. He asks for it anyway, who asked him to brag in the first place? If your purpose is to merely embarrass the guy, then that's kindda wrong.
If you did something wrong, don't try to misrepresent yourself by saying you are a good person, holy person or whatsoever. It will only want to make people bring you down more.
So yes, all those married people who, on the surface, show off how happy they are but in fact behind their marriage is all about scandals and affair, it irks me. Not that i'm saying i hate seeing people happy. But there's a difference when you see someone who is genuinely happy and doesn't intend to show off and a person who show off the whole time, as if wanting to whole world to know his/her world is super perfect.
But going back to these mistresses, they should have personally inform the wife about her husband affair instead going public for the whole world to know and see the wife embarrassed by the media reports. Then again, you won't get anything by telling the wife personally right? Better to wreck a person's marriage publicly and get money doing so. So for famous married people, if you are famous, and you have affair, your affair will be famous too.
Last but not least, be SAFE, don't BRAG...
Saturday, December 11, 2010
Young Bride
Marriage is my right, says 14-year-old Maya
Look at the link above.
What is WRONG with this picture?
1. OBVIOUSLY a 14 year old getting married. She's not even done with her studies. She's not even halfway done with her studies.
2. She's 14, and he' 23. 9 years age difference. it's not a problem if the girl was older, like 20 and he's 29 because it's ASSUMED that by then she already reached a mature mind. So it's ok if a 14 year old gets married if she's MENTALLY and PHYSICALLY MATURE? Not really. You can't really measure a person's maturity. But that's why you have juvenile and adult offenders because it's assumed that when you reached 18, you should be responsible for your actions. So regardless whether you are mature or not at 18, you will be tried as an adult. But if you are a 14 year old offender but a genius criminal offender, perhaps even mature beyond your age, you will still be tried as a juvenile offender because there's still an assumption that you haven't reach the age of majority and that you are just a young offender. So is it right for young teens to get married and asked to be treated like an adult, claiming they are mature but yet face the consequences of their bad decisions as a young teen and not as an adult? People will defend them and say "but he/she is just a childdddd"...
3. If you choose to get married, shouldn't you be INDEPENDENT? Have your own place, not depending on parents, etc. There don't know what is the hardship of a marriage as long as they are still staying with the parents. Besides, is it healthy if your parents are involved in your marriage? Interfering here and there?
4. Being a married woman means you need to look after your husband and his needs. What does a married woman do? Work, clean the house, cook for the husband, fulfill her husband's sexual desire. So her mother will do the house cleaning and cooking while she will be busy preparing for exams and night time be with her husband? Even SOME adult married woman who is working need the assistance of a maid to look after the house. And despite that, when they come back from work, they r too tired to entertain the husband. One of the factors why some marriages end up with divorces.
5. Parents always try to prevent their children from being in a relationship while they are still studying. Some parents are so carefree and so called open minded that they think it's cool if their 13 year old child has a bf/gf. Why won't parents allow their children to be in a relationship while studying? Well, relationship can be distracting to your studies. God knows, when you and your partner have a fight, for some young emo people, they think the world is going to end and thus can't concentrate on their studies. Marriage is a big responsibility.
6. With this current 14 old girl girl's case, people think they are an ideal couple because the guy seems to be "islamic" since he's tutoring religion to the girl's siblings. That is also the explanation on how they met. Yeah, he's so professional too. Tutor + flirting. You know, people always like to use RELIGION as a defence to something as controversial as this. they think, oh the girl and the guy are religiously well taught, marriage shouldn't be a problem. With the knowledge of religion, the relationship should be blessed. Did you hear of the story when the ustazah was caught having an affair and she claims she's unhappy with her husband? Mind you, that's an USTAZAH you are talking about.
7. Would there be a bigger uproar to this controversial marriage if the guy was perhaps 30, 40 or even 50 while the girl is still 14 years old? Why should there be any difference if you claim that the girl is a 14 year old mature girl? Maybe some people are so so with this marriage because the age difference isn't that great, just 9 years. But the main issue here is that most people are unhappy because the child is just a child. And who cares if she's not forced to get married? People will attack her parents anyway.
8. If every 14 year old claims they are mature enough to get married, why is there a need to rate movies as to whether its contents are suitable for underage viewers or not. I can be a 14 year old and i can claim i'm mature enough to watch a movie that contents sex and violence.
