And so it seems that I'm very active in talking about cheating and affairs... not thanks to the kind of people that i've met, stories I've heard and Hollywood news where recently it was alleged that Sandra Bullock's husband has 11 mistresses. I love Sandra but she's stupid for marrying a guy which she is aware who's FIRST WIFE was a PORNSTAR. Sandra is a sweetheart, she's no match to a pornstar. And a guy who married a pornstar tells you a lot about him. Hell, one of the 11 mistresses he had is a porn star. Sandra should have seen it coming. But she's still pretty and hot for her age, she can find a better man.
So the ROOT of cheating? SEX. When men are accused of cheating, 99.9% (yes, i have a habit of giving figures to make it sound more dramatic) of them will always sleep with their mistresses. Have you heard of a man who cheats but never sleeps with the other woman? NooOoO... Do you think he just go out for lunch, dinner or a movie with the other woman without sleeping with her? Some cheat just for the sake of getting laid. No strings attached. Some have sex, watch movies, go out on dates with their mistresses. But there's only ONE thing in COMMON, they will most DEFINITELY sleep with that other woman.
Let's trace back to why he sleep with the other woman while being married to another woman or attached to a long term gf :
1. Not getting sex in the marriage.
2. The sex is boring.
3. Not getting enough attention from partner.
And if a guy is actually serious with his mistress and it goes beyond just sex, he'll end up marrying that woman (i'm only talking about LEGAL POLYGAMY). Sometimes it made me wonder, which is better : he actually LOVE his mistress and marries that woman OR that he doesn't love his mistress and just have casual sex with her?
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Cheating Men...
I'm grateful for social networkings like facebook, myspace, friendster etc... it allows you to get to know people without having to meet them face to face. And truth to be told, people on social networking are more honest then when they are in person, especially if they don't put up their pictures so people won't know their identities. And it's true, some people use social networking as a tool to get laid.
Why do i want to know these kind of people? As a general knowledge of what kind of people are out there. Why do they do the things they do. People are more willing to tell their secrets to strangers than to those who they know. With such knowledge, comes the downside too. Im starting to distrust men more and more and i'm always skeptical of their intentions. But as for now, i can live with that since i'm not attached to anyone. So what kind of people have i come across?
1. A guy who just got married but has the urge to go out with other women. He's been with this girl for 8 years ++ before they got hitched. I asked him why he do it? For fun. But of course he's being very careful. He never checks his email or his social networking profile at home. All these are done while at work.
2. A guy who just got a baby with his wife yet sleep with another woman. Baby alone is not enough to keep a guy on a leash because MOST women think that's it. It's pretty stupid of them. That's why some women have so many children, thinking their husband won't leave them. Of course their husband won't leave them but it won't prevent them from sleeping around. This is 40% woman's fault and 60% man's fault. Men want to have frequent sex, but the women doesn't want. That's when the men will stray. But if men have been thinking with their brains instead of with their PENIS, once a week of sex is better than once a month or none at all. QUESTION : Men, can you stand going to the mall with your wife everyday?
3. Long distance relationships. 90% of it ends up with one of the partners sleeping around while still with the gf/bf. Love is great, but not great enough to stop you from sleeping around.
My blog may be bias but me being a girl, i'm only talking from a girl's perspective. As a girl, i'm bound to meet a lot of cheating men then women. Of course, if you are a guy, you will say there's a lot of cheating women. Well, that's for you to blog about :-). Also, both men and women may cheat but MEN CHEAT MORE... and you have prostitutes to thank for this crap.
Why do i want to know these kind of people? As a general knowledge of what kind of people are out there. Why do they do the things they do. People are more willing to tell their secrets to strangers than to those who they know. With such knowledge, comes the downside too. Im starting to distrust men more and more and i'm always skeptical of their intentions. But as for now, i can live with that since i'm not attached to anyone. So what kind of people have i come across?
1. A guy who just got married but has the urge to go out with other women. He's been with this girl for 8 years ++ before they got hitched. I asked him why he do it? For fun. But of course he's being very careful. He never checks his email or his social networking profile at home. All these are done while at work.
