In a certain social network which i won't name, a guy tried to add me. His profile picture looks like a transvestite but he didn't show his face. So he tried to be friendly by sending me a message online. Curious, i asked him is he a transvestite.
He said no. But he has a fetish of dressing in sexy women lingerie. What surprised me more is that he's in his 50's and he's MARRIED (like legally married to a woman). I looked at all his pictures in his profile. He never showed his face, only tons of pictures of him dressing in sexy (more like super slutty and prostitute like) lingerie. From see through dresses to g strings and fishnets. I like sexy lingerie but i won't buy one that looks like what a cheap prostitute would wear.
His wife is NOT AWARE of his "weird" fetish. Hell, if i was the wife and i found out that all this while i've been married to a freak, i would kill him! So this guy dresses in women lingerie and take pictures of himself. Personally i think the pictures were hideous because his body is 100% like a man so imagine a man wearing women lingerie? Lingerie only looks good on a woman with curves. Lingerie are not meant for men because they don't have the built and the softness of a woman's body. And it's disgusting to see the guy's penis bulging in a see through woman panties.
As for his sexual orientation, i think he's a bisexual. I can't remember what he told me. But truth to be told, i was disgusted by people like him and so i just stopped answering his messages and didn't even add him.
I feel pity for his wife if she were ever to find out. Or their children (can't remember if he has any children). It made me wonder, if his sexual desire is more towards men, why did he even bother to get married? To cover up his disturbing sexual desires and his fetish to dress in women lingerie? I've heard of stories where gay men, who knew very well they were gay, simply get married to a woman hoping it will changed his sexual desire towards his own kind. then after years passed and realizing he's pretty much super gay, he divorced the wife and goes back to his gay roots.
Other weird, disgusting kind of people :
1. Those that like to have sex with animals. You often hear this kind of craps in the news. In Malaysia, goats are the most likely victims.
2. Pedophiles. Men who have sexual desire towards children. Why do men have such desire? I read somewhere once that children are easy sexual victims because they don't put up much fight compare to women. Besides that, perhaps these psycho bastards are attracted to their "innocence" and innocent looks.
3. Transvestites. i don't need to elaborate on this because it seems this kind of sick people are increasing in Malaysia, working every where.
Sometimes it made me think if these people were brought up in a different and better environment, would their sexual desires be NORMAL? How could such weird sexual desire exist? And why only certain people experience it? Take transvestites for example. It would seem like if a boy is brought up in a family of ALL girls, there will be a probability of him growing up acting like a girl because of the female influence in the family. Nevertheless, it is not necessarily true. Some did turn out to be a TRUE MAN despite being surrounded by girls. While there are some who are not brought up with strong female influence in the family yet turn out acting all womanly. A hermaphrodite is a different story.
Or are these people simply suffering some kind of mental illness? Or is this simply their very own fault for choosing this kind of lifestyle, hence they can't blame God for what they are. I prefer this kind of view. We are what we are because we choose to be that way instead of fighting back the weird urges that we might have because we KNOW IT'S WRONG.
Hence, this human rights crap fight for gay and lesbian rights are definitely against the teachings of religion. why shouldn't we discriminate such people? they are a diseased in society. You know what, be as gay or transvestite as you want to be but don't go around demanding people to recognized their rights because they don't deserve it. We don't want to encourage homosexual relationships in out society. Whatever gay activities you wanna do, do it privately.
As for those with other sick, disturbing and disgusting sexual desires... mental problem is the only reasonable explanation.
I think you know these guys are called Crossdressers. They are in the first stage of being a transvestite. Some progress through that stage, and some don't.
ReplyDeleteThe reality of these men is, they want to feel pretty. Perhaps an overdose of fashion has come into them. Or as men, they also want to feel like a woman. To penetrate and be penetrated. Suffice to say, these men have a big tendency that they don't have enough sex, or they want to feel what a woman feels.
Sadly also, feeling sexy gives them a certain empowerment. Like how some women feel empowered being sexy, so do these guys. I have to admit they are a little twisted, but after reading about them, i could say that their lust is overpowering every single fiber and rationality they have in them as men.
feel PRETTY??? pretty doesn't apply to men.. Men should either be cute, handsome or macho or other manly terms..
ReplyDeleteNormal straight men like sexy lingerie too, but it's not for them to wear but for their FEMALE PARTNER to wear..
Men can feel sexy too, their MANLY VERSION of SEXY and still get that empowerment. Girls do drool after hot men in their underwear.
P/S : T String/ G string for men is soooo NOT sexy, no matter how hot their body.
N would u say they r like that because of having too much of ESTROGEN HORMONES? genetic malfunction? or pure human lust for the wrong thing
Well, to the crossdressers, it does. huhu. Of course, as an added bonus, they like it on the men and the women.
ReplyDeleteWhat's male version of sexy then? define for us clueless men. :P
Definitely not genetic. Its more of a choice and blindly following lust. It could be a case of extra estrogen hormones, but that doesn't really apply. Some still appear manly enough as your average man. The sad part is some of these men can't have babies.
hehe a sexy man is VERY SUBJECTIVE :-).. just like wat a sexy woman is subjective to man.
ReplyDeleteOk. Not too subjective here. Go with physical only. :P
ReplyDeletehehehe if in terms of physical, i would say broad shoulders and cute ass for a man :-p
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