Traumatized?

So recently my house was broken into. The motherf*cker thieves stole my laptop, my whole collection of watches and some of my necklaces. My laptop was still new, just 5 months because previously my old laptop was also stolen (that's another f*cked up incident).

So how did these motherf*ckers do it?

They cut through the "telinga" of the house grill. By doing so, they need not cut through the padlock.



Then the f*ckers destroyed my door :









And they ransacked my bedroom :



This is a CONDO. The monthly maintenance is EXPENSIVE. How do you know expect me to be damn pissed off? I'm not really angry with the management office but i'm damn pissed off at the thieves for making me go through this. I WISH DEATH UPON THEM!

My principle is straight forward SIMPLE. If you don't make my life a living hell, i won't make yours a living hell either.

It's moments like this i wish i know the art of black magic (watch Long Khong (Art of the Devil).

And it further pisses me off when i see these motherf*cker culprits in the CCTV. For the time being, the management haven't released a hardcopy of the footage of the of the CCTV but once i get it, all hell will break lose.

I think i'm kindda traumatized by this incident. I can't trust the security of the condo until they do something about it. Why this whole mess happen is also due to their negligence. That's what happens when u take something for granted. I know it's not entirely the security's fault but i expect some form of compensation since i'm paying the maintenance at a high price.

There's also a possibility that the tenant/resident of my block is involved since it seems like they do know when i'm in and when i'm out. It took them 15 mins to break into my house during broad DAYLIGHT. 5%$4$*!

Sometimes i feel depressed when the image of my room being ransacked suddenly popped in my mind.

I curse all the thieves involved in this incident. I wish them a slow terrible painful death and the same to their generation of family. Always remember your family before doing something BAD to another human being. Don't expect me to be kind and merciful when you make my life a living hell.

Victim of Cirmcustances

Remember there was a bedtime story for children about "The Boy Who Cried Wolf" (i hope i got the title right). Basically it's about a boy who was looking after his sheep (i think he's a shepherd). He's a prankster actually. So one day, to entertain his boredom, he simply called out for help that there is a wolf attacking his sheep. So the villagers came to help but only to found out it was just a prank. The shepherd had a good laugh.

He did that the second time AGAIN. At this point, the villagers were pretty annoyed.

Then on the third occasion, a WOLF actually came and he cried out for help and nobody bothered to come because they think it's just another prank by the shepherd. So one of the sheep died.

Moral of the story : don't be an irritating prankster.

Okay, the real moral of the story is that once you LIE, nobody will really believe you. People's trust in you will deteriorate with every lie you made. And when you actually tell the TRUTH, nobody will actually believe you. And you only have yourself to blame for that.

I'm retelling you this story is because when it comes to work, you need to built a good reputation. Don't commit too many mistakes, don't give the lazy-i-don't care-attitude and always come on time. Because one day, when you make a "mistake" when in fact the mistake wasn't caused by you, nobody will believe in you because previously you have made too many mistakes. Quoting my boss, "victim of circumstances". This kind of thing do happen and the cause of it? You are simply UNLUCKY.

Supervising Your Horny Partner

I hate massage parlors. You can see a lot of them here in Malaysia, even at my place here Kota Damansara. Why do i hate them? Perhaps because i know that most of them aren't genuine massage centers, in other words they provide sexual services. The massage part is just a disguise for them since providing sexual favours in return for money is illegal. Prostitution is illegal in Malaysia, unlike some immoral countries who actually legalize them.

I was reading the news article whereby housewives are complaining how their husbands frequently visit such centers and the fact that the government isn't effectively doing anything to stop non genuine massage centers. Duh, what do you expect when the authorities are MEN (i'm in my PMS mood so expect a lot of bitchiness).

What do these housewives really want? Will shutting down such massage centers stop their stupid horny perverted husband to find other sources for sexual favors?

I always believe that you can't stop prostitution because there will always be a demand for it. The demand comes from perverted DESPERATE horny men who is willing to pay for sex.

Now, if men are self discipline and don't go for prostitution, there won't be prostitution right?

There won't be cheating if the man or woman don't seek the companionship of a third party.

