Friday, April 30, 2010
The Essence of Satanic Cult
Above is a video showing some proof that Lady Gaga is Satanic. I feel excited blogging bout this :v because i love all these supernatural stuff. I mean it's an interesting topic but never once in my life did i do any nonsense that goes against my religion.
Based on the video, it really does seem like Lady Gaga is one those people involved in the Satanic cult. The make of the video has a point, the symbols are one kind and if i'm not mistaken, it's linked to the Iluminati. The triangle with the eye in the middle. People can say what Lady Gaga did is just a coincidence, that she's just a fashion trendsetter, with the eye symbol, the fashion, the 'lightning symbol' etc. Perhaps more like Satanic trendsetter.
Truth to be told, i like all of her songs because it's techno kind and i listen to a lot of techno songs. The thing about me, i like songs but doesn't mean i will like the celebrities who sings it, nor will i follow the trends that celebrities do 8).
Like example, if suddenly a famous celebrity starts wearing big sunglasses, and people find it's cool, then the public will start following such trend. Or if a celebrity start posing in some manner, and people think it's cool, they will follow such pose. Like i notice some people take pics with their tongue sticking out to one side. I find it irritating because everyone is doing it. A friend of mine told me that the pose started from celebrities too, like footballers or celebrity wrestlers. Ahh, another example to show how powerful celebrities can be in setting a trend is like ERIC CANTONA, the french footballer. He's the one who started the trend with the collar of his shirt and a lot of guys follow his style - pulling up their collars. Is that suppose to be some kind of 'bad boy' image? :|
In a way, i can see why some 'religious' people warn the public against celebrities who seem to be involved with Satanic cult. Celebrities are the BEST TOOL to promote Satanic cult because people follow what celebrities do, not me though because i couldn't care less about fashion and trends. If people say red is not colour of the year, i'll still wear red through out the year. Yes, perhaps i'm a dull person but i love what i wear and what i do. Anyway, back to the real issue.
So look at Lady Gaga. When she does all the symbol with her eye, the lightning on the face, the fashion she's wearing, some poor naive soul might follow exactly what she's doing, thinking "Ohhh it's lady Gaga, she's soooooo cool! I want to do what she does!" :Brow. Hence, they'll start doing the gesture with the eye thing without realizing what it really means.
But the real question is this : these supposedly Satanic cult followers, do they really practice those Satanic cults or they just do gestures of Satanic cults because they think it's cool. Another additional info for you, Lady Gaga is from a convent school :o.
The thing is, if they just do gestures of Satanic cults but never practice or worship Satan, is there really any harm? And for those who are really into these satanic cult to the extend of sacrificing animals and trying very hard to gather followers, sure some naive people may to signs of your cult but is that sufficient? Are you content by the mere fact that some of the public is doing signs of your cult but never really practice your cult rituals?
In my opinion, it's harmless. You may have 1 million followers who dress and do signs as if they are following a cult but behind those dressing and signatures, they never really practice a single ritual nor worship the devil. The essence of the Satanic cult is missing.
So what's so great about your cult if you have a large number of followers but your followers doesn't understand a single thing about your cult nor are they actively involved in the satanic rituals.
I can give myself as an example. I love horror. I keep myself up to date with gory and horror movies. I love horror with passion. But people looking at me, wouldn't think so. Why?
1. Because i'm a girl who dresses feminine.
2. I don't talk about death or look like a person who wants to commit suicide.
3. I love pink :L.
4. I have a lot of fluffy dolls.
5. I wear high heels and wear skirt and dresses.
As you can see, the way i look, dress and act doesn't correspond with my interest with horror, gore,blood, guts, supernatural stuff. A girl who loves pink like horror stuff? You'll laugh or think i'm just a fake horror fan.
Some religious Muslims say that it's not good to keep dolls in the house because the Malakikat @ Angel won't enter the house. Some people say keeping dolls is like keeping 'berhala' in the house.
You know what i really think? What's the harm in keeping the dolls? I don't worship the dolls, i just keep them as decorations. Look at my room, at first glance it might give you the impression of a Cat Shrine, i have a lot of cat dolls but it's just an interest and fascination that i have towards cat. I don't worship cats, i don't think cats bring me good luck. And whether Malaikat really won't enter the house, was that STATED IN THE AL QURAN itself? No. What the Quran prohibits is worshiping other things besides Allah Himself. WORSHIP :b. That's the essence of every religion and cult.
By the way, the song is the video is damn scary. Gave me goosebumps when i heard it.
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One of my observations in relationships...
Before i continue doing my boring Ethics notes, i'll blog for awhile on this issue that has been on my mind lately.
There are many causes to break ups. Some are explainable, some aren't. Actually, those that are not explainable are explainable but people just refused to explain or too stupid or selfish to explain because it may make them sound bad. Hence, the lame excuse, "it's not you, it's me".
There are some couple who remained in unhappy relationship. The relationship is boring and filled with petty arguments. Both couples have issues with each other but none bother to talk it out. Perhaps they did talk it out but there was never a solution (or they refused to follow the solution). Hence, the reason why people cheat behind their partner's back.
There are those cunning ones... they are unhappy with the relationship but chose to go on instead of opting for the break because they are waiting for potential next partner. So long as they couldn't find a replacement, they wouldn't break with their current partner. Maybe it's simply because some people are afraid to be single, afraid of having to find and go thru many dates just to meet the Ms or Mr Right again. But once they think they could be in a relationship with a another potential candidate, they will ask for a break from the current partner. That's when your sudden breakup occurs.
What makes me so sure about this? Coz i met a lot of people who are like that.
But one thing i couldn't understand is how people can cheat yet they claim and act their love their partner sooooooooooooooooo much. I know they genuinely love their partner but yet they cheat behind their partner's back. I couldn't do that. Firstly because i have guilty conscience and secondly if i ever cheat, means i don't love my partner. And if i don't love my partner, i will just ask for a break. i guess these people simply don't have guilty conscience..
There are many causes to break ups. Some are explainable, some aren't. Actually, those that are not explainable are explainable but people just refused to explain or too stupid or selfish to explain because it may make them sound bad. Hence, the lame excuse, "it's not you, it's me".
There are some couple who remained in unhappy relationship. The relationship is boring and filled with petty arguments. Both couples have issues with each other but none bother to talk it out. Perhaps they did talk it out but there was never a solution (or they refused to follow the solution). Hence, the reason why people cheat behind their partner's back.
There are those cunning ones... they are unhappy with the relationship but chose to go on instead of opting for the break because they are waiting for potential next partner. So long as they couldn't find a replacement, they wouldn't break with their current partner. Maybe it's simply because some people are afraid to be single, afraid of having to find and go thru many dates just to meet the Ms or Mr Right again. But once they think they could be in a relationship with a another potential candidate, they will ask for a break from the current partner. That's when your sudden breakup occurs.
What makes me so sure about this? Coz i met a lot of people who are like that.
But one thing i couldn't understand is how people can cheat yet they claim and act their love their partner sooooooooooooooooo much. I know they genuinely love their partner but yet they cheat behind their partner's back. I couldn't do that. Firstly because i have guilty conscience and secondly if i ever cheat, means i don't love my partner. And if i don't love my partner, i will just ask for a break. i guess these people simply don't have guilty conscience..
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Curse you bloody CLP
CLP --> certificate of legal practice. a pain in the ass course.
I'm currently doing notes on Ethics and Advocacy. bloody hell there's a lot of stupid rules to remember. To make matter worse, u can't even bring in the Legal Profession Act. You put so many damn rules in your syllabus and you expect the students to remember?
Okay, so perhaps i can remember the rules without the damn statute IF there were no 3 OTHER DIFFERENT LAW FIELDS to be studied for the same paper. All these are combined together under the Professional Practice paper. So under the PP paper, you have Ethics and Advocacy, Land Law, Probate and Bankruptcy. What, you think my brain is some kind of computer that can store 250 GB of memory?
I realized complaining won't help me because in the end i have to sit for the bloody paper. As i remembered correctly a quotation from the movie of Prince of Persia (i saw the trailer. Jake Gyllanhal is soooooooo hot ;-p~~~~! (ok, irrelevant info)), actually i can't remember the exact quotation but it goes something like it's not impossible to do something, just difficult/ hard. This is the best way to described CLP.
If doing CLP is impossible, people won't pass sitting the damn exams despite the passing rate is less than 30% and it takes years for some to pass the exams. Neverthless, i still want to bitch and whine about this stupid exams because as i keep doing the notes and see how many sections and cases to remember, it just stresses me off. I'm angry at how the exams are being set. It's totally unfair.
And really, Ethics and Advocacy? You can't really teach people Ethics if they have ZERO GUILTY CONSCIENCE. You may make them remember all the damn rules to what a lawyer shouldn't do but it doesn't serve the purpose, so you might as well allow the students to take in the statute so at least they remember slightly where to find that irritating rule on how not to be a deceptive manipulative cheating lawyer.
Okay, i'm done bitching about CLP. Need to continue with the notes. Cursee u!!!
I'm currently doing notes on Ethics and Advocacy. bloody hell there's a lot of stupid rules to remember. To make matter worse, u can't even bring in the Legal Profession Act. You put so many damn rules in your syllabus and you expect the students to remember?
Okay, so perhaps i can remember the rules without the damn statute IF there were no 3 OTHER DIFFERENT LAW FIELDS to be studied for the same paper. All these are combined together under the Professional Practice paper. So under the PP paper, you have Ethics and Advocacy, Land Law, Probate and Bankruptcy. What, you think my brain is some kind of computer that can store 250 GB of memory?
