Friday, June 11, 2010
My Blog's New Image
Ahhhh... nothing like a more radiant background.. Orange-red --> a symbol of my never ending anger and bitchiness.
Thursday, June 10, 2010
Stricter laws on polygamy
Below i start blogging, below i copy and paste a paste from an online article :
Muhammad did not practice polygamy because he was unable to resist his sexual desires. At the age of 25 he married a women, Khadija, who was 40 years old and his boss. She owned a trading firm that Muhammad use to work for. Marrying an older women who was economically independent, richer and more powerful than him, are not the ways of a narrow-minded male chauvinist. Muhammad was a man of great honor and was widely respected. He could have married whoever he wanted and as many as he wanted since at that time men having many wives was common and often seen as a measure of a man’s status. In his marriage that lasted nearly 25 years, fifteen before his Prophethood and ten afterwards, he remained in a devoted monogamous relationship. I believe that this period of twenty-five years is a measure of Muhammad and his commitment to monogamy. If he did not succumb to his alleged libido in his youth and when society had no problems with that practice he still chose to be the anomaly in his times – a monogamous man
His other marriages in his days as the political leader of Medina must be seen more in the light of his politics than his family life. They were alliances with tribes, they were institutions of social welfare for destitute women and often responses to the contingencies of his time.
The website can be found at : http://www.ijtihad.org/women2.htm
Below is an article on the polygamous marriage of Malaysia's MP Bung Mokhtar and some actress :
http://www.freemalaysiatoday.com/fmt-english/news/general/5754-polygamy-bung-moktar-gets-one-month-jail-sentence
Now let's begin!
According to the article, "On April 20, Bung Moktar and Zizie Izette pleaded guilty at the Gombak Timur lower syariah court, here to the charge of committing polygamy without the court's permission, at the end of last year."
I didn't study syariah law so i'm a bit blur on this matter but nevertheless, i've come across people who have committed polygamous marriage SECRETLY. It seems like the syariah law did provide punishment for those who didn't get the court's permission when they want to commit polygamy.
So if there was such law, why the men that i know who committed polygamy secretly behind their wife's back didn't get punish? Or the law only requires him to inform the court and not the wife? But i did come across an article where not only must there be a court's permission but the existing wife/wives must be present for hearing.
Therefore, if only the court's permission is required, then the wife will still be clueless about the husband's subsequent secret marriages right?
Or perhaps those women whose husband committed polygamy didn't bother to bring such court action when they find out? One, is either there DON'T KNOW of the law which requires the husband to get the court's permission and two, they do KNOW of the law but don't have the heart to see their husband in jail.
Well, if i was them and i did find out my asshole of a husband married another woman, and i chose to divorce that ungrateful son of a bitch who have hurt my pride and dignity, i would love to see him rot in jail for 1 month. i'll report him so court will take action against him if say the law was that he needs court permission.
But if the law is that it's NOT mandatory to inform the wife, then i think the law needs to be changed! Men, when it comes to polygamy they say that the prophet did it, so it's not wrong for them to do it. But what these shallow minded Muslim men failed to see or understand is that the prophet Muhammad did ask permission and inform his wife if he's going to marry another. And based on the passage i copied above, he was married to Siti Khatijah for 25 YEARS.
And what about the Muslim men in Malaysia? Not only did they not inform their wife, but they are only married for like 5,10, 15 years before they married the 2nd, 3rd, 4th wives. See, if you want to use religion as your point of argument, make sure you get your bloody facts right. When i pointed the fact that the prophet informed his wife, some men think i'm lying, saying they want proof. Do you think that the prophet is as deceiving as you are? If you think your decision to polygamy is done in a right manner and justified, why are you afraid to tell the truth to your wife? You are afraid she will cut off your balls? You are a pussy to your wife then? Your decision to marry another women not only will affect you but will affect your wife. So don't be a selfish asshole.
There should be a law that the wife must be informed of the husband's intention to marry another one. Her consent is unnecessary because the matter will be brought before the court where the court will decide whether he's capable of marrying another one and the wife can tell the court whatever she wants.
And if such law is already in existence, women shouldn't be ignorant of such law especially if you are gonna divorce him! Humiliate him with jail sentence as how he humiliated you by marrying another woman behind your back. And make the bitch who he married pay the fine! She should be equally sentenced to jail like the man too.
Muhammad did not practice polygamy because he was unable to resist his sexual desires. At the age of 25 he married a women, Khadija, who was 40 years old and his boss. She owned a trading firm that Muhammad use to work for. Marrying an older women who was economically independent, richer and more powerful than him, are not the ways of a narrow-minded male chauvinist. Muhammad was a man of great honor and was widely respected. He could have married whoever he wanted and as many as he wanted since at that time men having many wives was common and often seen as a measure of a man’s status. In his marriage that lasted nearly 25 years, fifteen before his Prophethood and ten afterwards, he remained in a devoted monogamous relationship. I believe that this period of twenty-five years is a measure of Muhammad and his commitment to monogamy. If he did not succumb to his alleged libido in his youth and when society had no problems with that practice he still chose to be the anomaly in his times – a monogamous man
His other marriages in his days as the political leader of Medina must be seen more in the light of his politics than his family life. They were alliances with tribes, they were institutions of social welfare for destitute women and often responses to the contingencies of his time.