Hence affairs, like prostitution, always begins from the cheating partner who simply have an ATTITUDE PROBLEM a.k.a selfish, inconsiderate, perverted etc.

Some women love to supervise their partner so much to the extent that she checks all her partner's belongings which includes phones, diaries, social network accounts, etc. Paranoid and obsessive? Seems that way. You simply don't trust your partner, hence the excessive supervision.

Some know their partner is a player but yet choose to remain with such partner and gets angry at the women who her partner is fooling around with. That's really stupid since it's her partner who initiate the flirting in the first place and yet she wants to blame the third party?

If i was in such shitty situation, i'll just dump my useless partner instead of wasting my time making sure he doesn't cheat on me by obliterating everything that makes him horny and giving him sexual favours.

Men aren't children, they don't need supervision.

Your Fault?

A person who is rich will probably buy expensive cars, a big house, jeweleries etc.We will never really know the main reason why they buy these expensive things. Could be to show off or simply because they have the money to buy good quality products. Let's face it, most good quality products are indeed EXPENSIVE.

Expensive things are prone to be stolen. Is it your fault if you bought a big house and it was being burglarized? Had you bought a cheap house, the probability of your house being burglarized will be minimal.

Or is it your fault if you were to use an expensive phone or laptop and some idiot stole it? Had you not use an expensive phone or laptop, perhaps no one will be interested to steal.

But yet, regardless whether your things are expensive or not, a cheap house still face the problem of being burglarized and a cheap phone can still be stolen. As long as they are people who have the DESIRE TO STEAL, robbery and burglary will still happen.

We don't blame the owner for buying expensive things and display them for public viewing. It's their choice. Of course they need to take extra precaution to safeguard their expensive items.

So what im really trying to say here is that, a girl who wants to dress sexy, it's her choice. You don't blame her for being sexy and that's why she gets raped. However, perhaps you can blame her stupidity if she puts herself in a dangerous position which caused her to get raped. Like go out with unknown man or with a few man.

There will always be MEN WITH THE DESIRE to RAPE WOMEN. Same goes to the fact that there will always be people who WANT TO STEAL. Regardless whether the person is sexy or not, or the thing is expensive or not, such crimes will still take place. And most of the time, it's not sexy girls who get raped or rich people things get stolen. Why? Because they DON'T MAKE IT EASY for these criminals to rape them or have their things stolen.

P/S : for the rape, im only referring to cases where the women are stupid enough to go out with unknown men or be surrounded by a bunch of men or being too trustworthy to men.

Jobs That Tend to Objectify Women As Sex Symbol

http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2011/6/5/nation/8835999&sec=nation

Don't tell me there is NO DIFFERENCE when you CHOSE to be sexy and when you are being PAID to be sexy.

The same goes with whether a woman is a HOOKER or not. If she requests to be paid, means she's a hooker. If she doesn't request to be paid, means she's not one but when a woman is open about her sexuality, society will see her as a nymphomaniac. Double standards. It's ok for a man to express his horniness but it's not okay for a woman to do so without being called all kinds of name while a man will only be called a pervert.

Referring to the article above, this "Bunny" bullshit job no doubt objectifies woman.


What is a Playboy Club? Wikipedia.com states "Playboy Club is a chain of nightclubs owned and operated by Playboy Enterprises".

What is a Playboy Bunny? Wikipedia.com states "waitress at the Playboy Club.... Bunnies wore a costume called a "bunny suit" inspired by the tuxedo-wearing Playboy rabbit mascot, consisting of a corset, bunny ears, a collar, cuffs and a fluffy cottontail."

What kind of job objectify women as sex symbols?

1. When you are paid to dress sexy/skanky/slutty to promote a product. I always see these when it comes to cars, where women dress like skanks, giving out car pamphlets. Then you have the Umbrella Girls during the F1 Circuit. Also i have seen girls promoting electronic products where their company "salesgirls clothes" involved short skirts, heavy makeup, tight tops/low cut tops. Why do you need women to dress scantily to promote a product? To attract DESPERATE MEN to buy your product because to rely on the quality of the product alone is not enough? Your product must really SUCK. Some business minded idiot will tell me that it's MARKETING STRATEGY. I guess they don't teach you Business Ethics.