I realized complaining won't help me because in the end i have to sit for the bloody paper. As i remembered correctly a quotation from the movie of Prince of Persia (i saw the trailer. Jake Gyllanhal is soooooooo hot ;-p~~~~! (ok, irrelevant info)), actually i can't remember the exact quotation but it goes something like it's not impossible to do something, just difficult/ hard. This is the best way to described CLP.
If doing CLP is impossible, people won't pass sitting the damn exams despite the passing rate is less than 30% and it takes years for some to pass the exams. Neverthless, i still want to bitch and whine about this stupid exams because as i keep doing the notes and see how many sections and cases to remember, it just stresses me off. I'm angry at how the exams are being set. It's totally unfair.
And really, Ethics and Advocacy? You can't really teach people Ethics if they have ZERO GUILTY CONSCIENCE. You may make them remember all the damn rules to what a lawyer shouldn't do but it doesn't serve the purpose, so you might as well allow the students to take in the statute so at least they remember slightly where to find that irritating rule on how not to be a deceptive manipulative cheating lawyer.
Okay, i'm done bitching about CLP. Need to continue with the notes. Cursee u!!!
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
And the Stupidity and Unreasonableness continues
Apparently, this is one of Peta's latest campaign poster. And it seems the people behind Peta are still stupid and can't think because they can't seem to get their advertisement right. I wonder whether people ever pointed out at them why MOST of their advertisements ALWAYS INVOLVED NAKED PEOPLE? ESPECIALLY WOMEN?
I'm pretty sure some celebrities who pose for PETA aren't really concern about animal rights. They just enjoy posing naked and looking beautiful for a poster.
Tell me exactly, what does a naked woman have to do with boycotting the circus? Their slogan is as nature intended, let elephants be free. I wonder whether nature intended humans to go around walking naked or intended human to be this dumb in advertising?
If i was a Peta Member, i'll surely bring this matter up because i think most of the people behind Peta aren't really concern with animal rights and just want popularity. Cheap popularity and publicity.
Monday, April 26, 2010
Lesson of the week : TRUST
Lately i've been blogging a lot. In other words, it means I'm STRESSED. My head is filled with jumbled up thoughts that i feel i need to blog it out. Blogging is the best medicine for anger and irritation.
Trust. Some people trust others too easily while some take a long time to trust someone. I think I'm in between, i don't trust too easily, especially when it comes to MEN but in other matters, i might be too trusting in other people. Like the agent woman who i have to deal with recently.
I'm so bored to talk about the condo thing because it's giving me a bloody headache. My dad don't trust the agent and the agent doesn't trust him. Hell, if no one trust one another than there will never be a bloody agreement! I'm the middle person who have to listen to both sides as to why they can't agree with one another.
Why must there be cheaters in this world? Why must you lie and cheat people of their money, like this investment crap like the Multi Level Marketing schemes. Why do people like to misrepresent others? That's why i don't like the idea of business.
Like when you go shopping, the advertisement sale always misrepresent you. Like that stupid advertisement saying 70% DISCOUNT IN BIG BOLD NUMBERS. But there will be a small word stating "up to". Meaning majority of the items will be 10% to 20% discounts while very few items will be on 70% discount. Irritating advertisements.
Then when people promote things. They will tell you 101 things perfect about the product but will never mention the flaws of the product. I know, i know you call this marketing skills or strategy or whatever but i just hate it. It's all misrepresentation in disguise.
As i was saying something about being able to TRUST SOMEONE, it's hard i know. I don't trust men but i know if i was ever going to be in a relationship, i have to trust my partner instead of being suspicious of him 24/7 or accuse him of cheating behind my back. That's some kind of obsessive-GF-paranoia-syndrome. God forbid i will ever be one.
If you never learn to trust someone, you will never get things done. Maybe you can get it done, but slowly since you are doing it yourself but then again, if you want something done right, you do it yourself. That's why i don't really like to do group work because i can be demanding at times. I realized i'm demanding because i don't trust other people with such work. Not that i think i'm better than them but i trust myself alone to get the work completed my way, which is on time.
The issue with trust is that when you trust someone, there's a risk you will be cheated. It hurts to be cheated but there are just so many insensitive, selfish, self centred ass holes out there who likes to cheat without feeling guilty. But to minimized the effect of being cheated, you try to take steps to ensure the possibility of being cheated is reduced, which is by asking a lot of questions, interrogating, demand things that is favourable to you in spite of the fact you may end up looking like some kind of demanding bitch. Well, you are just looking after your interests after all.
Trust. Some people trust others too easily while some take a long time to trust someone. I think I'm in between, i don't trust too easily, especially when it comes to MEN but in other matters, i might be too trusting in other people. Like the agent woman who i have to deal with recently.
I'm so bored to talk about the condo thing because it's giving me a bloody headache. My dad don't trust the agent and the agent doesn't trust him. Hell, if no one trust one another than there will never be a bloody agreement! I'm the middle person who have to listen to both sides as to why they can't agree with one another.
Why must there be cheaters in this world? Why must you lie and cheat people of their money, like this investment crap like the Multi Level Marketing schemes. Why do people like to misrepresent others? That's why i don't like the idea of business.
Like when you go shopping, the advertisement sale always misrepresent you. Like that stupid advertisement saying 70% DISCOUNT IN BIG BOLD NUMBERS. But there will be a small word stating "up to". Meaning majority of the items will be 10% to 20% discounts while very few items will be on 70% discount. Irritating advertisements.
Then when people promote things. They will tell you 101 things perfect about the product but will never mention the flaws of the product. I know, i know you call this marketing skills or strategy or whatever but i just hate it. It's all misrepresentation in disguise.
As i was saying something about being able to TRUST SOMEONE, it's hard i know. I don't trust men but i know if i was ever going to be in a relationship, i have to trust my partner instead of being suspicious of him 24/7 or accuse him of cheating behind my back. That's some kind of obsessive-GF-paranoia-syndrome. God forbid i will ever be one.
If you never learn to trust someone, you will never get things done. Maybe you can get it done, but slowly since you are doing it yourself but then again, if you want something done right, you do it yourself. That's why i don't really like to do group work because i can be demanding at times. I realized i'm demanding because i don't trust other people with such work. Not that i think i'm better than them but i trust myself alone to get the work completed my way, which is on time.
The issue with trust is that when you trust someone, there's a risk you will be cheated. It hurts to be cheated but there are just so many insensitive, selfish, self centred ass holes out there who likes to cheat without feeling guilty. But to minimized the effect of being cheated, you try to take steps to ensure the possibility of being cheated is reduced, which is by asking a lot of questions, interrogating, demand things that is favourable to you in spite of the fact you may end up looking like some kind of demanding bitch. Well, you are just looking after your interests after all.
Buying a House... pain in the ass job...
Technically, i'm not buying a house.. It's my dad who wants to buy one but i have to be like the middle person between the agent and my dad. It's a condo anyway.
Right now, we managed to get the condo unit at the price that we wanted. The negotiation worked well (it was the agent who negotiated with the owner). Now the issue is that my dad insist on meeting the owner himself. Purpose? To know that the owner really wants to sell the condo.
Since this dealing is done through an agent, of course the agent wants her commission. If she were to let us deal with the owner before we pay the earnest deposit, there's a possibility she won't get her commission. I can just pretend i don't want the property and then in a few months i deal back with the owner to buy the property from owner directly. In the mean time, the owner can refused to sell the property to other buyers recommended by the agent. See the possibility?
A further prob that I just found out, the property is registered to 2 owners and they are in JB. They are business partners. But according to the agent, both owner do want to sell the property.
Currently, i can imagine all the bad things that can happened after we paid the earnest deposit :
1. My dad may sign the SPA but later the owner may refused to sign it. or one of the owner don't want to sign it.
2. Of course the owner have to refund to us the deposit money but this is such a big hassle when we don't get the property. Not only did we waste our time, but we also wasted money with the lawyer.
3. Sure we'll get back our deposit and the compensation (money spent on getting a lawyer) and all but now we have to look for a new house.
This is the problem when you buy a house through an agent and through another purchaser instead of buying one from the DEVELOPER.
We can worry about these problems that may arise but it's either we take the risk and go on with the agreement or never buying the property at all for fear of being cheated.
Sigh, if only this world is filled with more honest and trustworthy people. I do hope the transaction will go well and that my dad has a little faith in trusting these people. He could just buy a property from a developer but that will be more expansive and buy buying this current property, he could possibly save RM 100 000 although he may risk losing RM 20 000 if the owners don't go thru with the transaction and my dad have to demand back the deposit money, lawyer fees, etc.
Right now, we managed to get the condo unit at the price that we wanted. The negotiation worked well (it was the agent who negotiated with the owner). Now the issue is that my dad insist on meeting the owner himself. Purpose? To know that the owner really wants to sell the condo.
Since this dealing is done through an agent, of course the agent wants her commission. If she were to let us deal with the owner before we pay the earnest deposit, there's a possibility she won't get her commission. I can just pretend i don't want the property and then in a few months i deal back with the owner to buy the property from owner directly. In the mean time, the owner can refused to sell the property to other buyers recommended by the agent. See the possibility?
A further prob that I just found out, the property is registered to 2 owners and they are in JB. They are business partners. But according to the agent, both owner do want to sell the property.
Currently, i can imagine all the bad things that can happened after we paid the earnest deposit :
1. My dad may sign the SPA but later the owner may refused to sign it. or one of the owner don't want to sign it.
2. Of course the owner have to refund to us the deposit money but this is such a big hassle when we don't get the property. Not only did we waste our time, but we also wasted money with the lawyer.