2. A guy who just got a baby with his wife yet sleep with another woman. Baby alone is not enough to keep a guy on a leash because MOST women think that's it. It's pretty stupid of them. That's why some women have so many children, thinking their husband won't leave them. Of course their husband won't leave them but it won't prevent them from sleeping around. This is 40% woman's fault and 60% man's fault. Men want to have frequent sex, but the women doesn't want. That's when the men will stray. But if men have been thinking with their brains instead of with their PENIS, once a week of sex is better than once a month or none at all. QUESTION : Men, can you stand going to the mall with your wife everyday?
3. Long distance relationships. 90% of it ends up with one of the partners sleeping around while still with the gf/bf. Love is great, but not great enough to stop you from sleeping around.
My blog may be bias but me being a girl, i'm only talking from a girl's perspective. As a girl, i'm bound to meet a lot of cheating men then women. Of course, if you are a guy, you will say there's a lot of cheating women. Well, that's for you to blog about :-). Also, both men and women may cheat but MEN CHEAT MORE... and you have prostitutes to thank for this crap.
Sunday, March 28, 2010
Memory of a death of a cat...
Somehow today, i recalled back what happened to my cat long time ago. She was my favourite because she was very affectionate. Her name was Tigress. She was just a normal stray cat which i picked up but she was beautiful because i love her fur pattern. She looks something like this cat:
I had her when i was around 10 or 11 years old. I remembered the date because it happened on my dad's birthday and 2 days before my birthday. It happened on 18th January.
That year, my parents decide to have a birthday party for me and my bro, whose birthday is also in January.
That time, my parents were divorced but my cat was living with my dad and occasionally i and my bro will stay with my dad, i think it's during the weekends. That afternoon, my mom and i just got back from the clothes shop where i bought the clothes that i was suppose to wear for my birthday party.
After that, we decide to stop by my dad's house to get some things and to look at the cat. She will come running to me whenever she sees me or when i call her, that's why i love her. I always have the habit of looking under the car to make sure there were no cats under it once the engine starts because i've seen a lot of cats that are being ran over just because they slept near the car tire and it happened a few times to my Grandma's cats since she has many cats.
That day, my mom didn't even park her car inside the house, she parked outside of the gate. My mom and i were in the car when i looked at my cat, who was at the balcony of the house. Then i looked away, my mom started the car. The moment we moved, we heard some kind of crunching sound, as if the tire ran over something. I immediately felt fear and i looked at the side view mirror and that's when i saw my cat, jumping up and down like crazy.
I have tears in my eyes just remembering it now. Every time i recall the accident, it just made me really sad and depressed.
It was the most awful thing i have seen. My cat was in a lot of pain, there was blood every where. I was crying and screaming. My mom panicked and was quiet. For a few seconds, my cat was jumping up and down in pain after being ran over, making painful noises. Then it stopped, and my cat just lie down there in blood.
My mom took out the clothes that i bought earlier from the plastic bag and put my cat's dead body inside it. We drove to my Grandma's house because after the divorce, my bro and i were temporarily living with our mom at my Grandma's house.
I was crying through out the time. It hurts inside. We buried my cat at the back of my Grandma's house. One of my cousins was there and she says that i was overreacting, it was just a cat. I wouldn't expect her to understand because she's not as passionate about cats as i was.
Sometimes, memory like this made me don't want to adopt cats because i can get too attached to them. And if they died or go missing, it'll make me depressed. After that incident, i never adopt any cats but instead, stray cats will come to my house and it would look like as if i'm adopting them . So far, i didn't have to witness any cat deaths, only missing cats that never return, which is less hurtful because i will always think that they are not dead, just went some where or some asshole kidnapped them.
I mean, even if i want to adopt a cat one day, i will adopt a cat that likes to sit at home 24/7... not the kind that needs to go outdoors. I can get too worried if my cat decides to stray too far from the house, or when it's outside of the house, it'll be exposed to more danger.
Only the memory of my dad cat can still bring tears to my eyes, compare to memory of ex bfs...