9. Yeah, i read somewhere that in Islam, there is no AGE LIMIT to getting married. This will be some of the defending arguments that will be used by Muslims who wants to get married below the age of majority. Use your common sense people, don't make the religion look bad.
10. The concept of pedophile will be made redundant if this kind of young marriage trend were to continue. What is a PEDOPHILE? Dictionary.com --> a person who is sexually attracted to children. A man can disguise his pedophile tendencies by disguising his relationship with a child as a MARRIAGE. You know, if it's OKAY for a 14 year old to get married, why not an 8, 9, 10 or 12 year old. Some girls already get their period even at the age of 5.
11. And what kind of a man let themselves have "FEELINGS" for children? Don't you have an age limit on what kind of people who you can flirt with?
Look at the link above.
What is WRONG with this picture?
1. OBVIOUSLY a 14 year old getting married. She's not even done with her studies. She's not even halfway done with her studies.
2. She's 14, and he' 23. 9 years age difference. it's not a problem if the girl was older, like 20 and he's 29 because it's ASSUMED that by then she already reached a mature mind. So it's ok if a 14 year old gets married if she's MENTALLY and PHYSICALLY MATURE? Not really. You can't really measure a person's maturity. But that's why you have juvenile and adult offenders because it's assumed that when you reached 18, you should be responsible for your actions. So regardless whether you are mature or not at 18, you will be tried as an adult. But if you are a 14 year old offender but a genius criminal offender, perhaps even mature beyond your age, you will still be tried as a juvenile offender because there's still an assumption that you haven't reach the age of majority and that you are just a young offender. So is it right for young teens to get married and asked to be treated like an adult, claiming they are mature but yet face the consequences of their bad decisions as a young teen and not as an adult? People will defend them and say "but he/she is just a childdddd"...
3. If you choose to get married, shouldn't you be INDEPENDENT? Have your own place, not depending on parents, etc. There don't know what is the hardship of a marriage as long as they are still staying with the parents. Besides, is it healthy if your parents are involved in your marriage? Interfering here and there?
4. Being a married woman means you need to look after your husband and his needs. What does a married woman do? Work, clean the house, cook for the husband, fulfill her husband's sexual desire. So her mother will do the house cleaning and cooking while she will be busy preparing for exams and night time be with her husband? Even SOME adult married woman who is working need the assistance of a maid to look after the house. And despite that, when they come back from work, they r too tired to entertain the husband. One of the factors why some marriages end up with divorces.
5. Parents always try to prevent their children from being in a relationship while they are still studying. Some parents are so carefree and so called open minded that they think it's cool if their 13 year old child has a bf/gf. Why won't parents allow their children to be in a relationship while studying? Well, relationship can be distracting to your studies. God knows, when you and your partner have a fight, for some young emo people, they think the world is going to end and thus can't concentrate on their studies. Marriage is a big responsibility.
6. With this current 14 old girl girl's case, people think they are an ideal couple because the guy seems to be "islamic" since he's tutoring religion to the girl's siblings. That is also the explanation on how they met. Yeah, he's so professional too. Tutor + flirting. You know, people always like to use RELIGION as a defence to something as controversial as this. they think, oh the girl and the guy are religiously well taught, marriage shouldn't be a problem. With the knowledge of religion, the relationship should be blessed. Did you hear of the story when the ustazah was caught having an affair and she claims she's unhappy with her husband? Mind you, that's an USTAZAH you are talking about.
7. Would there be a bigger uproar to this controversial marriage if the guy was perhaps 30, 40 or even 50 while the girl is still 14 years old? Why should there be any difference if you claim that the girl is a 14 year old mature girl? Maybe some people are so so with this marriage because the age difference isn't that great, just 9 years. But the main issue here is that most people are unhappy because the child is just a child. And who cares if she's not forced to get married? People will attack her parents anyway.
8. If every 14 year old claims they are mature enough to get married, why is there a need to rate movies as to whether its contents are suitable for underage viewers or not. I can be a 14 year old and i can claim i'm mature enough to watch a movie that contents sex and violence.
9. Yeah, i read somewhere that in Islam, there is no AGE LIMIT to getting married. This will be some of the defending arguments that will be used by Muslims who wants to get married below the age of majority. Use your common sense people, don't make the religion look bad.