3. Sure we'll get back our deposit and the compensation (money spent on getting a lawyer) and all but now we have to look for a new house.
This is the problem when you buy a house through an agent and through another purchaser instead of buying one from the DEVELOPER.
We can worry about these problems that may arise but it's either we take the risk and go on with the agreement or never buying the property at all for fear of being cheated.
Sigh, if only this world is filled with more honest and trustworthy people. I do hope the transaction will go well and that my dad has a little faith in trusting these people. He could just buy a property from a developer but that will be more expansive and buy buying this current property, he could possibly save RM 100 000 although he may risk losing RM 20 000 if the owners don't go thru with the transaction and my dad have to demand back the deposit money, lawyer fees, etc.
Thursday, April 22, 2010
Age Limit for Social Networking
A friend of mine told me that he has a friend who has a 10 year old niece who has a MYSPACE ACCOUNT. For me, that doesn't sound right.
Once upon a time ago, i was a 10 year old too. So during that time, internet wasn't as developed as now. Now everything is about technology. I think i first had Friendster when i was 15/16 years old. Then i had Myspace account. And only last year i opened a Facebook account. Currently, i only have Facebook and Myspace account.
Chatting online itself is dangerous for young, naive people. I was young and naive when i was in my early teen years, believing whatever it is that boys say to me. But i was FORTUNATE enough not to do something stupid like meeting up with these guys on blind dates and get raped.
Yesterday, my friend told me that he saw in an column about a 15 year old girl receiving a marriage proposal from a guy on Facebook and was asking the columnist what she should do. Look how naive this girl is? And see how dangerous social networking are to young people? If the 15 year old girl was mature enough, she wouldn't even be thinking about the marriage proposal because she has her studies to finish, a career to build, etc.
I proposed social networking should only be opened to those 17 and above so you wouldn't hear nonsense like young girls running away from home with lovers they met from social networking.
Even handphones are dangerous tools to the young ones.
If 12, 13 year olds are allowed to have bf or gfs, why is society so surprised by things like young teens getting raped or getting pregnant out of wedlock. You let this happened in the first place. You never control what the things your children are doing. I know it isn't easy, hence i propose for people to get cats instead of making children :-)... If i ever become a mother, i know i'll be the Hitler of all mothers.
Another problem, parents never utilized the "Parental Control" thing over the internet.
Once upon a time ago, i was a 10 year old too. So during that time, internet wasn't as developed as now. Now everything is about technology. I think i first had Friendster when i was 15/16 years old. Then i had Myspace account. And only last year i opened a Facebook account. Currently, i only have Facebook and Myspace account.
Chatting online itself is dangerous for young, naive people. I was young and naive when i was in my early teen years, believing whatever it is that boys say to me. But i was FORTUNATE enough not to do something stupid like meeting up with these guys on blind dates and get raped.
Yesterday, my friend told me that he saw in an column about a 15 year old girl receiving a marriage proposal from a guy on Facebook and was asking the columnist what she should do. Look how naive this girl is? And see how dangerous social networking are to young people? If the 15 year old girl was mature enough, she wouldn't even be thinking about the marriage proposal because she has her studies to finish, a career to build, etc.
I proposed social networking should only be opened to those 17 and above so you wouldn't hear nonsense like young girls running away from home with lovers they met from social networking.
Even handphones are dangerous tools to the young ones.
If 12, 13 year olds are allowed to have bf or gfs, why is society so surprised by things like young teens getting raped or getting pregnant out of wedlock. You let this happened in the first place. You never control what the things your children are doing. I know it isn't easy, hence i propose for people to get cats instead of making children :-)... If i ever become a mother, i know i'll be the Hitler of all mothers.
Another problem, parents never utilized the "Parental Control" thing over the internet.
Poking Fun at Religion
I just don't get why people want to poke fun at EVERYTHING. Some things can be made fun of, and some things clearly can't. I don't know whether it's the western cultures to poke fun at everything including RELIGION but i find it a despicable act.
I came across this article online :
http://tv.yahoo.com/south-park/show/492/news/tv-news.en.reuters.com/tv-news.en.reuters.com-20100422-us_southpark_muslims
I only know the show South Park because i read Hollywood news. It's a cartoon-adult show where there are a lot of cursings and bad words and controversial stuff. I may not watch it but i think it's a disgusting show anyway. A disgusting show for the brainless. I don't enjoy comedies where there are a lot of bad words being used and a lot of sexual remarks.
Basically South Park tried to poke fun at Prophet Muhammad. Apparently this show loves to poke fun at every religion, here i copy and paste a part of the article :
I came across this article online :
http://tv.yahoo.com/south-park/show/492/news/tv-news.en.reuters.com/tv-news.en.reuters.com-20100422-us_southpark_muslims
I only know the show South Park because i read Hollywood news. It's a cartoon-adult show where there are a lot of cursings and bad words and controversial stuff. I may not watch it but i think it's a disgusting show anyway. A disgusting show for the brainless. I don't enjoy comedies where there are a lot of bad words being used and a lot of sexual remarks.
Basically South Park tried to poke fun at Prophet Muhammad. Apparently this show loves to poke fun at every religion, here i copy and paste a part of the article :
Most Muslims consider any depiction of the founder of Islam as offensive.
The website warning followed the first in a two-part episode of "South Park" a week ago in which Prophet Mohammad was depicted in a bear outfit.
"South Park" has a history of biting satire against politicians, celebrities and the media. The two Colorado filmmakers are known to often work on "South Park" until just before they air, enabling them to react to current events.
In Wednesday's new episode, Jesus Christ was depicted watching pornography and Buddha was portrayed snorting cocaine.
Am i the only one who feel what they are doing is disrespectful, especially the part Jesus Christ watching porno and Buddha doing cocaine? How can one even find such thing funny? Jokes on religions are never funny and are not meant to be poke fun at.
Sure, some would say we shouldn't do anything against such offenders because God will punish them one day. Or may God forgive them. They can do whatever they want but we shouldn't punish these people. I think otherwise. What is wrong with the law around the world? Why do they allow such insults? Don't they respect other religions all around the world? If they do respect, why do they allow media to poke fun at religion?
Islam is always accused of being violent because they posed threat against those who try to make fun of Islam. if say some idiot try to insult Islam, some religious leader would come up with a fatwa for that asshole to be killed. I think it's justified. Why?
1. Why didn't the "human law" take action against people who try to make fun, humiliate other religions? Had the human law make it an offence to publish material that would poke fun at religion or humiliate a religion, other people won't take matters into their own hands.
2. These offenders are naturally born asssholes. If they value their life, they wouldn't say mean things about other religion. What's the purpose you say mean things about other religion? Or humiliate other religions?
I dare you to look for that disgusting video titled SUBMISSION by Theo Van Gogh on YOU TUBE. No amount of words could describe the hatred i felt towards that asshole who created the video. When i watched that video, i was filled with so much anger and hatred that i felt that was the most disgusting thing i have ever saw in regard to Islam.
And i congratulate the person who killed the director because he deserved to be killed. I've seen a lot of idiots saying mean things about religions and if they apologized, i probably would forgive them but watching that video, no amount of apologies by that director or whoever is involved in the making in the video is enough.
The videos are filled with nothing but LIES! I'm a Muslim woman, and i don't feel that way at all and who in the hell are these outsiders to say that Muslim women are being degraded and abused in Islam? I may not be wearing a veil but i understand the purpose behind it and i respect those who wear it in the RIGHT MANNER.
And if you really truly feel that Islam is degrading it's women, is your manner in trying to convey the message right? You make a woman wear a see thru 'praying cloth' and make her pray like how a muslim would pray and u have quranic verses written all over her body. What in the fuck is that? You turn it into a degrading sexual manner. If someone is guilty of degrading women, it's the director himself who made the woman in the video be naked.
If you honestly and genuinely want to say Islam is degrading it's woman, you could have just show a "professional" decent video how Islam is degrading their women. But noo, all these are nothing but cheap publicity stunt, wanting to provoke the Muslim community.
If you can have death sentence for murder, such offence deserved equally the death punishment because this video went overboard. I still can accept that stupid cartoon where a bomb is drawn on Prophet Muhammad's head but not this kind of bullshit.
I know this video is old and long time ago but people nowadays need to be reminded how stupid it is to be making fun of religion. Where is your sense of respect? Do u even have any sensitivity? What kind of world are we living in? The kind with NO LIMITS? NO RESPECT?
And most importantly, why is there no law prohibiting media or people from making fun of religion? I know Malaysia has one but what's wrong with other countries? Allowing shows to poke fun at religion?
Wednesday, April 21, 2010
Reviewing my past relationships.
It took me some time to actually realized that I'm afraid of relationship commitments. Truth to be told, i am a loyal partner but expect me stray when i don't see a future in the relationship. Why did i break up with my last ex? I don't see a future with him. Why have a relationship if you can't see a future with the one that you love? Besides that, the love have gone. I can't say I Love You in a genuine way as i used to. What happened to that feeling? It was destroyed by the many arguments that we had. People may say they are petty arguments but i'm a woman who take arguments and dissatisfaction seriously. Problems that keep on reoccurring are SERIOUS, why in the hell would it keep on reoccurring then? i don't like having problems lingering around my life. I find a solution and get a solution, even if it's drastic, like BREAKING UP.
My past relationships have shown that i'm still not ready to be in a relationship because i'm not willing to give up certain things and not that willing to compromise. I find it very hard to compromise with men than women because men are just bloody irritating. I love men but i hate them at the same time. Fortunately my hate for men haven't turned me into a lesbian. I don't think i'll be one anyway if i remained unmarried until i'm 100 years old. Besides me being the problematic one, i haven't found Mr Right. Perhaps my demands are high. But who cares. My priority is not getting married. Maybe you should ask me that when i reached 30 years old.