I had her when i was around 10 or 11 years old. I remembered the date because it happened on my dad's birthday and 2 days before my birthday. It happened on 18th January.
That year, my parents decide to have a birthday party for me and my bro, whose birthday is also in January.
That time, my parents were divorced but my cat was living with my dad and occasionally i and my bro will stay with my dad, i think it's during the weekends. That afternoon, my mom and i just got back from the clothes shop where i bought the clothes that i was suppose to wear for my birthday party.
After that, we decide to stop by my dad's house to get some things and to look at the cat. She will come running to me whenever she sees me or when i call her, that's why i love her. I always have the habit of looking under the car to make sure there were no cats under it once the engine starts because i've seen a lot of cats that are being ran over just because they slept near the car tire and it happened a few times to my Grandma's cats since she has many cats.
That day, my mom didn't even park her car inside the house, she parked outside of the gate. My mom and i were in the car when i looked at my cat, who was at the balcony of the house. Then i looked away, my mom started the car. The moment we moved, we heard some kind of crunching sound, as if the tire ran over something. I immediately felt fear and i looked at the side view mirror and that's when i saw my cat, jumping up and down like crazy.
I have tears in my eyes just remembering it now. Every time i recall the accident, it just made me really sad and depressed.
It was the most awful thing i have seen. My cat was in a lot of pain, there was blood every where. I was crying and screaming. My mom panicked and was quiet. For a few seconds, my cat was jumping up and down in pain after being ran over, making painful noises. Then it stopped, and my cat just lie down there in blood.
My mom took out the clothes that i bought earlier from the plastic bag and put my cat's dead body inside it. We drove to my Grandma's house because after the divorce, my bro and i were temporarily living with our mom at my Grandma's house.
I was crying through out the time. It hurts inside. We buried my cat at the back of my Grandma's house. One of my cousins was there and she says that i was overreacting, it was just a cat. I wouldn't expect her to understand because she's not as passionate about cats as i was.
Sometimes, memory like this made me don't want to adopt cats because i can get too attached to them. And if they died or go missing, it'll make me depressed. After that incident, i never adopt any cats but instead, stray cats will come to my house and it would look like as if i'm adopting them . So far, i didn't have to witness any cat deaths, only missing cats that never return, which is less hurtful because i will always think that they are not dead, just went some where or some asshole kidnapped them.
I mean, even if i want to adopt a cat one day, i will adopt a cat that likes to sit at home 24/7... not the kind that needs to go outdoors. I can get too worried if my cat decides to stray too far from the house, or when it's outside of the house, it'll be exposed to more danger.
Only the memory of my dad cat can still bring tears to my eyes, compare to memory of ex bfs...
Friday, March 26, 2010
Cairo, Egypt – D 4 : Drama, People & Cairo Version of Petaling Street
Today began with trip to the airport because we’ll be going to Cairo, Egypt. At the airport, we went through the scanning thing for our luggage and body, which is suppose to be pretty normal. It’s normal until that stupid jackass kept on telling me “Push, Push, Push”. The jackass was referring to my luggage and hand carry items that needed to be scanned. There were 3 of them all together. I mean, i have 2 heavy stuff, one is my luggage and the other my laptop bag, can’t he be PATIENT? I was very irritated with the way he said push push push. I felt like pushing his stupid head through the scanner. The way he said it was RUDE. And he was such a “gentleman”, can’t even be bothered to help me push my things a little bit so that it’ll enter the scanner. He was just standing nearby my stuff and instructing me to push! In my head, i was using the F word at him.
Not being familiar with the scanning system here, i didn’t know women have a different section and it was just nearby. Hell, i didn’t see any woman standing there, how am i supposed to know? There’s no big clear signs. The asshole idiot asked me to go to the other side. And inside there was a woman officer waiting. When i went through it, there was a beeping sound. I thought i had to go back and do it again but instead that stupid bitch told me not to. I called her a bitch because she talked to me in Arabic and wasn’t even looking at me and the way she was talking to me was rude and ROUGH. How rude is that? What, she thinks i understand Arabic? I get pissed off easily when people are rude to me, especially MEN, like that rude asshole ‘push’ idiot.