10. The concept of pedophile will be made redundant if this kind of young marriage trend were to continue. What is a PEDOPHILE? Dictionary.com --> a person who is sexually attracted to children. A man can disguise his pedophile tendencies by disguising his relationship with a child as a MARRIAGE. You know, if it's OKAY for a 14 year old to get married, why not an 8, 9, 10 or 12 year old. Some girls already get their period even at the age of 5.
11. And what kind of a man let themselves have "FEELINGS" for children? Don't you have an age limit on what kind of people who you can flirt with?
Random Thoughts of The Day : 11.12. 2010
1. People say when you are married, you shouldn't tell your marriage problems to a third party. For me, it's better to tell your friends because your friends won't INTERFERE. But if you tell your PARENTS, your parents will DEFINITELY INTERFERE. Why?
a. They see your partner often, obviously they might bring up some of the problems either directly or indirectly.
b. They think you guys are a FAMILY NOW. So as family, they have rights to interfere.
c. They spend money on your wedding etc, they look after your child. So it's implied they have a say in the family if there's a problem.
Sharing problems is a good thing, that way you will know whether what you did is wrong or right. You can try marriage counseling but that would mean you and your partner have to hear each others problem and if one partner is not happy hearing about that problem, you are dead. Honestly, if you have a problem with your partner, just tell it to your partner. Why prolong an irritating problem?
2. Patience. Don't even claim that you are patient or accept things as there are with your partner if you are cheating behind her/his back. People say they have a so called "problem" with their partner and it's an ongoing problem. If they tell the partner, the partner wouldn't listen or change. So why not go for a break up/divorce? Most people simply don't want to take this drastic solution but yet they have the nerve to say they accept things as there are but turning to the wrong solution, a.k.a affairs/scandals/cheating.
3. I'm beginning to think affairs are a norm in relationship, especially in marriage. Ignorance is bliss.
4. Children. I went to Ikea today and so damn annoyed with the children running around. For crying out loud, why don't you just send your children to the playhouse while you do your errands in the store? I don't mind if your child is well behaved not running around. And why am i annoyed with running children? Coz i can knocked them over with my trolley and I DO FEEL LIKE DOING IT. It's bad enough that the place is crowded with adults and now with children too? And do you know it's not good to bring your newborn child out to a crowded place?
5. People who like to show off should get a life. No point having fancy stuff if you are having many debts.
6. License to Love. Attempting or committing suicide over a failed relationship is lame and pathetic. Sometimes i wonder why some people are so emotional when it comes to relationship, as if the world will end if you can't have that guy or girl. Your dignity is more important than your partner. Some people are simply not fit to be in a relationship if they can't think rationally.
a. They see your partner often, obviously they might bring up some of the problems either directly or indirectly.
b. They think you guys are a FAMILY NOW. So as family, they have rights to interfere.
c. They spend money on your wedding etc, they look after your child. So it's implied they have a say in the family if there's a problem.
Sharing problems is a good thing, that way you will know whether what you did is wrong or right. You can try marriage counseling but that would mean you and your partner have to hear each others problem and if one partner is not happy hearing about that problem, you are dead. Honestly, if you have a problem with your partner, just tell it to your partner. Why prolong an irritating problem?
2. Patience. Don't even claim that you are patient or accept things as there are with your partner if you are cheating behind her/his back. People say they have a so called "problem" with their partner and it's an ongoing problem. If they tell the partner, the partner wouldn't listen or change. So why not go for a break up/divorce? Most people simply don't want to take this drastic solution but yet they have the nerve to say they accept things as there are but turning to the wrong solution, a.k.a affairs/scandals/cheating.
3. I'm beginning to think affairs are a norm in relationship, especially in marriage. Ignorance is bliss.
4. Children. I went to Ikea today and so damn annoyed with the children running around. For crying out loud, why don't you just send your children to the playhouse while you do your errands in the store? I don't mind if your child is well behaved not running around. And why am i annoyed with running children? Coz i can knocked them over with my trolley and I DO FEEL LIKE DOING IT. It's bad enough that the place is crowded with adults and now with children too? And do you know it's not good to bring your newborn child out to a crowded place?
5. People who like to show off should get a life. No point having fancy stuff if you are having many debts.
6. License to Love. Attempting or committing suicide over a failed relationship is lame and pathetic. Sometimes i wonder why some people are so emotional when it comes to relationship, as if the world will end if you can't have that guy or girl. Your dignity is more important than your partner. Some people are simply not fit to be in a relationship if they can't think rationally.
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