My next relationship will be when i start to work because i just want to see if i can handle a career and a bf at the same time. Another reason why a partner strays off from he relationship is because he/she didn't get enough attention from his/her partner. So i don't want that to happen. If i can find a partner who's as busy as me, then that will be fine.
My 2010 love motto ---> never rush into the next relationship. I'll get to know my partner for 6 months first before i decide we can be a couple or not. If there's one thing i learn about relationship is that it's always perfect in the beginning. You can see no flaws in your partner. You have the butterfly feeling in your stomach, your heart will be so excited at the sight of your partner and you'll do anything for your partner. That's how you feel during the first 5 months of your relationship after declaring. Then like any normal human being, you still start taking your partner for granted or you'll start showing your bad side. Some how that bad side just happened to crept out after 5 months into the relationship. FUNNY. WHAT A COINCIDENCE you didn't discover it earlier. Too blinded by love?
Every time it seems that i found Mr Right, i'll make sure i see his bad side too because no one is perfect. So am i. Whatever secrets i have, i tell my partner. So dig all you can before you choose to commit, you don't want to find any secrets when your relationship seems to be going smoothly. I don't know, i see a lot of women who have tolerance in accepting the fact their partner cheated behind their back 'physically' with another woman WHILE IN THE RELATIONSHIP, or when their partner is abusive. For me, these are no no. Not a single ounce of tolerance from me. Why? Because i'm an Alpha Woman. What's that? Try google Alpha Man.
So the process of my next relationship? : I need to change --> Mr Right needs to be Mr Right with the qualities that i'm seeking --> Balance career and relationship.
My past relationships have shown that i'm still not ready to be in a relationship because i'm not willing to give up certain things and not that willing to compromise. I find it very hard to compromise with men than women because men are just bloody irritating. I love men but i hate them at the same time. Fortunately my hate for men haven't turned me into a lesbian. I don't think i'll be one anyway if i remained unmarried until i'm 100 years old. Besides me being the problematic one, i haven't found Mr Right. Perhaps my demands are high. But who cares. My priority is not getting married. Maybe you should ask me that when i reached 30 years old.
My next relationship will be when i start to work because i just want to see if i can handle a career and a bf at the same time. Another reason why a partner strays off from he relationship is because he/she didn't get enough attention from his/her partner. So i don't want that to happen. If i can find a partner who's as busy as me, then that will be fine.
My 2010 love motto ---> never rush into the next relationship. I'll get to know my partner for 6 months first before i decide we can be a couple or not. If there's one thing i learn about relationship is that it's always perfect in the beginning. You can see no flaws in your partner. You have the butterfly feeling in your stomach, your heart will be so excited at the sight of your partner and you'll do anything for your partner. That's how you feel during the first 5 months of your relationship after declaring. Then like any normal human being, you still start taking your partner for granted or you'll start showing your bad side. Some how that bad side just happened to crept out after 5 months into the relationship. FUNNY. WHAT A COINCIDENCE you didn't discover it earlier. Too blinded by love?
Every time it seems that i found Mr Right, i'll make sure i see his bad side too because no one is perfect. So am i. Whatever secrets i have, i tell my partner. So dig all you can before you choose to commit, you don't want to find any secrets when your relationship seems to be going smoothly. I don't know, i see a lot of women who have tolerance in accepting the fact their partner cheated behind their back 'physically' with another woman WHILE IN THE RELATIONSHIP, or when their partner is abusive. For me, these are no no. Not a single ounce of tolerance from me. Why? Because i'm an Alpha Woman. What's that? Try google Alpha Man.
So the process of my next relationship? : I need to change --> Mr Right needs to be Mr Right with the qualities that i'm seeking --> Balance career and relationship.
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
Cairo, Egypt – D 5 : Pyramids, Perfumes, Papyrus, Carpets & I Enjoyed Sooooo Much Today!!
Today’s trip is definitely not one to be forgotten. Our tour guide for today is an Egyptian woman named Nana who’s well experienced in pyramids. She was super friendly and sweet and not to mention very helpful because she helped us take a lot of pictures today, especially with me, my dad and bro. Have to thanked her a lot for her knowledge in pyramids and Egyptian history and mythologies because I have gained a lot of knowledge from her. Yes, I’m super excited because I’m very in love with Egyptian mythologies and history. So if anyone wants to tell me a thing about centuries ago of Egyptian history, I’m all ears.
Our trip for today started at 7 30am. I really hate the traffic jam here in Cairo. So terrible. You think Malaysia is worst, wait til you are at Cairo, it seems every where is jam. At least in Malaysia we know that KL is always jam. Plus the drivers in Cairo never give signals when changing lanes. But i really love the weather here soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much (how can I emphasized that even more??!). It’s sooooo cold. But i still can stand it so didn’t need to wear a sweater (plus, wearing one will just make me look fatter). It’s cold but sunny.
Our first visit was to the PYRAMIDS. The Giza pyramids. There are 3 big ones but we managed to get the opportunity to enter the biggest and tallest pyramid. We were told that per day, only 100 people can enter the pyramids. Although we can enter the pyramids, we are NOT ALLOWED to take pictures what’s inside the pyramid. So what is it like to enter the pyramid? DREADFUL. The entrance to the pyramid is small and narrow. It’s quite a distance to reach the tomb of the King. While trying to get there, you have to climb narrow and steep steps and then crouch like 90 degrees because the passageway is simply small. Not only that, the way to the tomb and coming back from the tomb is the same way so you really have to squeeze your way through to get passed people going back. And it’s HOT. Totally different from the outside weather. Seriously, i don’t know how many times i bumped my head against the low ceiling. Once we reached the tomb, my dad and bro tried to lie down in the tomb. Me? NO WAY. I don’t want to provoke any angry spirits :-p. The tomb was empty. There was nothing really to see except to get the experience of being inside a pyramid.
THE GREAT PYRAMID BEHIND US.... MOST BEAUTIFUL I'VE EVER SEEN...
THE ENTRANCE INTO THE GREAT PYRAMID.. SMALL AND NARROW.
THIS IS THE 2ND PYRAMID.
ILLUSTRATION ON HOW THE PYRAMID WAS BUILT...
Pyramid is a King’s tomb. It’s built like a triangle because the apex is pointing towards the sky, some kind of stairway to heaven I guess. But I really admire the fact how behind every symbol there’s a reason to it, may not be logical “logical” but nevertheless it efforts some kind of logic behind these actions. It takes 20 years to built the great pyramid and 2.3 mil of stones (Sorry if i got some of the facts wrong because i’m bad with numbers :-D). The pyramids are just so beautiful and i admire how people back then built the pyramids. The engineer behind it is so smart. When i touched the pyramid, it felt so strong and solid. Unfortunately, some things are not meant to last forever and these pyramids may soon be gone due to natural erosion.
We also had the opportunity to see the Sphinx, a creature with the head of a human and body of a lion which represents intelligence, power and i forgot the other one (wisdom? Knowledge?). The tour guide explained the purpose of the Sphinx but i forgot about it. I can’t absorbed every information ;-p. We also went to see the steps pyramid. The steps pyramid are the first pyramid to be built because to begin with, are never built as triangular shapes.
THE SPHINX.. BEHIND IT IS THE 2ND PYRAMID...
THE STEPS PYRAMID.. COZ IT LOOK LIKE STEPS..Next, we visited a shop where they make glass bottles and perfumes. This is very educational for me! The glass bottles they make are so beautifully designed. Some of the bottles are designed to store perfume oils. We were given a brief lesson on how glass bottles are made and later how perfumes are made. Egyptian perfumes are concentrated perfumes in the form of oils. The essence are originally extracted from flowers, hence no alcohol or whatever chemical stuff that modern perfumes have. To make various essence, the flower essence are mixed up.
HOW TO MAKE GLASS... INVOLVED A LOT OF BLOWING...
AND FIRE....
THE FINAL PRODUCT... A BEAUTIFUL GLASS BOTTLE... EGYPTIAN STYLE..
THE PERFUMES WE BOUGHT.. MINE IS LOTUS FLOWER AND VANILLA...
The person explaining this informed us that whatever modern perfume that we are wearing, like CK, Polo, Dior, Hugo Boss and many others are all originated from Egyptian perfume. CK, Dior, Hugo Boos are commercial names of the perfumes. I refused to believe it at first until he asked me what perfume i like and i told him Britney Spears – Fantasy (i thought he wouldn’t know that since it’s a celebrity brand but surprisingly he knows!). He let me smell the Egyptian perfume of Fantasy and it smell exactly like Fantasy! Hmm now that i’m thinking back, perhaps these commercial perfumes come out first and later the Egyptian version of the perfumes are made. Examples : Hugo Boss is known as Tut Ankh Amon, Ramsis II as CK 1, Cleopatra as Poison. We bought some perfumes. I bought Vanilla and Lotus Flower scents while my dad and bro go for Arabian Nights a.k.a Egyptian Viagra – the smell suppose to drive WOMEN CRAZY and GAGA. The guy said “Scent of Arabia” is a woman’s perfume that suppose to drive men crazy. I tried the smell, it didn’t make me go gaga so i opt to go for scents that makes me go gaga and not what men go gaga for. The 4 scents cost 105 USD, 30 ml each. Me being a girl, has the PRIVILEGE to get 2 :-D. Mwahahahahahah.