We only boarded the plane around 10 30am. It was just 1 and a half hour journey to Cairo by Egypt Air. I think MAS is still my favourite plane for many reasons but i’m too lazy to list all of them down here. Once we reached Cairo and get our luggage, we were greeted by our tour guide. He’s young, late 20’s or early 30’s and tall. Do i think he’s cute? Hehehehe. Michael Ballack still my number one! Again, this tour guide is a heavy smoker like our tour guide in Jordan. Argh, just hate the smell of cigarettes soooo much. The worst thing is that people in Jordan and Egypt can smoke in air conditioned places provided there’s NO SMOKING sign.
VIEW FROM THE PLANE.... ABOVE, NOT SURE IF IT'S THE NILE RIVER. BELOW, CAIRO CITY....
I looove the weather in Egypt. It’s cold. It’s still winter time here but gonna enter spring on 21st March. For today’s trip, it’ll just be a tour around Cairo and night time dinner at the cruise.
During the city tour in the car, we observed many things and the friendly tour guide told us many things. He said that the drivers in Cairo never keep to their lane. Indeed, that’s true. The drivers keep on cutting lanes without giving signal. Not only that, they honk every 15 seconds. I swear! My dad told me the environment in Cairo is exactly like in Jakarta (since he went there before). It’s too packed, the road is jammed and people just love to honked at each other. According to the tour guide, majority of the people live in apartments. You can see apartments EVERY WHERE. He said Cairo has 20 mil plus people living.
AND THE CITY TOUR BEGINS...
BEHIND ME, THAT TALL BUILDING SUPPOSE TO BE REVOLVING. IF I REMEMBERED CORRECTLY, THE TOUR GUIDE SAYS YOU CAN HAVE YOUR DINNER THERE WHILE THE THINK REVOLVES...
IN FRONT OF THE NILE RIVER...
ABANDONED MOSQUE...Cairo is just so damn crowded with people walking and people on the road. By the way, i think i saw some Malaysian guys a.k.a the religious looking ones. The Al Azhar University is located here. Either they are Malaysians or they are Indonesians. Nah, they are definitely Malaysians, they look like those guys who are under the JPA scholarship :-D...
Then we passed a bazaar. The tour guide said that if we were to go to the bazaar, we must really negotiate the prices because prices can drop as much as 40% if we really bargain. But he also said that the bazaar doesn’t really have good quality stuff and described it as “Chinese”. I asked why. He said because the products nowadays are mostly from China.
Once the tour is over, we went back to the hotel for rest because later tonight we have a dinner cruise.
IM VERY PARTICULAR ABOUT TOILETS... I LOVE THIS HOTEL SO MUCH COMPARE TO THE MARRIOT THAT I STAYED IN JORDAN BECAUSE THIS HOTEL HAVE A HOSE BY THE SIDE...
During dinner cruise, we were entertained by performance of belly dancing and some guy who can twist and spin forever like non stop. I actually enjoyed the belly dancing, it wasn’t as erotic as what i thought, i guess belly dancing has its stages of erotic-ness and the one that i saw was probably like stage 5 out of 10. The singer Shakira is famous for belly dancing too and she’s more erotic although she doesn’t belly dance through out her music video so not fair to compare the belly dancer that i saw performing and Shakira. The belly dancing performance that i saw was very entertaining, love the look on her face, she was smiling the entire time! Not only that, her body movements were very in tune with the Arabic song and the song was very nice and sounded sexy :-D. It was sung LIVE too.
AT THE SHIP FOR THE DINNER CRUISE.. THE SHIP CRUISED ALONG THE NILE RIVER...
ONE OF THE PERFORMANCES.. THE MAN WHO CAN SPIN NON STOP FOR MORE THAN 10 MINS..
THE BELLY DANCING PERFORMANCE...Videos of the belly dancing...
Law, Law, Law...
Even my table can't handle the law books... look at the table... it isn't straight anymore... all the law books are on top of the shelf while the law files are on the left. My dad says that it's my so called "nonsense dolls and decorations that made the table carry a lot of weight. Ha, i can combine 5 of my thickest law books and they will still be heavier than all my dolls put together... minus the fat printer...
