1. Have you every heard of the 90% - 10% theory about relationships? If you are in a stable committed relationship, you will only get 90% from the relationship. The 10% explains the affairs and cheatings because you insist on wanting that 10%. I came across this theory several times when i watch movies. It makes sense. So in the end, are you willing to give up the 90% for that 10%? It's simply the natural law of life, you can't get everything so you must be content with what you have, don't be greedy.
2. I was watching an episode from House yesterday. Besides the main medical issues, you have the issues faced by the staff of the hospital. So this episode involved the doctor named Taub, a short balding married man. He started flirting with a pretty attractive staff there. When another person told him that the girl he's flirting with has the hots for him, he became even more excited. So the idea of "OPEN MARRIAGE" started to influenced him. He haven't had anything physical with the girl yet. He seems to believe that it's better to be HONEST than LYING. He suggested this idea to his WIFE. So like any other SANE wife, he couldn't accept it and was shocked. Later in order to keep the marriage, the wife gave the husband the green light to sleep with another woman under certain conditions. Taub was very happy to the extend he was glowing (ungrateful bastard). So on the night he's suppose to meet his flirt, the wife went to see him and said she couldn't go thru with it. The idea of her husband sleeping with another woman hurts her and she loves him so much. Feeling guilty, Taub said he loves her and wouldn't sleep or date that other woman. But in the end he did it anyway, behind his wife's back. Hey, what you don't know won't hurt you right?
3. That's why a partner don't tell his/her partner he/she is cheating. And if they want to look after their reputation, they won't tell their friends either. Thus you will find out about the affair when time permits it a.k.a when he/she gets clumsy in covering her/his affairs.
4. Marriage is boring. That's a fact which we will have to accept. If you can get bored doing the same thing everyday, eating the same thing everyday, going to the same place everyday, why should it apply differently to a partner? It's good if you can do many different things with ur partner to lessen the boredom but most couples don't do that i guess. The moment you take ur partner for granted, that's when the boredom will set it. I think people accept the fact that relationships, especially the long ones, can be boring, thus they needed that 10% as stated earlier. Maybe that 10% can be once or twice a month. It's something to look forward to in your boring daily secured life.
5. Why is your relationship boring?
a. The frequent arguments.
b. The irritating attitude or habit of your partner.
c. The same routine everyday.
d. Nothing to talk about.
e. etc etc.
6. Because of these tiny irritating issues in your relationship, you have an affair so that you can just forget about these tiny issues temporarily. Duh, you were never going to be serious with that other person, it's just for fun. A fun in your boring daily hypocritical life.
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