Remember Tiger Woods's Mistresses? Or Bill Clinton's Monica Lewinsky? Wayne Rooney's hooker/pornstar mistress? What do they have in common? These are mistresses of famous MALE politicians/celebrities who go public about the scandals...
Immediately you would have thought that these women are FAME and MONEY WHORES. They go public and sale stories and get paid doing so. Well, they are in fact fame and money whores and that the men having scandals with such women are actually stupid and naive to think that these women won't kiss and tell...
But perhaps another reason is that these women were irked by these men so called "good and loving husband and father" image. These men are celebrities/famous people, their lifestyle and family life will occasionally be featured by the media. So the mistresses will know what's going on with them. So when you show off how family man you are when in fact you aren't, that will perhaps be the trigger point where the mistress decides to go public with the scandal.
It's simple concept actually. You have a friend. Your friend brags about how rich he is. And that simply irks you. Then perhaps you tell someone of your dissatisfaction or you came across someone who happen to know the "TRUTH" bout your friend, the fact that he owes money to loan shark or he's going to be a bankrupt, you can't help yourself from feeling a little smug because your friend is a liar. Probably if your friend continue to go around telling other people how rich he is, it will trigger you to tell those people that he's actually debt ridden and going to be a bankrupt.
Some may think you are bad mouthing that person. Can it be bad mouthing if it's the TRUTH? Your purpose is not to embarrass the person, but to give that person a taste of his own medicine. He asks for it anyway, who asked him to brag in the first place? If your purpose is to merely embarrass the guy, then that's kindda wrong.
If you did something wrong, don't try to misrepresent yourself by saying you are a good person, holy person or whatsoever. It will only want to make people bring you down more.
So yes, all those married people who, on the surface, show off how happy they are but in fact behind their marriage is all about scandals and affair, it irks me. Not that i'm saying i hate seeing people happy. But there's a difference when you see someone who is genuinely happy and doesn't intend to show off and a person who show off the whole time, as if wanting to whole world to know his/her world is super perfect.
But going back to these mistresses, they should have personally inform the wife about her husband affair instead going public for the whole world to know and see the wife embarrassed by the media reports. Then again, you won't get anything by telling the wife personally right? Better to wreck a person's marriage publicly and get money doing so. So for famous married people, if you are famous, and you have affair, your affair will be famous too.
Last but not least, be SAFE, don't BRAG...
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