One of my observations in relationships...

Before i continue doing my boring Ethics notes, i'll blog for awhile on this issue that has been on my mind lately.

There are many causes to break ups. Some are explainable, some aren't. Actually, those that are not explainable are explainable but people just refused to explain or too stupid or selfish to explain because it may make them sound bad. Hence, the lame excuse, "it's not you, it's me".

There are some couple who remained in unhappy relationship. The relationship is boring and filled with petty arguments. Both couples have issues with each other but none bother to talk it out. Perhaps they did talk it out but there was never a solution (or they refused to follow the solution). Hence, the reason why people cheat behind their partner's back.

There are those cunning ones... they are unhappy with the relationship but chose to go on instead of opting for the break because they are waiting for potential next partner. So long as they couldn't find a replacement, they wouldn't break with their current partner. Maybe it's simply because some people are afraid to be single, afraid of having to find and go thru many dates just to meet the Ms or Mr Right again. But once they think they could be in a relationship with a another potential candidate, they will ask for a break from the current partner. That's when your sudden breakup occurs.

What makes me so sure about this? Coz i met a lot of people who are like that.

But one thing i couldn't understand is how people can cheat yet they claim and act their love their partner sooooooooooooooooo much. I know they genuinely love their partner but yet they cheat behind their partner's back. I couldn't do that. Firstly because i have guilty conscience and secondly if i ever cheat, means i don't love my partner. And if i don't love my partner, i will just ask for a break. i guess these people simply don't have guilty conscience..