Lately i've been blogging a lot. In other words, it means I'm STRESSED. My head is filled with jumbled up thoughts that i feel i need to blog it out. Blogging is the best medicine for anger and irritation.
Trust. Some people trust others too easily while some take a long time to trust someone. I think I'm in between, i don't trust too easily, especially when it comes to MEN but in other matters, i might be too trusting in other people. Like the agent woman who i have to deal with recently.
I'm so bored to talk about the condo thing because it's giving me a bloody headache. My dad don't trust the agent and the agent doesn't trust him. Hell, if no one trust one another than there will never be a bloody agreement! I'm the middle person who have to listen to both sides as to why they can't agree with one another.
Why must there be cheaters in this world? Why must you lie and cheat people of their money, like this investment crap like the Multi Level Marketing schemes. Why do people like to misrepresent others? That's why i don't like the idea of business.
Like when you go shopping, the advertisement sale always misrepresent you. Like that stupid advertisement saying 70% DISCOUNT IN BIG BOLD NUMBERS. But there will be a small word stating "up to". Meaning majority of the items will be 10% to 20% discounts while very few items will be on 70% discount. Irritating advertisements.
Then when people promote things. They will tell you 101 things perfect about the product but will never mention the flaws of the product. I know, i know you call this marketing skills or strategy or whatever but i just hate it. It's all misrepresentation in disguise.
As i was saying something about being able to TRUST SOMEONE, it's hard i know. I don't trust men but i know if i was ever going to be in a relationship, i have to trust my partner instead of being suspicious of him 24/7 or accuse him of cheating behind my back. That's some kind of obsessive-GF-paranoia-syndrome. God forbid i will ever be one.
If you never learn to trust someone, you will never get things done. Maybe you can get it done, but slowly since you are doing it yourself but then again, if you want something done right, you do it yourself. That's why i don't really like to do group work because i can be demanding at times. I realized i'm demanding because i don't trust other people with such work. Not that i think i'm better than them but i trust myself alone to get the work completed my way, which is on time.
The issue with trust is that when you trust someone, there's a risk you will be cheated. It hurts to be cheated but there are just so many insensitive, selfish, self centred ass holes out there who likes to cheat without feeling guilty. But to minimized the effect of being cheated, you try to take steps to ensure the possibility of being cheated is reduced, which is by asking a lot of questions, interrogating, demand things that is favourable to you in spite of the fact you may end up looking like some kind of demanding bitch. Well, you are just looking after your interests after all.
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