The website can be found at : http://www.ijtihad.org/women2.htm
Below is an article on the polygamous marriage of Malaysia's MP Bung Mokhtar and some actress :
http://www.freemalaysiatoday.com/fmt-english/news/general/5754-polygamy-bung-moktar-gets-one-month-jail-sentence
Now let's begin!
According to the article, "On April 20, Bung Moktar and Zizie Izette pleaded guilty at the Gombak Timur lower syariah court, here to the charge of committing polygamy without the court's permission, at the end of last year."
I didn't study syariah law so i'm a bit blur on this matter but nevertheless, i've come across people who have committed polygamous marriage SECRETLY. It seems like the syariah law did provide punishment for those who didn't get the court's permission when they want to commit polygamy.
So if there was such law, why the men that i know who committed polygamy secretly behind their wife's back didn't get punish? Or the law only requires him to inform the court and not the wife? But i did come across an article where not only must there be a court's permission but the existing wife/wives must be present for hearing.
Therefore, if only the court's permission is required, then the wife will still be clueless about the husband's subsequent secret marriages right?
Or perhaps those women whose husband committed polygamy didn't bother to bring such court action when they find out? One, is either there DON'T KNOW of the law which requires the husband to get the court's permission and two, they do KNOW of the law but don't have the heart to see their husband in jail.
Well, if i was them and i did find out my asshole of a husband married another woman, and i chose to divorce that ungrateful son of a bitch who have hurt my pride and dignity, i would love to see him rot in jail for 1 month. i'll report him so court will take action against him if say the law was that he needs court permission.
But if the law is that it's NOT mandatory to inform the wife, then i think the law needs to be changed! Men, when it comes to polygamy they say that the prophet did it, so it's not wrong for them to do it. But what these shallow minded Muslim men failed to see or understand is that the prophet Muhammad did ask permission and inform his wife if he's going to marry another. And based on the passage i copied above, he was married to Siti Khatijah for 25 YEARS.
And what about the Muslim men in Malaysia? Not only did they not inform their wife, but they are only married for like 5,10, 15 years before they married the 2nd, 3rd, 4th wives. See, if you want to use religion as your point of argument, make sure you get your bloody facts right. When i pointed the fact that the prophet informed his wife, some men think i'm lying, saying they want proof. Do you think that the prophet is as deceiving as you are? If you think your decision to polygamy is done in a right manner and justified, why are you afraid to tell the truth to your wife? You are afraid she will cut off your balls? You are a pussy to your wife then? Your decision to marry another women not only will affect you but will affect your wife. So don't be a selfish asshole.
There should be a law that the wife must be informed of the husband's intention to marry another one. Her consent is unnecessary because the matter will be brought before the court where the court will decide whether he's capable of marrying another one and the wife can tell the court whatever she wants.
And if such law is already in existence, women shouldn't be ignorant of such law especially if you are gonna divorce him! Humiliate him with jail sentence as how he humiliated you by marrying another woman behind your back. And make the bitch who he married pay the fine! She should be equally sentenced to jail like the man too.
The "Last Touch" - Whore and MenWhore
P/S : For those who are married or are getting married, DON'T READ THIS ENTRY.
The "Last Touch" have been a common phrase which i've been hearing frequently lately. It applies to people who have sex or oral sex with their ex partner before getting married to another person. They call it final because they claim they won't be naughty once they are married. *Snorts*... Tell me that once your marriage have enter year 5 or year 10.
They are people who are involved with commitment relationship but yet they are sleeping around with other people. I'm talking about both men and women because i hear stories of both doing this. It amazes me to know there are a bunch of people who can be in a committed relationship, saying "i love you", "you are my world", "i can't live without you" and other various romantic crap lines but at the same time sleep with other people. No doubt, i do believe that they do love their partner despite their whoring activities.
This kind of people are greedy. They want stability from their committed partner and at the same time enjoyment from their sexual partner.
It makes me wonder, if you can't be loyal and committed while in a relationship, what makes you think you can when you get married? Although i'm not married, i know marriage is a very difficult task. You have to live with another human being who can be totally opposite from you for the rest of you life and you need high tolerance for that. Some say if they have a child, it should make them more responsible. I wouldn't even want to tell you stories which contradicts this because i don't want to sound as if i'm the queen of marriage destroyer. One thing i will tell you, don't think having a child or more children will keep your marriage SECURE. Learn from the local actress Abby Abadi.
There's only one philosophy in marriage, "ignorance is bliss". What your partner don't know won't hurt the marriage. And when the time your partner eventually finds out, he or she will be TOO OLD to give a shit to your past affairs which you committed while in the marriage.
