Talking about marriage life, not many women love sex as much as men. Many married men will blame women on sex, claiming their wives always give excuses when it comes to sex. We women (most anyway) are simply born not to love sex as much a men.
Man's love for sex, is like woman's love for shopping. Men can have sex every day, women can go shopping everyday. Men need women to have sex, women need money to go shopping. You have SEX ADDICTS, and you have SHOPAHOLICS. Men will never feel tired to have sex, women will never feel tired to go shopping. Men can talk about sex 24/7, women can talk about shopping 24/7.
So really, i get pissed off when men say women can't think of nothing else but shopping and enjoying. I can say the same thing about men, they can't think of nothing else but SEX and enjoying because when men have sex, they enjoy. When women shop, they enjoy. If you want to truly understand how women can be soooo in love with shopping, it's like how you (man) are soooo in love with sex or anything sexual.
At the same time, women can't blame men for loving sex because think of how us (women) love shopping. But in the end, these shopping and sex have one similarity. It's a matter of CONTROL and PRIORITY. Life is not all about sex, and neither it is all about shopping. If you are too obsess with sex, you are a pervert and if you don't control it and simply have random sex, you might catch a disease. As for UNCONTROLLED SHOPPING habits, you'll have financial difficulties if you don't control your spending habits.
In my opinion you can use virection for sexual life for begin to work immediately, tested and proven effective.
ReplyDeletei don't understand? virection?
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ReplyDeleteu say "if you... have random sex, you might catch a disease. As for UNCONTROLLED SHOPPING habits, you'll have financial difficulties if you don't control your spending habits." When u argue like that u dont have a strong case. They can easily argue back saying:"Life is short, have sex faster. Disease? Fuck it, I am going to die anyway." But if u say:" If u have random sex or uncontrolled shopping u will be disobeying God Who can burn u in Hell for rebelling against Him." And u produce your proof with Quran. That way, regardless of what would be their response u can hope God will bless your action.
ReplyDeletei dont think God will burn u in hell for uncontrolled shopping habits. For random sex, yes. If u talk about religion, shop all u want, it's not a sin. But the moment i mention SEX, and it's sex out of wedlock, anything that flows from it is SINFUL.
ReplyDeleteand why people want to say life is short. u have AFTER LIFE (only if u believe in religion).
ReplyDeleteAllaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
ReplyDelete“And let not your hand be tied (like a miser) to your neck, nor stretch it forth to its utmost reach (like a spendthrift), so that you become blameworthy and in severe poverty”
[al-Isra’ 17:29].
This is a prohibition on both miserliness and extravagance.
And Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“and waste not by extravagance. Verily, He likes not Al‑Musrifoon (those who waste by extravagance)”
[al-An’aam 6:141]
“And give to the kinsman his due and to the Miskeen (poor) and to the wayfarer. But spend not wastefully (your wealth) in the manner of a spendthrift.
" Verily, the spendthrifts are brothers of the Shayaateen (devils), and the Shaytaan (Devil‑Satan) is ever ungrateful to his Lord”
[al-Isra’ 17:26, 27]
And it was said that extravagance (israaf) is not just in terms of money, rather it applies to everything that is done inappropriately. Do you not see that Allaah described the people of Loot as being extravagant because they put their seed in a place that is not for tilling. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Verily, you practise your lusts on men instead of women. Nay, but you are a people transgressing beyond bounds [musrifoon] (by committing great sins)”
[al-A’raaf 7:81]
And He described Pharaoh as being extravagant, as He says (interpretation of the meaning):
“verily, he was arrogant and was of the Musrifoon (those who transgress beyond bound in spending and other things and commit great sins)”
[al-Dukhaan 44:31]
“Allaah hates three things for you: gossip, wasting money and asking too much.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (1477) and Muslim (593).
Conclusion: we must realize that wealth is a blessing that should be guarded; we will be asked about this wealth tomorrow: “From where did he earn it and on what did he spend it?” as it says in Sunan al-Tirmidhi (2416) from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him).
So what's the punishment for being a spendthrift? If you steal, your hand will be chopped off. Caught having sex outside of marriage you'll be stoned to death.
ReplyDeleteThere is no need to know what punishment is , if any, for being a spendthrift to conclude it is a sin. Reason is the language Allah uses in addressing this issue. For those who are Quran-literate it is clear. Now about the punishment itself. Authority has the right to confiscate the excess part and spend it in a right place. Talking about punishments, they are only to be applied by the authority who establishes the infrastructure first. As an example: as long as seductive programs on TV and porno-newspapers ( i was like "what the fuck?" when i saw malaysian papers first time) are broadcasted and distributed forget about applying punishments for fornication.
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