2. Prostitution obviously.

3. Main objective of job scope is ENTERTAINING MEN. Women are born NOT to entertain men. Not to be a "beautiful trophy" next to a man. Why do men need to be entertained? Why do we need to carter to their needs? Entertaining a man in the sense that to go out with him, engage in conversations with him should be done mutually, NOT BY BEING PAID. And women who do such jobs are required to look pretty or sexy. Why, men don't want to be entertained by not so pretty women who can actually strike up a conversation?

3. Any job that requires you to be attractive. Im the kind of person that emphasize on the quality of work that you do, not how pretty or handsome you look. Maybe modelling is an exception to this since the modelling world requires you to be attractive since people will be looking at your pictures but why do you need to be attractive just to sell something? It's your selling skills that counts. Last time when you want to be an air stewardess in Malaysia you need to be pretty, slim and tall. Maybe the height thing u can understand since you need to reach up to the luggage compartment but slim and pretty? Can't a slightly bigger girl be a stewardess? What is the job scope of a stewardess anyway? Looking after the passengers on board. So why do you need to be pretty and slim for that?

Conclusion : Any job that is PAYING you to look beautiful/dress sexy and entertain MEN (by being seductive) is a job that objectify women as sex symbol. The keyword here is BEING PAID.

So NOT Thoughtful

Today i wanted to dispose my garbage so the moment i opened the door to the "Refuse Room" (that's what they call the place where you want to dispose your garbage), this is what i saw :




This is not the 1st time i see this kind of nonsense. But today i decided to take a pic because the Refuse Room wasn't that smelly and plus no one was around in case they are thinking what kind of weirdo takes pictures in the garbage disposal room.

This kind of thing is a sore to my eye. Why do people do this????? The garbage disposal dustbin (whatever you call it) is EMPTY and it's NEAR to you the moment you open the door. So why do you just leave it there? Not only that, but you didn't even bother to tie it.

WHY AM I DISTURBED BY THIS?

1. Im staying at a middle class condo, not some flat or apartment so this kind of attitude in throwing garbage is utterly unacceptable. Im not disrespecting those who are staying in flat or apartment but when SOME flat or apartment are in bad condition say like people don't throw their rubbish properly or some asshole pee in the lift, you can't really complain. So imagine if you are staying in a middle class condo and you smell pee in the lift? It's unacceptable. You know, when you are in a particular "class", a certain kind of "attitude" is expected from you, as in to be more CIVILIZED.

2. Total inconsiderateness. Why can't you make the cleaning lady's job easier by actually dumping the garbage into the bin and tie it up? Imagine if you were in the cleaning lady's shoes? Do you like it when others make your job more difficult?

People who do this are simply selfish, inconsiderate and stupid.

Homosexuality Hypocrisy

I had an interesting conversation with a friend (my co worker) who pointed out to me that he doesn't like Glee because it promotes immoral values such as sex out of wedlock and homosexuality. He has a point.

I like Glee because of the choice of songs and they have very talented casts. Some of their performances are good too. But i never like the homosexuality part where the character named Kurt is an open gay. The show even shows him kissing with another guy. It seems like they are promoting homosexuality, encouraging teens to be open about their choice of sexuality. It's the same for True Blood. I like True Blood because it's horror and the vampires aren't your typical vampires. Unfortunately the homosexuality scenes is a great turned off for me.

So i say i don't like homosexuality being promoted. Am i a hypocrite for watching such shows then? By watching such shows it's like encouraging more shows to come up with homosexual characters and scenes.

If society are really against homosexuality being promoted, then they wouldn't watch shows that have elements of promoting homosexuality. If such shows don't get a lot of viewers, then show makers have to ensure to keep out the gay characters and scenes. But as long as shows that promote homosexuality keep getting a good amount of viewers, they will NEVER drop the gay parts.

I can understand why my friend wouldn't allow his son to watch Glee. Shows promoting homosexuality send the message that it's ok to be gay. That we should be "open" about gays. I have never seen shows that while promoting gay characters and lifestyle, talk about REPENTANCE from homosexuality.