Going back to the Last Touch thing, i hope i don't have to hear about it anymore because the more i hear of it, the more fake and untruthful marriages are on its way to the making. It only undermines the marriage institution. Real marriages these days are very rare.
Some people have the privileges to only hear the beauty part about marriage.
While some have the privileges to hear the bad but truthful part about marriage. Then again, it's only human nature that people want to hear good things. That's why fairy tales always end with happy endings. Yes, i'm very negative thinker but that's because i acknowledged the pros and cons of everything in life. Good things are always expected while the bad things are very unexpected. Never take things for granted.
The "Last Touch" have been a common phrase which i've been hearing frequently lately. It applies to people who have sex or oral sex with their ex partner before getting married to another person. They call it final because they claim they won't be naughty once they are married. *Snorts*... Tell me that once your marriage have enter year 5 or year 10.
They are people who are involved with commitment relationship but yet they are sleeping around with other people. I'm talking about both men and women because i hear stories of both doing this. It amazes me to know there are a bunch of people who can be in a committed relationship, saying "i love you", "you are my world", "i can't live without you" and other various romantic crap lines but at the same time sleep with other people. No doubt, i do believe that they do love their partner despite their whoring activities.
This kind of people are greedy. They want stability from their committed partner and at the same time enjoyment from their sexual partner.
It makes me wonder, if you can't be loyal and committed while in a relationship, what makes you think you can when you get married? Although i'm not married, i know marriage is a very difficult task. You have to live with another human being who can be totally opposite from you for the rest of you life and you need high tolerance for that. Some say if they have a child, it should make them more responsible. I wouldn't even want to tell you stories which contradicts this because i don't want to sound as if i'm the queen of marriage destroyer. One thing i will tell you, don't think having a child or more children will keep your marriage SECURE. Learn from the local actress Abby Abadi.
There's only one philosophy in marriage, "ignorance is bliss". What your partner don't know won't hurt the marriage. And when the time your partner eventually finds out, he or she will be TOO OLD to give a shit to your past affairs which you committed while in the marriage.
Going back to the Last Touch thing, i hope i don't have to hear about it anymore because the more i hear of it, the more fake and untruthful marriages are on its way to the making. It only undermines the marriage institution. Real marriages these days are very rare.
Some people have the privileges to only hear the beauty part about marriage.
While some have the privileges to hear the bad but truthful part about marriage. Then again, it's only human nature that people want to hear good things. That's why fairy tales always end with happy endings. Yes, i'm very negative thinker but that's because i acknowledged the pros and cons of everything in life. Good things are always expected while the bad things are very unexpected. Never take things for granted.
Degrading Women?
Seriously, you can't go to bed angry. It's 4 30 am and i was planning to sleep and was trying to fall asleep while reading my Bankruptcy notes but my mind was simply too active. Active with ANGRY THOUGHTS that is. This is like a terrible week for me because there are so many things that pisses me off, not to mention the latest "midget bitch of whore" saga.
Just now i almost had a heart attack when i switched on the lights and found a cockroach on the wall and i was facing the wall exactly, as if the damn thing wants to give me a 'welcome' back surprise. Just a few days ago i was wondering why aren't there any cockroaches at my condo after 9 months staying here, all i saw were lizards. It's like as if the cockroach reads my mind and decide to appear. And i immediately sprayed the damn thing while screaming (cockroach is my phobia). Reminder to self, need to get a more poisonous spray coz the one that i used took a long time to kill the damn thing. Hmmm... i was using a mosquito spray actually because in the state of FEAR, i really didn't look which spray i took.
A hypothetical question for you MEN :
What do u think of a woman if :
1. Her laptop wallpaper is a semi nude hot man.
2. Her handphone wallpaper is a semi nude hot man.
3. She stares and ogles at the sight of hot men.
4. She talks about hot men in your presence.
5. She talks about hot men frequently every time she hangs out with her girl friends.
6. Her wall posters are semi nude hot men either in underwear with something bulging in the middle or shirtless and wet (just being dramatic here).
7. When she watch movies, she screams and make excited noises when she sees a hot man doing something hot.
Do you respect such woman? Does this all sound familiar if it was vice versa for the opposite sex? Well, let me get straight to the point :
I definitely don't respect men who throw themselves at women, who ogles at women, who talks about a woman's body like as if its the greatest thing in the universe, makes too much sexual jokes, who's laptop or hp wallpaper are semi nude women with fake tits etc.
Songs these days talk about women shaking her tits or booty or whatever. Is that how you express your attraction towards a woman? Saying you can't stand it when she shakes her booty? And people accused me being lame or very old fashion listening to Modern Talking love songs or Bee Gees love songs? Hell, at least Modern Talking and Bee Gees actually sing love songs instead of singing too much about a woman's ass and tits. Songs these days sounds as if men are always HORNY for women. The video clips even shows that.