On My Mind Today...
1. I love heavy rain... less people taking the bus because they never bring an umbrella with them. This is a tropical country, umbrella is a necessity especially if you are taking public transport.
2. If you are not wrong, you don't have to hide anything. So once you start hiding something which was once open, means : YOU ARE GUILTY AS CHARGE!
3. Pervert and horny men are every where.
4. Bad girls know more than good girls. Men only reveal their true identities to bad girls. So easy to find a man's weak spot. Men are hypocrites. Most anyway.
5. Me stubborn? Never. Just firm and strict and i stand by my principles.
6. i was on the way to get the bus when this guy promoting Celcom stopped me and told me the sim card is free (he was giving away celcom sim cards). But he told me i have to fill up a form and give my IC. He asked me whether i have blacklisted number. The moment he asked for my IC because he wants to photocopy it, i felt skeptical. So i told him i didn't bring my IC. The look on his face shows he didn't believe me. Then i remembered instances where people claimed that they are being registered to unknown numbers and being left with unpaid bills by the "illegal user". This is what happens when people have ur IC.
7. I hate it when people take advantage of me. I'm surprised with my level of patience and tolerance. When i'm angry, i usually keep quiet because i will explode once i open my mouth. So better keep my mouth shut. And of course i have my darling blog to vent out my anger....
8. I know things which you don't know. It explains my current attitude.
9. This is a modern world where women aren't as stupid as they used to be. Why do men (strangers) bother to offer rides just because they see a woman waiting alone? Only stupid women will get on such ride.
THIS KITTY HAS SOME ISSUES LIKE ME....
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Madaba, Mount Nebo and Dead Sea, Jordan – Day 3 : Dry Skin, Castle, Church, Super Duper Windy & Dead Sea
I woke up this morning realizing how DRY my skin was due to the low humidity weather. It’s a good thing because one of the big stupid pimple on my cheek stop growing and start becoming dry without the need of me to apply OXY cream. 
THE CHURCH....
Besides the church, I was so excited with the Mosaic art. It was sooo artistic and beautiful BUT so EXPANSIVE. I went to the factory where they made mosaic arts and they showed how they do it. They have all kinds of pictures in various sizes from small to large but unfortunately, there’s no CAT pictures L. The owner said he could specially make one for me, a picture of a cat and then deliver it all the way to Malaysia (they provided such services for order made from overseas). In my head i was already thinking it’ll be damn expansive because i saw a mosaic picture at a hotel and it cost 130 dinars, what more if it’s specially made for you and delivered to your very own country? And i was very right, he said total will cost me 500 bloody hell dinars. That’s equivalent to RM 1000 +++. My dad would definitely kill me. Instead I bought a medium mosaic picture of a pretty tree which cost 75 dinars and a lecture from my dad on how expansive it was. God, those really large mosaic pictures were very beautiful and will look so beautiful hanging on a house wall and I just stare at it the whole day. I may not be an art expert but i appreciate beautiful arts.
HOW THE WOMAN MAKES THE MOSAIC ART....
THE DEAD SEA... WITH THE NOT SO DEAD PEOPLE...
BUBBLING EVIL WATER.... ;-P
THE MOUNTAINS AT THE BACKGROUND IS THE "BELOVED" ISRAEL..
For today’s trip, we were suppose to go to Wadi Rum and the Dead Sea but we altered our plans a little because the tour guide said it’s better for us to go to other places instead of Wadi Rum because if we were to go to Wadi Rum, we’ll spend more time in the car and it’s just looking at deserts. According to my trustworthy brochure, Wadi Rum is the “largest and most magnificent of Jordan’s desert landscape”. Magnificent as it may be, i’ve seen enough sandy landscape so I won’t be awe by deserts. Luckily my dad chose to skipped the Wadi Rum. And actually, it’s a very very good thing too because today’s weather is just sooooooooooooooo windy and super strong wind.