After the perfume shop, we went to the Papyrus shop. Egyptians are the first to create papers, and not the Chinese. We were shown how the first paper was made, and this is not your typical A 4 white paper. Paper made from papyrus are such of good quality. It’s strong, and no matter how much you bend it or roll it, it will return to it’s normal size. After the demonstration on how the paper was made, we went to the gallery where pictures are drawn on papyrus. Egyptian mythologies were drawn into the papyrus. One really interesting picture is how one is being judged on judgment day where your heart will be weighted against a feather in a balancing scale. If your heart is lighter, you’ll go to heaven or vice versa.
AND THE EXPLANATION ON HOW THE VERY 1ST PAPER ON EARTH WAS MADE BEGINS...
THE PAPYRUS.. SOURCE OF THE PAPER.. SORRY FOR THE BAD PIC WITH MY FINGER!
YOU NEED TO HAMMER IT TO FLATTEN IT.
IT'S ALMOST LIKE COOKING REALLY...
THEN ARRANGE IT TO FORM A PIECE OF GOOD QUALITY PAPER...
TADA! A PIECE OF GOOD QUALITY PAPER...
THE GUY EXPLAINING WHAT THE EGYPTIAN CALENDER MEANS....
HE'S EXPLAINING THE PROCESS OF EGYPTIAN JUDGMENT DAY... VERY INTERESTING.
THE CAT PIC WHICH I BOUGHT... WITH MY NAME IN EGYPTIAN HIEROGLYPICS
I went around looking at the gallery and found a beautiful cat picture! Actually it’s the picture of a cat goddess, Bast. The shop also offer to write your name in Egyptian hieroglyphic next to the picture. This got me very excited and every hieroglyphic symbolised something. What i saw would cost me 110 Egyptian pounds. I was okay with the picture until the guy showed me another picture of a cat, BIGGER and more beautiful but it will cost 350 Egyptian pounds. Too expensive. Oh God, but the seller was so determined to get me to buy it. Picture my dad lecturing and then killing me later, i told him i’ll be happy with the cheaper one. He said he can reduced the price to 300. I said no. Then he said, is it because of the price, i said yes. He said he’ll reduced it to 275 (now this got me interested a bit). He said, with 275 pounds, he’ll give me another free small picture and a bookmark. Hmm so i decided to push my luck and asked him what about 250? He was hesitant but gave in for 250 and plus the bookmark. I asked my dad and he said ok (after i explained to him HOW I BARGAINED). But i find the seller to be sincere and genuine. The free bookmark he gave me, i can also write my name in hieroglyphic. So i told him to write it in my name but after a few minutes, i decided to change my mind and wanted to give it as a present to a friend. So i quickly went to the seller and told him that if my name have not been written yet, is it okay to changed it. But he told me it’s already written but, he’ll give me another one. That was very kind of him! For a shop like this one, which sells good quality products, i would think i had a good bargain. 250 for a medium size cat picture with my name on it and 3 free bookmarks.
The following visitation is to the Carpet School, to see how carpets are made by handmade. There are 3 types, silk, wool and i forgot the other one. Different techniques to make these 3 types of material carpets. These are difficult stuff. And because the carpets are handmade, the prices are expansive. We didn’t buy any there since in Malaysia, you have tons of carpet sellers everywhere especially from Pakistan or Bangladesh.
HOW HANDMADE CARPETS ARE MADE...
WE LATER WHEN TO THIS ONE PLACE, SOMETHING LIKE A MUSEUM... STATUES OF THE KING. SOME OF THE FACE ARE PARTIALLY DAMAGED, LIKE THE NOSE. IT'S DONE PURPOSELY BY ENEMIES SO THE SPIRIT OF THE KING WON'T BE IN PEACE.
Those were the trips of the day. We had planned to do a night time activity of some kind of pyramid light show but we decided to skipped it. We were too tired. Hell, we started at 7 30pm and ended at 4 pm. Then to go out at night time with the crazy traffic jams where we will spend hours in the car and the next day we have to get up as early as 4 am because we need to leave the hotel at 6 am and take 9 30 am flight to Dhubai? It’ll be too tiring.
So once we reached the hotel, as promised by my dad, we went to the souvenir shop to get my cat doll ;-D. I went there the first time yesterday but thought maybe i’ll get the cat dolls at other places outside the hotel because hotel ones are usually expansive. But the tour guide said that the stuff sold outside are mostly bad quality so my dad said just buy the ones at hotel.
THE KITTY WHICH I BOUGHT..
Tuesday, April 13, 2010
Look At It This Way...
Married men or men with gfs don't trigger any interest in me. Yes, i still be friends with them but no hanky panky. There's this one incident on a social networking where i've known this guy for a very long time. He has my number and all but somehow one day we lost contact. Then he messaged me back on the social networking and i notice from his profile he has a gf. When he asked me out, i pointed out to the fact he has a gf. Then of course, the typical answer would be "just go out as friends, what's the problem?".
So one day i was online when suddenly this guy chatted with me on the social network and the language he used was rough, not as what he used when he messaged me. the "so called" guy rudely asked me what's wrong with his gf. At this moment, I suspected something amiss. First and foremost, while exchanging message with the guy, i never talk about his gf or bitched about her. So what's with the question?
So i played along, i wanted to see how dumb this bitch was. And the way she talked to me was starting to get on my fucking nerves, talking like some uneducated, uncivilised "minah rempit" with terms like "ko", "aku"... It irritates the daylights out of me when someone talk to me in such way, be it guys or girls. I find it very disrespectful, and who cares if that person is not close to you. Why can't you just use "saya" or "kamu".
That bitched pressed the wrong button when she said i'm like a tin kosong. That's when i turned into my full bitch mode. Who in the fucked does she think she is to say that to me. The thing bout this bitch is that she's being bitchy with me just because her bf was contacting me. Hey bitch, i never make the first move. And i never encourage him. And if you act this bitchy with me, i've give a bitch lecture that you'll never forget, bitch.
I immediately went to that guy's profile to see how does his gf look like. I also came across her profile. Truth to be told, the bf is very good looking. He's cute but thin. Any girls would throw themselves at him and i can see that's what the gf is doing. But for me, in rules of dating rules, good looks isn't everything.
Back to that bitch, she's not a threat. But for calling me a tin kosong, i feel like stuffing a fucking tin kosong down her throat. Does she need me to illustrate what's a fucking tin kosong? Just by looking at her pic, she looks like a fucking tin kosong. So i attacked her back with my level of education coz i know she has nothing (yes, i can be that mean when you think you are some kind of a fucking hot shot but the fact is you aren't). I was telling her does she want me to slap her with my degree on her fucking face.
Then she said whats the point of education if my attitude is like shit. This is when i go 101% full bitch mode and blow her cover. She doesn't even know me and said my attitude is like shit? I was telling her bitch, don't blame me if your bf is "gatal" because in the first place, i never talk about you with your bf and suddenly you are accusing me of saying something bad about his gf?
Then she tried to insist that she's a BOY and not a girl. That's when i noticed she became timid and didn't proceed with bitching bout me.
People, when your partner is cheating behind your back, there's no point of getting angry at the third person. It's a different story if that person is the one who makes the first move and tries to seduce him/her.
The problem of cheating comes from your partner, not the surrounding environment or circumstances. Your partner is 90% blameworthy. But i see most couples decide to forgive their partner and bitch about the 3rd party. Yes, you may eliminate the current third party but if your partner has a cheating attitude, there will always be future 3rd parties. So what, you are gonna keep eliminating the 3rd parties like pesky rodents while you declare your undying strong bond of love with your partner who isn't taking you that seriously? People are indeed so blinded by "sad" and "pathetic" love.
So one day i was online when suddenly this guy chatted with me on the social network and the language he used was rough, not as what he used when he messaged me. the "so called" guy rudely asked me what's wrong with his gf. At this moment, I suspected something amiss. First and foremost, while exchanging message with the guy, i never talk about his gf or bitched about her. So what's with the question?
So i played along, i wanted to see how dumb this bitch was. And the way she talked to me was starting to get on my fucking nerves, talking like some uneducated, uncivilised "minah rempit" with terms like "ko", "aku"... It irritates the daylights out of me when someone talk to me in such way, be it guys or girls. I find it very disrespectful, and who cares if that person is not close to you. Why can't you just use "saya" or "kamu".
That bitched pressed the wrong button when she said i'm like a tin kosong. That's when i turned into my full bitch mode. Who in the fucked does she think she is to say that to me. The thing bout this bitch is that she's being bitchy with me just because her bf was contacting me. Hey bitch, i never make the first move. And i never encourage him. And if you act this bitchy with me, i've give a bitch lecture that you'll never forget, bitch.
I immediately went to that guy's profile to see how does his gf look like. I also came across her profile. Truth to be told, the bf is very good looking. He's cute but thin. Any girls would throw themselves at him and i can see that's what the gf is doing. But for me, in rules of dating rules, good looks isn't everything.
Back to that bitch, she's not a threat. But for calling me a tin kosong, i feel like stuffing a fucking tin kosong down her throat. Does she need me to illustrate what's a fucking tin kosong? Just by looking at her pic, she looks like a fucking tin kosong. So i attacked her back with my level of education coz i know she has nothing (yes, i can be that mean when you think you are some kind of a fucking hot shot but the fact is you aren't). I was telling her does she want me to slap her with my degree on her fucking face.
Then she said whats the point of education if my attitude is like shit. This is when i go 101% full bitch mode and blow her cover. She doesn't even know me and said my attitude is like shit? I was telling her bitch, don't blame me if your bf is "gatal" because in the first place, i never talk about you with your bf and suddenly you are accusing me of saying something bad about his gf?