And just now i just saw a pic of a bunch of women wearing g strings and football jersey for each country for the World Cup 2010 and the jerseys are designed in such way that it's cut to show half of the woman's breasts, just about enough to cover her nipples. What i think of this pictures?
1. It degrades women but i really don't care because those women posing like that are being paid and they don't mind being paid to dress like whores.
2. Men stuff are always associated with half naked women. Football is a man's sport yet they use women in this manner to promote it? Men become gaga and horny at the sight of women wearing like this but they are ignorant of women who actually enjoy playing football and have talent for it. Instead, men want to see a bunch of stupid women who are clueless about football parading semi nude in sexy football jersy with shorts as g strings. I guess these are all marketing strategy right? Marketing strategy can kiss my ass for being this pervert.
For me, women should and can be sexy without being degraded by men. And the only way to accomplish that is if the women is sexy because of herself, and not because she is being paid to dress sexy or being paid to attract men. Then there goes your value of a woman. Being used and controlled by men.
Sometimes i find it's useless to fight for rights on behalf of other women because most women just don't appreciate it. Most women prefer to be subordinate to men, prefer to be submissive to men, prefer to be used and abused mentally and physically to men and willing to forsake their dignity in return of money.
And men are suppose to be world leaders right? Men are suppose to be the smarter ones, to be the guide or whatever. Yet they use their power to manipulate and degrade women via advertisements most of the time.
And i'm fucking fed up with men making a big issue about women dressing sexy, hence it's women's fault for attracting the wrong attention and perception. I say, fuck you. You think you are so fucking angelic? Watching porn and masturbating? That makes you a saint? Why do women have to be prim and proper most of the time? We women are deprived of freedom because of men. Why can't we go out late at night? because they are dangerous men prowling late at night and you can get rape or murdered. Everything a woman does it's being limited because of men's high sexuality. And i'm fucking tired of some women accepting the idea that "they are men, it's normal and okay for them to do it". You know what has been the norm is society?
1. It's normal for a man to sleep around.
2. It's normal for a man to cheat.
3. It's normal for man to watch porn.
4. It's normal for man to look and ogle at other woman.
5. Make sexual remarks about a woman's physical.
Because society thinks it's so normal, that's why men keep on doing these kind of stuff without the feeling of guilt. Maybe some do feel guilt but majority just don't.
Damn, it's 5 15 am here.. getting sleepy and tired.. there will be some typos but i'm too tired to check it.
Just now i almost had a heart attack when i switched on the lights and found a cockroach on the wall and i was facing the wall exactly, as if the damn thing wants to give me a 'welcome' back surprise. Just a few days ago i was wondering why aren't there any cockroaches at my condo after 9 months staying here, all i saw were lizards. It's like as if the cockroach reads my mind and decide to appear. And i immediately sprayed the damn thing while screaming (cockroach is my phobia). Reminder to self, need to get a more poisonous spray coz the one that i used took a long time to kill the damn thing. Hmmm... i was using a mosquito spray actually because in the state of FEAR, i really didn't look which spray i took.
A hypothetical question for you MEN :
What do u think of a woman if :
1. Her laptop wallpaper is a semi nude hot man.
2. Her handphone wallpaper is a semi nude hot man.
3. She stares and ogles at the sight of hot men.
4. She talks about hot men in your presence.
5. She talks about hot men frequently every time she hangs out with her girl friends.
6. Her wall posters are semi nude hot men either in underwear with something bulging in the middle or shirtless and wet (just being dramatic here).
7. When she watch movies, she screams and make excited noises when she sees a hot man doing something hot.
Do you respect such woman? Does this all sound familiar if it was vice versa for the opposite sex? Well, let me get straight to the point :
I definitely don't respect men who throw themselves at women, who ogles at women, who talks about a woman's body like as if its the greatest thing in the universe, makes too much sexual jokes, who's laptop or hp wallpaper are semi nude women with fake tits etc.
Songs these days talk about women shaking her tits or booty or whatever. Is that how you express your attraction towards a woman? Saying you can't stand it when she shakes her booty? And people accused me being lame or very old fashion listening to Modern Talking love songs or Bee Gees love songs? Hell, at least Modern Talking and Bee Gees actually sing love songs instead of singing too much about a woman's ass and tits. Songs these days sounds as if men are always HORNY for women. The video clips even shows that.
And just now i just saw a pic of a bunch of women wearing g strings and football jersey for each country for the World Cup 2010 and the jerseys are designed in such way that it's cut to show half of the woman's breasts, just about enough to cover her nipples. What i think of this pictures?
1. It degrades women but i really don't care because those women posing like that are being paid and they don't mind being paid to dress like whores.
2. Men stuff are always associated with half naked women. Football is a man's sport yet they use women in this manner to promote it? Men become gaga and horny at the sight of women wearing like this but they are ignorant of women who actually enjoy playing football and have talent for it. Instead, men want to see a bunch of stupid women who are clueless about football parading semi nude in sexy football jersy with shorts as g strings. I guess these are all marketing strategy right? Marketing strategy can kiss my ass for being this pervert.