So our first trip was to an old castle. More like a fortress. That’s the first place we experienced the super strong wind. From the pictures, you can see how strong the wind is. Next trip was to Madaba and I was excited because of what the tour guide said we’ll find in Madaba. According to the brochure : it’s known as the CITY OF MOSAICS and one of the chief attraction is the contemporary Greek Orthodox Church of St George – is a wonderfully vivid, 6th century Byzantine mosaic map showing Jerusalem and other holy sites.
AT THE CASTLE..
Once in Madaba, we went to the church. It was beautiful, with beautiful colourful holy pictures.
THE CHURCH....
Besides the church, I was so excited with the Mosaic art. It was sooo artistic and beautiful BUT so EXPANSIVE. I went to the factory where they made mosaic arts and they showed how they do it. They have all kinds of pictures in various sizes from small to large but unfortunately, there’s no CAT pictures L. The owner said he could specially make one for me, a picture of a cat and then deliver it all the way to Malaysia (they provided such services for order made from overseas). In my head i was already thinking it’ll be damn expansive because i saw a mosaic picture at a hotel and it cost 130 dinars, what more if it’s specially made for you and delivered to your very own country? And i was very right, he said total will cost me 500 bloody hell dinars. That’s equivalent to RM 1000 +++. My dad would definitely kill me. Instead I bought a medium mosaic picture of a pretty tree which cost 75 dinars and a lecture from my dad on how expansive it was. God, those really large mosaic pictures were very beautiful and will look so beautiful hanging on a house wall and I just stare at it the whole day. I may not be an art expert but i appreciate beautiful arts.
HOW THE WOMAN MAKES THE MOSAIC ART....
THIS IS WHAT I BOUGHT. MEDIUM (MORE LIKE SMALL) SIZE. COST 75 DINARS!
OUTSIDE THE SHOP.... WITH PRETTY FLOWERS...
After that, we went to Mount Nebo, another super strong windy place. Brochure : Mt Nebo is believed to be the place where Moses was buried and most revered holy site in Jordan. Once we are done sightseeing at Mt Nebo, our final destination for the day is the Dead Sea and we will spend a day there. The Dead Sea is around 390 m BELOW SEA LEVEL!
THIS ONE IS AT MOUNT NEBO
NEXT STOP... DEAD SEA!
VIEW OF THE DEAD SEA... EVEN THE TREES LOOK DEAD....
THE DEAD SEA... WITH THE NOT SO DEAD PEOPLE...
BUBBLING EVIL WATER.... ;-P
THE MOUNTAINS AT THE BACKGROUND IS THE "BELOVED" ISRAEL..
Do you know why it’s called the Dead Sea? It’s because there is no living organisms in the sea due to the high level of salt/mineral in the sea. Besides that, things can’t sink into the sea, they will just float. So i’m right to say that you can’t drown in the Dead Sea right? I would love to experience floating in the sea since i’m not capable of doing so but unfortunately, i’m having my period so i can only see my bro and dead floating around in the dead sea. Unfortunately, we were not that long in the dead sea because of the strong currents, due to the strong wind. My dad said that the sea water is sooooooo freaking salty that it made him feel like vomiting.
Dead Sea is also famously known for it’s mud. I saw some people putting the mud on their body. I’m not a beach person so i didn’t like the feel of the water when i touched it because after that, it had a sticky feeling to it. Not to mention that my hair became very dry and felt rough and sticky due to the salty air. I did collect some stones though J. The “Dead” stones J. Before leaving the beach, i saw a lady bug on my sandal. It suppose to bring good luck right? Let’s see how lucky i am tomorrow or will it be vice versa?
We stayed at the Marriott hotel. It’s a beautiful hotel. Funny thing is, the 2 previous days we also stayed at different Marriott hotels and personally i think this 3rd Marriott hotel is the best one. Just because the name is Marriott, doesn’t mean it’s suppose to be nice or 4 or 5 star because the Marriott hotel at Petra doesn’t feel or look like a 5 star hotel but this one at the Dead Sea is like one. I guess that they really have to show a 5 star treatment kind of hotel since the Dead Sea will attract a lot of tourists.
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