Then she tried to insist that she's a BOY and not a girl. That's when i noticed she became timid and didn't proceed with bitching bout me.
People, when your partner is cheating behind your back, there's no point of getting angry at the third person. It's a different story if that person is the one who makes the first move and tries to seduce him/her.
The problem of cheating comes from your partner, not the surrounding environment or circumstances. Your partner is 90% blameworthy. But i see most couples decide to forgive their partner and bitch about the 3rd party. Yes, you may eliminate the current third party but if your partner has a cheating attitude, there will always be future 3rd parties. So what, you are gonna keep eliminating the 3rd parties like pesky rodents while you declare your undying strong bond of love with your partner who isn't taking you that seriously? People are indeed so blinded by "sad" and "pathetic" love.
Saturday, April 10, 2010
It's not really racism...
Sometimes when you travel by the public bus, you observed a lot such as people and the surroundings. I mean, if you are driving, you are suppose to concentrate on the road so you can't really pay attention to other stuff. When you take the bus, you meet a lot of weird people. Like the other day, there's this woman who was wiping her face with a piece of towel and she used the same towel to WIPE HER ARMPITS. She really wipe her armpits! And then she wiped her face again.
And today i noticed something INTERESTING. The bus was passing by this condominium and it stopped there for awhile because of the jammed. It gave me time to read what was on the banner :
" We are not racism but we are against foreigners who are arrogant, rebellious and can't adapt to our lifestyle and Malaysia culture". I would have taken a picture of this but there was a guy sitting across me and the banner was behind him so if i look at the banner any longer or attempt to take a pic of it, he would think i'm interested in him or something.
I think there's a slight English mistake on the banner, it should have been RACISTS not racism. Nevertheless, i feel that the banner does convey the right message because that was how i felt ages ago when Malaysia decide to take in too many foreigners and when foreigners start to become troublemakers.
You see, I know this condominium well. It's a very packed place. Not such a good environment to live in but the rental is cheap. And there's a lot of foreign students there, the Blacks, Arabians, Chinese from China etc. Not many Bangladesh people there because the Bangladesh and Indonesian workers stay at another apartment.
Back to this Racism issue. Some people think that racism arise due to discrimination of skin colour. Perhaps this is true long long time ago but people now are highly educated. So it's got to be more than just skin colour. Seriously, why do you want to hate something just because it's too white, black or yellow? That's simply too shallow. Example, even in the Malay community, they take such pride if you are fair. When you are fair, it means you are beautiful, high class, etc. That's why you have so many young girls who use skin whitening products for the sake of looking like a bloody ghost. Like those stupid local advertisement, showing that if you are dark, you are unnoticeable. But when you use the stupid skin whitening, immediately the guy of your dreams notices you. What kind of B*llsh*t is that?
Truth to be told, i never discriminate people on skin colour. What i discriminate is ATTITUDE. Bad attitude.
All over this world, there are many cultures. Some cultures are too open, some are liberal while some are very conservative. That's when you get culture shock, because you have never experience such culture in your life especially if the culture is very open. Asian people culture tend to be more on the conservative part. In Malaysia, we are semi conservative. Majority of the people are conservative and the rest are like open minded and wild. But if you go to Saudi Arabia, that country is super conservative, so are the laws. But that's their culture and we must respect it.
When you are a foreigner and you enter a foreign country, you must respect that culture, you have no rights to criticized that country's culture. If you plan to live in the country due to work or studying, it might take you some time to adapt to it but eventually you will get used to it if you really try it.
Malaysians are not loud people. And you must remember, this is a country where the main religion is Islam and the majority here are Muslims. So we don't like it if we see people drinking in public and acting like hooligans, screaming and dancing like some retard humans. You want to do all these nonsense, it's not prohibited. You do it ONLY at CLUBS, with the rest of your drunken species. But never do it in public, it's an act that is not tolerable. Our own people don't do it, what more if you are a foreigner and you do it?
Some cultures are simply too wild. When it's too wild, it can't fit in a conservative country.
I don't entirely blame the foreign students for this discrimination issue and them being insensitive to Malaysia's culture. Malaysia government and the foreign student's government should take the INITIATIVE to educated their students about Malaysia's culture, the Do's and Don'ts of the country.
But Noooooooo, authorities are too selfish and greedy to make such initiative. All they care is money and the attempt at building a relationship between the two countries, hence the student exchange program. This is a total waste of time and crap if you in the first place never bother to educate your people about each others' cultures. Instead you just let your people run off loosely in the country and hope they will learn about that country on their own. So you are indirectly letting your people make all the mistakes and get into trouble with local authorities instead of letting them know firstly of what they shouldn't do in that country.
Different cultures are the real cause to racial discrimination, especially if one can't really accept such culture. People should learn to tolerate each others' culture but if you aren't Malaysian, you can't expect the rest of Malaysians to accept your wild foreign culture, especially if it's totally contrary to what the majority practices.
Also, because majority of the students of that particular foreign country are troublemakers, the good ones get the bad names, hence people start to labeling that they whole kind is bad, making the innocent ones as victims too. As the saying goes, one rotten apple spoils the barrel. For Malaysians, we shouldn't behave this way, don't start labeling people just because the majority are very messed up.
Like in the bus the other day, i observed how rude were the bus driver and the conductor towards the foreign students. I felt sorry for the 2 male foreign students and embarrassed as a Malaysian. Why must they be so rude if the 2 boys didn't do anything wrong? That one is clearly discrimination based on 'labeling'.
And today i noticed something INTERESTING. The bus was passing by this condominium and it stopped there for awhile because of the jammed. It gave me time to read what was on the banner :
" We are not racism but we are against foreigners who are arrogant, rebellious and can't adapt to our lifestyle and Malaysia culture". I would have taken a picture of this but there was a guy sitting across me and the banner was behind him so if i look at the banner any longer or attempt to take a pic of it, he would think i'm interested in him or something.
I think there's a slight English mistake on the banner, it should have been RACISTS not racism. Nevertheless, i feel that the banner does convey the right message because that was how i felt ages ago when Malaysia decide to take in too many foreigners and when foreigners start to become troublemakers.
You see, I know this condominium well. It's a very packed place. Not such a good environment to live in but the rental is cheap. And there's a lot of foreign students there, the Blacks, Arabians, Chinese from China etc. Not many Bangladesh people there because the Bangladesh and Indonesian workers stay at another apartment.
Back to this Racism issue. Some people think that racism arise due to discrimination of skin colour. Perhaps this is true long long time ago but people now are highly educated. So it's got to be more than just skin colour. Seriously, why do you want to hate something just because it's too white, black or yellow? That's simply too shallow. Example, even in the Malay community, they take such pride if you are fair. When you are fair, it means you are beautiful, high class, etc. That's why you have so many young girls who use skin whitening products for the sake of looking like a bloody ghost. Like those stupid local advertisement, showing that if you are dark, you are unnoticeable. But when you use the stupid skin whitening, immediately the guy of your dreams notices you. What kind of B*llsh*t is that?
Truth to be told, i never discriminate people on skin colour. What i discriminate is ATTITUDE. Bad attitude.
All over this world, there are many cultures. Some cultures are too open, some are liberal while some are very conservative. That's when you get culture shock, because you have never experience such culture in your life especially if the culture is very open. Asian people culture tend to be more on the conservative part. In Malaysia, we are semi conservative. Majority of the people are conservative and the rest are like open minded and wild. But if you go to Saudi Arabia, that country is super conservative, so are the laws. But that's their culture and we must respect it.
When you are a foreigner and you enter a foreign country, you must respect that culture, you have no rights to criticized that country's culture. If you plan to live in the country due to work or studying, it might take you some time to adapt to it but eventually you will get used to it if you really try it.
Malaysians are not loud people. And you must remember, this is a country where the main religion is Islam and the majority here are Muslims. So we don't like it if we see people drinking in public and acting like hooligans, screaming and dancing like some retard humans. You want to do all these nonsense, it's not prohibited. You do it ONLY at CLUBS, with the rest of your drunken species. But never do it in public, it's an act that is not tolerable. Our own people don't do it, what more if you are a foreigner and you do it?
Some cultures are simply too wild. When it's too wild, it can't fit in a conservative country.
I don't entirely blame the foreign students for this discrimination issue and them being insensitive to Malaysia's culture. Malaysia government and the foreign student's government should take the INITIATIVE to educated their students about Malaysia's culture, the Do's and Don'ts of the country.
But Noooooooo, authorities are too selfish and greedy to make such initiative. All they care is money and the attempt at building a relationship between the two countries, hence the student exchange program. This is a total waste of time and crap if you in the first place never bother to educate your people about each others' cultures. Instead you just let your people run off loosely in the country and hope they will learn about that country on their own. So you are indirectly letting your people make all the mistakes and get into trouble with local authorities instead of letting them know firstly of what they shouldn't do in that country.
Different cultures are the real cause to racial discrimination, especially if one can't really accept such culture. People should learn to tolerate each others' culture but if you aren't Malaysian, you can't expect the rest of Malaysians to accept your wild foreign culture, especially if it's totally contrary to what the majority practices.
Also, because majority of the students of that particular foreign country are troublemakers, the good ones get the bad names, hence people start to labeling that they whole kind is bad, making the innocent ones as victims too. As the saying goes, one rotten apple spoils the barrel. For Malaysians, we shouldn't behave this way, don't start labeling people just because the majority are very messed up.
Like in the bus the other day, i observed how rude were the bus driver and the conductor towards the foreign students. I felt sorry for the 2 male foreign students and embarrassed as a Malaysian. Why must they be so rude if the 2 boys didn't do anything wrong? That one is clearly discrimination based on 'labeling'.