For me, women should and can be sexy without being degraded by men. And the only way to accomplish that is if the women is sexy because of herself, and not because she is being paid to dress sexy or being paid to attract men. Then there goes your value of a woman. Being used and controlled by men.
Sometimes i find it's useless to fight for rights on behalf of other women because most women just don't appreciate it. Most women prefer to be subordinate to men, prefer to be submissive to men, prefer to be used and abused mentally and physically to men and willing to forsake their dignity in return of money.
And men are suppose to be world leaders right? Men are suppose to be the smarter ones, to be the guide or whatever. Yet they use their power to manipulate and degrade women via advertisements most of the time.
And i'm fucking fed up with men making a big issue about women dressing sexy, hence it's women's fault for attracting the wrong attention and perception. I say, fuck you. You think you are so fucking angelic? Watching porn and masturbating? That makes you a saint? Why do women have to be prim and proper most of the time? We women are deprived of freedom because of men. Why can't we go out late at night? because they are dangerous men prowling late at night and you can get rape or murdered. Everything a woman does it's being limited because of men's high sexuality. And i'm fucking tired of some women accepting the idea that "they are men, it's normal and okay for them to do it". You know what has been the norm is society?
1. It's normal for a man to sleep around.
2. It's normal for a man to cheat.
3. It's normal for man to watch porn.
4. It's normal for man to look and ogle at other woman.
5. Make sexual remarks about a woman's physical.
Because society thinks it's so normal, that's why men keep on doing these kind of stuff without the feeling of guilt. Maybe some do feel guilt but majority just don't.
Damn, it's 5 15 am here.. getting sleepy and tired.. there will be some typos but i'm too tired to check it.
Tuesday, June 8, 2010
Wandering Eyes
Prostitution. Who should be blamed for the growing business? The prostitutes, or the clients? If there is no prostitute, there won't be clients. If there are no clients, there wouldn't be prostitutes. Either way, it takes 2 to tango. Personally, i blame the clients more because it's their choice to go or not to go to a prostitute.
When i was in a relationship, my ex sometimes look at other girls. This upsets me and i find it very disrespectful of him. He's not respecting me as a gf by looking at other girls. In defence, he said that other guys look at me, and it makes him angry. That is one bullshit of a lousy defence because although guys look at me, i don't look at other guys or say things like how hot that guy is or he's sooo cute. You know why i don't say it? Because i don't want to hurt my ex's feelings. Though this seems like a small and petty matter to be arguing about, i don't tolerate such thing. But he eventually kicked the habit away. Either he keeps the habit and suffers facing my bitchiness at him or vice versa. See what a strict training can do to man? If they can't do what you want, leave them. There are plenty of fishes in the sea anyway. And what you are asking them to do involves showing respect to you as a partner.
Yes, i notice how some guys tend to look at other girls even if their gf/wife is walking by their sides. Then the partner will give that other girl an angry glare, as if the girl is to be blamed for their bf/husband wandering eyes.
It's the most lamest dumbass excuse that guys say they are guys, that's why they have the urge to look at other women. That it's only natural. Or don't blame them if the girl is wearing sexy dresses or whatever.
You know, when men hang out with their friends, they do the most stupid, shallow and thoughtless things like talking about women (her physical attributes), sharing sex stories with each other (who got laid), looking at women when a woman pass by their tables, etc. So when this become such a habit, man bring it into their relationship with a woman, thus commenting and looking at another woman when their partner is just by their side.
Some women are okay and open minded when their partner talks or looks at another woman. Some women are too timid to voice out their dissatisfaction while some women like ME, will give their partner a piece of their mind.
I don't take crap from men. If men want me to respect them, they have to respect me. I don't tolerate any childish manly behaviour, especially those that degrade women.
I watched an episode of Seinfield once, where the comedian says that looking at a woman's cleavage is like looking into the sun. You look, then you look away. Or something like that. You CAN'T STARE into the sun if you don't want to be blinded for life, rite?. Alternatively, you don't stare at a woman if you don't want to get caught in such an act, especially by your partner. But it disgusts me how men stares and comment about another woman in the presence of their partner, as if not respecting their partner's feelings. Women are too emotional you say? Ha, if the size of a man's penis can be determined from the surface like the shape of a woman's boobs or ass, and women start comparing the guy's size, let's see who becomes emotional.
Woman shouldn't be angry at another woman for the bf/husband pervertness. You bitch and scold that other woman for indirectly seducing your partner but are you going to bitch and scold the various other women who your partner is being pervert with? The source is your pervert of a partner. Attack your partner, he has the obligation to be loyal to you yet he breached that obligation.
