http://www.themalaysianinsider.com/malaysia/article/nik-aziz-sex-education-is-like-teaching-thieves-how-to-steal/
open the link above since my blog entry is referring to that link.
Anyway, Nik Aziz says that sex education is like teaching thieves to steal. Leave it to Nik Aziz to show how "old fashion" or "shallow minded" he is.
Nobody knows what are the syllabus of Sex Education if it were to ever be introduced in school.But I'm pretty sure Sex Education is not about teaching people all the sex positions nor how to perform good oral sex. Neither will it be teaching about how to stimulate men and women or how to seduce the opposite sex. Basically, it doesn't teach you how to be a world class sex whore or a Casanova or a stallion in bed.
When people proposed that Sex Education should be introduced, these are the things that i think ought to be taught :
1. The male and female sex organ and what it's capable of doing. Example, the male sex organ, penis, is capable of hardening and when it's hard it can penetrate and when it's stimulated it can produce sperm and sperm is capable of making a women pregnant. As for the woman's sex organ, the vagina, is capable of being penetrated. And blah blah blah...
2. The meaning of penetration.
3. And your basic moral story : sex is only allowed when a man and a woman is lawfully married to each other. It's a sin to commit sex out of wedlock. And blah blah blah.
4. What is safe and unsafe sex.
5. Consequences of unsafe sex. Pregnancy and sexual transmitted diseases.
6. Install fear on the students of pregnancy and STD. This way, you can frightened girls from having sex. Example : you'll be fat for 9 months (legally pregnant women, pls be don't be offended), or your vagina won't be tight etc.
7. You need to REASON with them. Tell them what happens when they are pregnant out of wedlock, they are destroying their future, nobody will be able to look after the child, etc. As for STD, the consequences upon their health.
8. Show pics of babies thrown away, killed by their own mothers because they are unwanted, pics of people infected with STD. Pics can add some "colour" to possible dull lecture.
9. Throw some senses into these young teens that love aren't as perfect or lovey dovey as in movies. Just because the men say they love you, doesn't mean he mean it and will marry you.
10. Finally, conclusion - if you insist on having sex, be prepared of the consequences. Sure you have those "busy body" and "very free" and "no work" religious authorities doing spot checks on couples having sex out of wedlock but as you can see, this still didn't stop people from having sex or stop people from dumping babies. Why? Because somehow, people will sneak around to have sex and thus make mistakes by getting pregnant.
Like i've said many times before, just because you are giving out free condoms, it doesn't mean you are encouraging people to have sex. You can never stop people from doing something but the least you can do is to educate them and make them AWARE of the consequences if they are not careful. No doubt, there are stupid people out there who insist on having sex or enjoy sex so much that they think they can never get pregnant. I don't know which part of their brain thinks they are immune from pregnancy.
It's like you can't prevent young boys from watching porn. Somehow, they will find some other methods to watch porn.
If i had a daughter, the moment she gets her period, i'll give her sex education, make her understand what her body is capable of doing. And if she choose to have sex, she will be responsible for her own action and i won't have anything to do with it. Parents can never be 24 hours surveillance CCTV, thus they need to inform and educate their children the things which their children might face.
Why do we take things for granted? Why do we think our children won't do it? Children will never tell parents the bad things they do until one day when the parents found out by themselves or their child get into trouble. By then it'll be too late. You would have wished you had inform or warn your child of the mistakes your child might commit as they grow up. Had you educate them instead of your child exploring on their own and making mistakes, you could have PREVENTED it.
Always remember that you were once a child and you do things behind your parents back. Sometimes you get caught and sometimes you don't and you thank your lucky stars that you were never caught or get involved in a big problem where you have to involve your parents. And your child could be doing the exact same thing.
And just because you turn out to be a holy saint and never commit any sins as you were growing up, never take for granted your child won't do any bad things. Sometimes good parenting isn't good enough to guide your child to the right path. 40% (or whatever the figure may be)depends on the child and the choices they make.
THEREFORE, FEEL FREE TO HAVE SEX BUT BE AWARE OF THE CONSEQUENCES AND MAKE SURE YOU TAKE RESPONSIBILITY. THINK BEFORE HAVING SEX AND THINK WHILE HAVING SEX. DON'T LET PASSION CLOUD YOUR JUDGMENT.
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