Thursday, April 8, 2010
Reality of MOST marriage...
Women get married in their early 20's.
Get pregnant in their mid 20's.
Divorce in their 30's.
A simple explanation on the increased amount of divorces and single moms in Malaysia ...
Get pregnant in their mid 20's.
Divorce in their 30's.
A simple explanation on the increased amount of divorces and single moms in Malaysia ...
Monday, April 5, 2010
Question, Analyse and Understand
I bought a DVD today which has a sticker on it which says WARNING: THIS FILM IS NOT SUITABLE FOR MUSLIM VIEWERS. The sticker made me more eager to watch since my friends did tell me it's a good movie and really makes you think. I'm a very curious person. Like for example, if somebody told me there's a movie that is really very gore, i would watch it. Any controversial movie will make me wanna watch it.
At times i think Malaysia is being overprotective of it's Muslims citizens with the amount of banning and censorship. The purpose of the banning? So the Muslims won't be brainwashed or easily influenced. Personally for me, if your faith is strong, you won't be easily influenced. As for me, i'm not a person who's easily influenced. I stay strong to my principles despite people may tell me i'm wrong. Well, in a way i am stubborn.
Telling Muslims what they can and can't watched is indirectly implying they are stupid and don't know how to think. Don't tell me just by watching one movie alone your faith can change? If say i was easily influenced by the movie, firstly i would asked someone knowledgeable in my religion if i have anything in my mind that troubles me regarding my religion. And i would expect a decent answer. If i can't get a decent answer, i would ask other people who can give me a satisfactory answer. If you really love your religion, you wouldn't just convert in a split second over something someone said to you or something that you watched. You need to use your brain to seek the truth.
God gives human beings "akal" (i think it's called intelligence in English) for us to THINK. That's the difference between humans and animals. Humans can think and tell the difference between right and wrong. Whatever it is that we do, we use our intelligence to think. We face a problem, we think rationally and logically to find a solution.
It applies the same way to religion. What is wrong with questioning your own religion? It doesn't mean you have committed the greatest sin of all but most people would think that way.They think the moment you question your religion, you don't believe in your religion. That's bullsh*t. I questioned my religion a lot and i seek answers from the right people and they gave me satisfactory answers. I asked questions such as :
1. What's the purpose of us being put on earth and being told to believe in Him?
2. What's the purpose of praying.
And many more. When i questioned, i always get reasonable answers, there's no contradictions. why do you need to follow something blindly just because everyone is doing it? You have the right to question and the right to get an answer.
Of course, since people like to be judgmental of me, when i asked questions, someone did tell me whats the point of me asking and questioning the religion if i'm not following what that religion requires me to do. Again, i'm not a saint. But what kind of person are you for giving me that kind of answer? Whether i follow it or not, i'm just asking out of curiosity. Imagine if an outsider that doesn't practice your religion ask a similar question, are you just gonna tell him/her provided her convert into your religion?
But this is simply human nature. They become upset when they couldn't answer you, especially those super religious people that's suppose to know it all but couldn't answer your answer so he become very frustrated and started accusing you of being a "murtad" for questioning your religion. There are 2 kinds of religious and knowledgeable people, those who use their brain to think, and those who don't use their brain to think. Those who use their brain to think can answer your questions while those who don't use their brain to think, the only reason why they are claimed to be religous is because they read and memorize a lot of religious stuff and do a lot of religious practices.
Simply put it this way, how can you truly appreciate something without understanding it? And how would you understand if you don't question it in the first place if it raises doubt in you.
At times i think Malaysia is being overprotective of it's Muslims citizens with the amount of banning and censorship. The purpose of the banning? So the Muslims won't be brainwashed or easily influenced. Personally for me, if your faith is strong, you won't be easily influenced. As for me, i'm not a person who's easily influenced. I stay strong to my principles despite people may tell me i'm wrong. Well, in a way i am stubborn.
Telling Muslims what they can and can't watched is indirectly implying they are stupid and don't know how to think. Don't tell me just by watching one movie alone your faith can change? If say i was easily influenced by the movie, firstly i would asked someone knowledgeable in my religion if i have anything in my mind that troubles me regarding my religion. And i would expect a decent answer. If i can't get a decent answer, i would ask other people who can give me a satisfactory answer. If you really love your religion, you wouldn't just convert in a split second over something someone said to you or something that you watched. You need to use your brain to seek the truth.
God gives human beings "akal" (i think it's called intelligence in English) for us to THINK. That's the difference between humans and animals. Humans can think and tell the difference between right and wrong. Whatever it is that we do, we use our intelligence to think. We face a problem, we think rationally and logically to find a solution.
It applies the same way to religion. What is wrong with questioning your own religion? It doesn't mean you have committed the greatest sin of all but most people would think that way.They think the moment you question your religion, you don't believe in your religion. That's bullsh*t. I questioned my religion a lot and i seek answers from the right people and they gave me satisfactory answers. I asked questions such as :
1. What's the purpose of us being put on earth and being told to believe in Him?
2. What's the purpose of praying.
And many more. When i questioned, i always get reasonable answers, there's no contradictions. why do you need to follow something blindly just because everyone is doing it? You have the right to question and the right to get an answer.
Of course, since people like to be judgmental of me, when i asked questions, someone did tell me whats the point of me asking and questioning the religion if i'm not following what that religion requires me to do. Again, i'm not a saint. But what kind of person are you for giving me that kind of answer? Whether i follow it or not, i'm just asking out of curiosity. Imagine if an outsider that doesn't practice your religion ask a similar question, are you just gonna tell him/her provided her convert into your religion?
But this is simply human nature. They become upset when they couldn't answer you, especially those super religious people that's suppose to know it all but couldn't answer your answer so he become very frustrated and started accusing you of being a "murtad" for questioning your religion. There are 2 kinds of religious and knowledgeable people, those who use their brain to think, and those who don't use their brain to think. Those who use their brain to think can answer your questions while those who don't use their brain to think, the only reason why they are claimed to be religous is because they read and memorize a lot of religious stuff and do a lot of religious practices.
Simply put it this way, how can you truly appreciate something without understanding it? And how would you understand if you don't question it in the first place if it raises doubt in you.
Disrespecting the Dead...
There was an issue whereby one of Malaysia's celebrity, Din Beramboi passed away and there was a boy on Facebook who said something disrespectful and mean. He said "Al-F*ck for Din", whereby it was suppose to be "Al Fatihah for Din".
The boy is a school boy. Around 13 years old or lesser. What he said is totally wrong and deserved to be slapped. There was a face book fan page that demand the boy to apologized for what he said. Basically, it's a hate page towards the boy.
I noticed that some of the comments made by those who joined the page demanded that a police report be made against him. I think it's unreasonable. On what grounds you want police to catch him? For insulting the dead? As far as i know, there's no such law. Few months ago, i think it was the Sultan of Johor who passed away and someone insulted him and charges were made against that person. Maybe there's such offence if you insulted the Sultan or Agong since they are the "big" people.
But if you simply insult normal people or celebrities, be it they are dead or alive, it's just a normal insult. It's not even a defamation and defamation don't even worked on dead people. Defamation is an action that you bring against someone who said something UNTRUE about yourself to the PUBLIC and it has the effect of DAMAGING your REPUTATION. Insulting is just saying something mean and humiliating. Someone may say i'm a whore or ugly in their website but i can't do anything about it except for bitching back to that person. This is one of the crappy sides of freedom of speech.
But i found out that the boy is not a Muslim. He's a Sabahan in fact. I wonder what is happening to the Sabahan these days, very foul mouthed. When i was in Sabah, before moving to KL, my non Malay Sabahan friends are nice. In fact i dare say that Sabahan people are less racists than the Semananjungs. I guess the racial tension is taking it's toll on Malaysians. That's what happens when you don't think with your head and are insensitive to people's feelings.
The boy said he's not a Muslim (his name sounded like a Malay name but in Sabah, you can have a Malay like name but you are still a non Muslim), i don't know, could this be a gimmick by him to make people hate non muslims for saying something disrespectful (some people are simply stupid, just because one person said something wrong, they want to blame the whole people who has the same race or religion as him)? But regardless whether the boy is a Muslim or not, he said Al-F*ck, and from his sentence, "Al F*ck for Din" it's suppose to be synonym with Al Fatihah for Din. I'm pretty sure there's an offence for insulting religion, be it other people's religion or your own religion. You can say mean stuff, but never get it involved with race or religion or you'll be in deep shit.
Bearing in mind this idiot boy is a MINOR, he's below 18 years old (i hope he's not less than 10 years old because if he is, then he is doli incapax - incapable of committing crime), he can be made to apologized to the late Din's family and probably community service.
But the way i see people commented in anger on facebook over what the boy said, it made me think would there be a hate page for a 11,12 or 13 year who committed murder? Who killed his family perhaps? They call the boy many mean names. But the way i see the boy handling the situation, he has no such regrets saying what he said since he claimed that the late Din made many "bad" and "hurtful" jokes during his life time.
I don't like children. But if children or young teens commit offensive acts, aren't we suppose to guide them to the right path instead of being very critical of them? Some children are just born to be so rude and mean. I find it hard to deal with them without feeling the urge to slap them for their rudeness but as adults, we know children can't think clearly and rationally and not aware of their offensive actions. Sometimes when children turned out "bad", there are so many factors that lead to it such as bad parenting, bad environment and bad friends' influence.
If i were ever a parent and my child did something like this, i will have to take responsibility by making him apologized to the late Din's family and give him a good lecture at home. If my child is so stubborn that he is so uncontrollable, i'll make an application to the Magistrate Court to get him put in a place something like a center for troubling teens. I saw a woman made such application to a Magistrate before because her 15 year daughter wouldn't listen to her, always running from the house and always coming back home late.