If say i have a bf and my bf is cheating on me, i will kill my bf. No point killing the bitch he cheated with because God knows, in the future he may just have another affair with another woman. If you kill all the mistresses that he's having affair with, it doesn't stop the fact that he will stop his infidelity. That's why when i read the news of how a jealous bf murders the guy his gf is having affair with, i think it's just plain stupid. And you still choose to be with your cheating partner. What happens if she cheats again? you will kill her next bf too?
When i was in a relationship, my ex sometimes look at other girls. This upsets me and i find it very disrespectful of him. He's not respecting me as a gf by looking at other girls. In defence, he said that other guys look at me, and it makes him angry. That is one bullshit of a lousy defence because although guys look at me, i don't look at other guys or say things like how hot that guy is or he's sooo cute. You know why i don't say it? Because i don't want to hurt my ex's feelings. Though this seems like a small and petty matter to be arguing about, i don't tolerate such thing. But he eventually kicked the habit away. Either he keeps the habit and suffers facing my bitchiness at him or vice versa. See what a strict training can do to man? If they can't do what you want, leave them. There are plenty of fishes in the sea anyway. And what you are asking them to do involves showing respect to you as a partner.
Yes, i notice how some guys tend to look at other girls even if their gf/wife is walking by their sides. Then the partner will give that other girl an angry glare, as if the girl is to be blamed for their bf/husband wandering eyes.
It's the most lamest dumbass excuse that guys say they are guys, that's why they have the urge to look at other women. That it's only natural. Or don't blame them if the girl is wearing sexy dresses or whatever.
You know, when men hang out with their friends, they do the most stupid, shallow and thoughtless things like talking about women (her physical attributes), sharing sex stories with each other (who got laid), looking at women when a woman pass by their tables, etc. So when this become such a habit, man bring it into their relationship with a woman, thus commenting and looking at another woman when their partner is just by their side.
Some women are okay and open minded when their partner talks or looks at another woman. Some women are too timid to voice out their dissatisfaction while some women like ME, will give their partner a piece of their mind.
I don't take crap from men. If men want me to respect them, they have to respect me. I don't tolerate any childish manly behaviour, especially those that degrade women.
I watched an episode of Seinfield once, where the comedian says that looking at a woman's cleavage is like looking into the sun. You look, then you look away. Or something like that. You CAN'T STARE into the sun if you don't want to be blinded for life, rite?. Alternatively, you don't stare at a woman if you don't want to get caught in such an act, especially by your partner. But it disgusts me how men stares and comment about another woman in the presence of their partner, as if not respecting their partner's feelings. Women are too emotional you say? Ha, if the size of a man's penis can be determined from the surface like the shape of a woman's boobs or ass, and women start comparing the guy's size, let's see who becomes emotional.
Woman shouldn't be angry at another woman for the bf/husband pervertness. You bitch and scold that other woman for indirectly seducing your partner but are you going to bitch and scold the various other women who your partner is being pervert with? The source is your pervert of a partner. Attack your partner, he has the obligation to be loyal to you yet he breached that obligation.
If say i have a bf and my bf is cheating on me, i will kill my bf. No point killing the bitch he cheated with because God knows, in the future he may just have another affair with another woman. If you kill all the mistresses that he's having affair with, it doesn't stop the fact that he will stop his infidelity. That's why when i read the news of how a jealous bf murders the guy his gf is having affair with, i think it's just plain stupid. And you still choose to be with your cheating partner. What happens if she cheats again? you will kill her next bf too?
Sunday, June 6, 2010
Drama Of The Day
1. Sexual implicit Shirts :
Do people even know what they are wearing sometimes? I saw a woman sitting at the bus stop today wearing a T Shirt that reads "Drunk? Free Breathalyzer Test, Blow Here" and there's an arrow pointing down downwards.
That "dirty" shirt is definitely meant for a guy since you blow a guy, you don't blow a woman. It was a foreign woman (look like Indonesian worker) who wore it, so i wonder whether she understood what the words meant?
If she knows what it meant, she should have get a "dirty" shirt meant for a woman. But i 90% believe she doesn't know what it meant. She probably thinks a shirt is just a shirt, who cares what it says?
2. Provoking me makes me a bitch :
I don't like to bitch about people. Usually i just keep quiet, even if i'm not happy with something because i think if the matter is small and petty, why should you bitch about it? Besides, bitching builds a bad reputation for you.
However, i can't helped but bitch when an asshole provoked me. I realized how mean i can be with my words. On the bright side, i kept my bitchiness to myself or bitched it to someone i can trust. I'm still "sane" enough not to bitched to that person who said something mean to me. I find that when i talk about my anger to someone, i become less angry.
I don't take bullshit from people. People may think i'm like quiet and tame, just smileeeeeeee. Don't take the volcano eruption for granted. It can explode any time and by then it'll be too late for you to run. One thing about me, i always think before i say something and believe me, when i do say something mean to you, i mean it and i want you to hear it because you have pissed me off way beyond your limit.
3. Weight :
I love my body the way it is. Some people think the ideal weight is always slim. Well, if you wanna be slim, go ahead. Not my problem. I don't want to deprived the world of the pleasures of a girl with meat.
I'm confident of my body. But there will be one or two bitch or bastard who will try to put me down by saying i'm fat.
I mean if you think you are fat and you are so insecure with your body, that's your problem. Don't try say you are as fat as me or i'm fatter than you (when clearly you are much fatter and not proportionate). I don't need such nuisance in my life.
Perhaps majority like 'slim' but I've met a fair amount of people who have other preferences.
I'm really sick of this weight issue thing. I wouldn't be talking about weight if it's not for some idiot who wants to bring down my self confidence. There are like so many thin people out there, so why are you so concern if i choose not to join those group?
If you know me well, i don't like doing things just because majority are doing it or it's in "fashion" or it's what society approve of.
Do people even know what they are wearing sometimes? I saw a woman sitting at the bus stop today wearing a T Shirt that reads "Drunk? Free Breathalyzer Test, Blow Here" and there's an arrow pointing down downwards.
That "dirty" shirt is definitely meant for a guy since you blow a guy, you don't blow a woman. It was a foreign woman (look like Indonesian worker) who wore it, so i wonder whether she understood what the words meant?
If she knows what it meant, she should have get a "dirty" shirt meant for a woman. But i 90% believe she doesn't know what it meant. She probably thinks a shirt is just a shirt, who cares what it says?
2. Provoking me makes me a bitch :
I don't like to bitch about people. Usually i just keep quiet, even if i'm not happy with something because i think if the matter is small and petty, why should you bitch about it? Besides, bitching builds a bad reputation for you.
However, i can't helped but bitch when an asshole provoked me. I realized how mean i can be with my words. On the bright side, i kept my bitchiness to myself or bitched it to someone i can trust. I'm still "sane" enough not to bitched to that person who said something mean to me. I find that when i talk about my anger to someone, i become less angry.
I don't take bullshit from people. People may think i'm like quiet and tame, just smileeeeeeee. Don't take the volcano eruption for granted. It can explode any time and by then it'll be too late for you to run. One thing about me, i always think before i say something and believe me, when i do say something mean to you, i mean it and i want you to hear it because you have pissed me off way beyond your limit.
3. Weight :
I love my body the way it is. Some people think the ideal weight is always slim. Well, if you wanna be slim, go ahead. Not my problem. I don't want to deprived the world of the pleasures of a girl with meat.
I'm confident of my body. But there will be one or two bitch or bastard who will try to put me down by saying i'm fat.
I mean if you think you are fat and you are so insecure with your body, that's your problem. Don't try say you are as fat as me or i'm fatter than you (when clearly you are much fatter and not proportionate). I don't need such nuisance in my life.
Perhaps majority like 'slim' but I've met a fair amount of people who have other preferences.
I'm really sick of this weight issue thing. I wouldn't be talking about weight if it's not for some idiot who wants to bring down my self confidence. There are like so many thin people out there, so why are you so concern if i choose not to join those group?
If you know me well, i don't like doing things just because majority are doing it or it's in "fashion" or it's what society approve of.
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
Palm Reading
For you super duper religious Muslims out there, you probably think palm reading is something Muslims aren't suppose to believe in and it's "syirik" and i think in English it's called Shirk (thanks wikipedia). As for me, i don't believe in it totally but it makes me wonder sometimes...
And the meaning of shirk according to an online source : Shirk (Arabic: شرك) or polytheism means to consider anyone god other than the true God, Allah. Shirk is also associating partners with him, giving his characteristics to others beside him, or not believing in his characteristics.
So all those black magic, or susuk (what some Malays practice) is shirk because they believe in "another so called divine power". I always look at "INTENTION" in order to determine whether what we do is against what the religion requires us to do.
Example, people say it's not okay to keep dolls in the house, especially those that look human-like or even to keep animal dolls. They say the malaikat (angel) won't enter the house while some say they are like keeping idols in the house. I remembered my mom pressuring my grandma to throw away her animal dolls (my grandma love animals and there are a lot of stuffed animals or decorations in the form of animals). I symphatized with my grandma. Luckily my mom isn't living with me so she can't order me to get rid of my dolls.
Logically, we keep such dolls not for the purpose of idolizing them, in the sense that these dolls give us power or protection. We keep it because it looks cute and pretty and it's part of house decoration. So keeping these dolls can't be equated with keeping them as idols. Hence, it's not wrong to keep these dolls. Unless you keep a large amount of cat dolls for the purpose of worshiping it or thinking it gives you protection then that will amount to shirk.
Palm reading is not shirk either. My idea of palm reading is the fact that each of us are born with different lines on our palm. God created us, and God created those lines. Perhaps in some way, he have provide or give us some clues to our destiny or something. In the end, my belief still goes back to God himself, not other divine powers. Like dreams too, sometimes i believe it's like a message from God, trying to tell you something or perhaps even warn you. Some say dreams are just your sub consciousness.
interpreting your palm is almost like interpreting ur dreams. is that wrong? There are no involvement of other powers, it's just using your brains to figure out your body.