The boy is a school boy. Around 13 years old or lesser. What he said is totally wrong and deserved to be slapped. There was a face book fan page that demand the boy to apologized for what he said. Basically, it's a hate page towards the boy.
I noticed that some of the comments made by those who joined the page demanded that a police report be made against him. I think it's unreasonable. On what grounds you want police to catch him? For insulting the dead? As far as i know, there's no such law. Few months ago, i think it was the Sultan of Johor who passed away and someone insulted him and charges were made against that person. Maybe there's such offence if you insulted the Sultan or Agong since they are the "big" people.
But if you simply insult normal people or celebrities, be it they are dead or alive, it's just a normal insult. It's not even a defamation and defamation don't even worked on dead people. Defamation is an action that you bring against someone who said something UNTRUE about yourself to the PUBLIC and it has the effect of DAMAGING your REPUTATION. Insulting is just saying something mean and humiliating. Someone may say i'm a whore or ugly in their website but i can't do anything about it except for bitching back to that person. This is one of the crappy sides of freedom of speech.
But i found out that the boy is not a Muslim. He's a Sabahan in fact. I wonder what is happening to the Sabahan these days, very foul mouthed. When i was in Sabah, before moving to KL, my non Malay Sabahan friends are nice. In fact i dare say that Sabahan people are less racists than the Semananjungs. I guess the racial tension is taking it's toll on Malaysians. That's what happens when you don't think with your head and are insensitive to people's feelings.
The boy said he's not a Muslim (his name sounded like a Malay name but in Sabah, you can have a Malay like name but you are still a non Muslim), i don't know, could this be a gimmick by him to make people hate non muslims for saying something disrespectful (some people are simply stupid, just because one person said something wrong, they want to blame the whole people who has the same race or religion as him)? But regardless whether the boy is a Muslim or not, he said Al-F*ck, and from his sentence, "Al F*ck for Din" it's suppose to be synonym with Al Fatihah for Din. I'm pretty sure there's an offence for insulting religion, be it other people's religion or your own religion. You can say mean stuff, but never get it involved with race or religion or you'll be in deep shit.
Bearing in mind this idiot boy is a MINOR, he's below 18 years old (i hope he's not less than 10 years old because if he is, then he is doli incapax - incapable of committing crime), he can be made to apologized to the late Din's family and probably community service.
But the way i see people commented in anger on facebook over what the boy said, it made me think would there be a hate page for a 11,12 or 13 year who committed murder? Who killed his family perhaps? They call the boy many mean names. But the way i see the boy handling the situation, he has no such regrets saying what he said since he claimed that the late Din made many "bad" and "hurtful" jokes during his life time.
I don't like children. But if children or young teens commit offensive acts, aren't we suppose to guide them to the right path instead of being very critical of them? Some children are just born to be so rude and mean. I find it hard to deal with them without feeling the urge to slap them for their rudeness but as adults, we know children can't think clearly and rationally and not aware of their offensive actions. Sometimes when children turned out "bad", there are so many factors that lead to it such as bad parenting, bad environment and bad friends' influence.
If i were ever a parent and my child did something like this, i will have to take responsibility by making him apologized to the late Din's family and give him a good lecture at home. If my child is so stubborn that he is so uncontrollable, i'll make an application to the Magistrate Court to get him put in a place something like a center for troubling teens. I saw a woman made such application to a Magistrate before because her 15 year daughter wouldn't listen to her, always running from the house and always coming back home late.
Test Drive
Was thinking bout test drive coz around July or August i will have to start to learn how to drive. I already have my license but i'm scared to drive. So since i'll be working soon, i will need to drive a damn car.
Why do people test drive cars before buying it? To see whether they feel comfortable driving it. Can you test drive your partner before being involved in a relationship or getting married to that person? Fortunately or unfortunately, you can't, for the simple reason that it's morally wrong. You'll just have to accept the bad qualities once you start living together, or try to change that person (if you are successful).
But because people are unpredictable, there's no point really to test drive. The person might appear nice and sweet for the first 5 years but for the next 5 years they might turn horrid.
Why do people test drive cars before buying it? To see whether they feel comfortable driving it. Can you test drive your partner before being involved in a relationship or getting married to that person? Fortunately or unfortunately, you can't, for the simple reason that it's morally wrong. You'll just have to accept the bad qualities once you start living together, or try to change that person (if you are successful).
But because people are unpredictable, there's no point really to test drive. The person might appear nice and sweet for the first 5 years but for the next 5 years they might turn horrid.
Sunday, April 4, 2010
Getting a new partner is like getting a new phone...
i was having a discussion with my ex (my ex happens to be one of the very few people who i can have a decent discussion whereby he can interact back with me. Most men are lousy at conversations). Yes, i still meet him once awhile but that doesn't mean i still have feelings for him because i don't. I only meet him coz i'm single and eventually when i do have a bf, i will stop meeting him.
For me, relationships shouldn't be rushed, no matter how badly you want it or you think you need it. There are some guys who can suggest to "couple" without even meeting. Or couple after a few days or weeks of meeting.
I admit, i do feel lonely being single but that's life. I don't want to couple for the sake to make my loneliness disappear. I go for substance, not necessity. What does this mean?
Substance : i want to couple with a guy because i feel comfortable with him, we have some things in common, i enjoy his presence, we can communicate, he has what i want, i can see a future with him, etc etc.
Necessity : you couple coz all your friends are in a relationship or the fact that you hate being alone, doing things alone, become jealous of other couples, etc, etc. Also happens in marriage where people get married thru arranged marriage (not that i think arrange marriage is wrong). Nowadays some people go for arrange marriage because they are getting old and still unmarried. Or those who only couple for awhile, like say 6 months and then decide to get married. Reason? Coz they are in their late 20's or 30's. I tell you, i've come across so many people who rushed into getting married because they are getting old. That's the problem of society these days, they succumb to public and society's pressure whereby the thinking goes like this : there's something wrong with you if you are not married by the time you reach ur late 20's.
Now why do i say getting a new partner is like getting a new phone?
Let's talk about a typical scenario of buying a hp. If i want to buy a new hp to replace the old one, i will make sure it has additional features which my previous hp doesn't have. Like say my old phone doesn't have 3G and the new phone has one. But sometimes, there are some features in the new phone which is not as good as the old phone, example the keypad of the old phone is way better than the new one. The new phone is not necessarily perfect, but at least it's still better than the old phone.
So my ex accused me of seeking a perfect partner. It would seem that my requirements for the next partner (only i will know) may be demanding but that isn't exactly true.
Of course my next partner would be better than my ex. Why in the hell would i find a partner who's worst than my ex? What idiot had a better quality phone and then decides to buy a lesser quality one? unless of course the phone was stolen and there's not enough money to buy a new one so he has to settle for a cheaper one.
My new partner may not have some of the good qualities my ex has but overall, i'm willing to accept the flaws of my new partner because i think in other aspects, my new partner is better than my ex. So like i gave the example earlier, my new phone's keypad may suck compare to the old one but overall, my new phone gave me the satisfaction of using it.
In getting new things, i always make sure it has better functions than the old ones. So in seeking a partner, the same principle is applicable :-)...
For me, relationships shouldn't be rushed, no matter how badly you want it or you think you need it. There are some guys who can suggest to "couple" without even meeting. Or couple after a few days or weeks of meeting.
I admit, i do feel lonely being single but that's life. I don't want to couple for the sake to make my loneliness disappear. I go for substance, not necessity. What does this mean?
Substance : i want to couple with a guy because i feel comfortable with him, we have some things in common, i enjoy his presence, we can communicate, he has what i want, i can see a future with him, etc etc.
Necessity : you couple coz all your friends are in a relationship or the fact that you hate being alone, doing things alone, become jealous of other couples, etc, etc. Also happens in marriage where people get married thru arranged marriage (not that i think arrange marriage is wrong). Nowadays some people go for arrange marriage because they are getting old and still unmarried. Or those who only couple for awhile, like say 6 months and then decide to get married. Reason? Coz they are in their late 20's or 30's. I tell you, i've come across so many people who rushed into getting married because they are getting old. That's the problem of society these days, they succumb to public and society's pressure whereby the thinking goes like this : there's something wrong with you if you are not married by the time you reach ur late 20's.
Now why do i say getting a new partner is like getting a new phone?
Let's talk about a typical scenario of buying a hp. If i want to buy a new hp to replace the old one, i will make sure it has additional features which my previous hp doesn't have. Like say my old phone doesn't have 3G and the new phone has one. But sometimes, there are some features in the new phone which is not as good as the old phone, example the keypad of the old phone is way better than the new one. The new phone is not necessarily perfect, but at least it's still better than the old phone.
So my ex accused me of seeking a perfect partner. It would seem that my requirements for the next partner (only i will know) may be demanding but that isn't exactly true.
Of course my next partner would be better than my ex. Why in the hell would i find a partner who's worst than my ex? What idiot had a better quality phone and then decides to buy a lesser quality one? unless of course the phone was stolen and there's not enough money to buy a new one so he has to settle for a cheaper one.
My new partner may not have some of the good qualities my ex has but overall, i'm willing to accept the flaws of my new partner because i think in other aspects, my new partner is better than my ex. So like i gave the example earlier, my new phone's keypad may suck compare to the old one but overall, my new phone gave me the satisfaction of using it.
In getting new things, i always make sure it has better functions than the old ones. So in seeking a partner, the same principle is applicable :-)...
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