Below is a test that i took on my palm reading based on the lines of my palm. Though some of the interpretations may make me sound like a selfish biatch, but there are some truth to it. Ha, and palm reading is similar to figuring out your personality via your style of writing too.
LOVE LIFE :
You are a very selfish lover. You live for yourself and care little for the people around you. When your partner commits a mistake, you can be very unforgiving. If you like someone, you stop at nothing to get that person in your life. But after winning your love, your devotion and attention level drops like a brick. You are emotional in love. You will have moments of ultimate happiness in your love life. You are likely to be cold and less passionate. You are calculating in all matters of love. Your head rules your heart.
MARRIAGE :
You will have a happy marriage. There will be lots of love between you and your life partner. You are unlikely to get involved in serious relationships (before marriage) in which you will contemplate marriage. You are not likely to get married early in life.
HEADLINE (MIDDLE LINE) :
You think independently. You have quick judgment and are mentally strong. Because of your fast thinking, you are brilliant in studies and whatever else you take up. Find your life goal and work towards it. Strong ambition will bring you success. You might face periods of illness in your life.
LIFE LINE :
You are likely to lead a happy and healthy life. You are likely to be very passionate and romantic in life. You are kind and caring towards those around you. You are ambitious but try not to become complacent in whatever you do and you will achieve much. You are more likely to have a lifetime of good health. You have strong will power. Your body will show more resistance in times of ill health. You are more brainy than brawny. You most likely had a happy childhood. You are likely to lead a comfortable life with less downs and more ups.
And the meaning of shirk according to an online source : Shirk (Arabic: شرك) or polytheism means to consider anyone god other than the true God, Allah. Shirk is also associating partners with him, giving his characteristics to others beside him, or not believing in his characteristics.
So all those black magic, or susuk (what some Malays practice) is shirk because they believe in "another so called divine power". I always look at "INTENTION" in order to determine whether what we do is against what the religion requires us to do.
Example, people say it's not okay to keep dolls in the house, especially those that look human-like or even to keep animal dolls. They say the malaikat (angel) won't enter the house while some say they are like keeping idols in the house. I remembered my mom pressuring my grandma to throw away her animal dolls (my grandma love animals and there are a lot of stuffed animals or decorations in the form of animals). I symphatized with my grandma. Luckily my mom isn't living with me so she can't order me to get rid of my dolls.
Logically, we keep such dolls not for the purpose of idolizing them, in the sense that these dolls give us power or protection. We keep it because it looks cute and pretty and it's part of house decoration. So keeping these dolls can't be equated with keeping them as idols. Hence, it's not wrong to keep these dolls. Unless you keep a large amount of cat dolls for the purpose of worshiping it or thinking it gives you protection then that will amount to shirk.
Palm reading is not shirk either. My idea of palm reading is the fact that each of us are born with different lines on our palm. God created us, and God created those lines. Perhaps in some way, he have provide or give us some clues to our destiny or something. In the end, my belief still goes back to God himself, not other divine powers. Like dreams too, sometimes i believe it's like a message from God, trying to tell you something or perhaps even warn you. Some say dreams are just your sub consciousness.
interpreting your palm is almost like interpreting ur dreams. is that wrong? There are no involvement of other powers, it's just using your brains to figure out your body.
Below is a test that i took on my palm reading based on the lines of my palm. Though some of the interpretations may make me sound like a selfish biatch, but there are some truth to it. Ha, and palm reading is similar to figuring out your personality via your style of writing too.
LOVE LIFE :
You are a very selfish lover. You live for yourself and care little for the people around you. When your partner commits a mistake, you can be very unforgiving. If you like someone, you stop at nothing to get that person in your life. But after winning your love, your devotion and attention level drops like a brick. You are emotional in love. You will have moments of ultimate happiness in your love life. You are likely to be cold and less passionate. You are calculating in all matters of love. Your head rules your heart.
MARRIAGE :
You will have a happy marriage. There will be lots of love between you and your life partner. You are unlikely to get involved in serious relationships (before marriage) in which you will contemplate marriage. You are not likely to get married early in life.
HEADLINE (MIDDLE LINE) :
You think independently. You have quick judgment and are mentally strong. Because of your fast thinking, you are brilliant in studies and whatever else you take up. Find your life goal and work towards it. Strong ambition will bring you success. You might face periods of illness in your life.
LIFE LINE :
You are likely to lead a happy and healthy life. You are likely to be very passionate and romantic in life. You are kind and caring towards those around you. You are ambitious but try not to become complacent in whatever you do and you will achieve much. You are more likely to have a lifetime of good health. You have strong will power. Your body will show more resistance in times of ill health. You are more brainy than brawny. You most likely had a happy childhood. You are likely to lead a comfortable life with less downs and more ups.
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