Impressing the Female Mate...

“Some birds seek to attract a mate by showing off their architectural skills. Constructing nests before the female arrives is a way for males to claim territory and show the suitable nesting areas they can defend. They may also decorate the nest with pebbles, moss, flowers or even litter to make it more eye-catching.”

Why are some MEN SINGLE? One of the possible reasons is because they DON'T KNOW HOW TO COURT THE OPPOSITE SEX.


I've seen cats and dogs mate before. There's no art of courtship with them. They just WANT TO HUMP THE FEMALE and if they can't get the female, they will hump the male (not much difference with the human male anyway).

But with some other animals, there is "The Art of Courtship", like the example i have given above. Some show off how beautiful their feathers are, some dance to impress while there are those who serenade to the female counterparts. In the end, the purposes for all these is to ATTRACT THE FEMALE and for the female to choose them to as a mate.

With HUMAN MALE, i expect them to show some kind of art of courtship too since they are SUPPOSE TO BE INTELLIGENT BEINGS (or am i wrong?).

So what can a human male possibly do to attract the opposite sex?

1. being good looking with hot body OR

2. Rich.. show off how big their car or house is.

so if a man have none of the above, there is only ONE SOLUTION..

Be a gentleman, charming, romantic, caring, bring her out and be able to converse well in all topics (unless you female mate is a pretty dumb bimbo then u won't need to be intelligent). Basically, you must do the "old fashion dating game" because if you don't have a hot physique or money, don't expect a woman to come to you (SO WHO SAYS WOMEN HAVE TO LOOK PRETTY AND SLIM TO GET MEN? EVEN MEN MUST MAINTAIN THEIR LOOKS).

Knowing men, because they are profoundly lazy and couldn't be bothered to make any effort, they like to skip the "dating game" and jump into sex.

Talking about sex 24/7 is not impressive to a girl, asshole.


HONEY, LOOK HOW RED AND SEXY MY NECK IS!!


IF YOU LIKE TO SKIP DATING GAME AND JUMP RIGHT INTO SEX, YOUR SEX LIFE IS PROBABLY GOING TO BE AS BORING AS THIS LION COUPLE. LOOK AT THE LIONESS. INTERESTED? I DON'T THINK SO.

The art of Conversion

I'm talking about converting from one religion to another.

I believe the most genuine of conversion is when you convert because you receive "light"/"hidayah" from God or when you use your logic and reason to convert, in the sense that you analyse the teachings of the religion and it made you think you should dedicate yourself to that religion.

The EASIEST method to convert someone is when you prey on those who are WEAK. People's faith are easily shaken when they are at the most vulnerable situation. What do i mean by VULNERABLE SITUATION?

1. In desperate need of money.

2. Undergoing depression.

3. Have no beliefs.

Basically it's when you are FACING PROBLEMS IN LIFE.

I had a friend who converted to another religion. She and some of her siblings converted so this got me interested and i asked the reason of the conversion. And i notice a pattern.

She converted at a time when she was vulnerable. She was undergoing depression and somehow at that time, a friend of hers introduce this abc religion (i shall not name the religion). So she was being preached. It seems like this religion shows a lot of kindness (not that i'm disputing that) and gives her motivating support to continue life despite the depression. And i asked her, what's wrong with your previous religion. She simply told me her God was never there for her at the time when she needed Him the most unlike this religion which she just converted into.

What i believe is that in her previous religion, she has no friends to get her to get over the depression. But in abc religion, the followers are "more people loving". So it's nothing to do with God but to do with the followers. In abc religion, the followers listen to her problems, guide her, give her motivational support etc..

You see, praying to God alone is not enough for you to get over your depression. You need "human support" to comfort and guide you. And it's this human support that helped to relief your pain. Don't we humans like to talk about our problems and have another human listen to us and give solutions and tell us everything will be ok?

So when you have God + human support, we think it's the working of God that your depression is gone. But humans being humans, you simply need the support of another human being.

Sure you want to help the poor, but if you don't have the intention to convert them, then you shouldn't preach about your religion to them WHILE HELPING THEM.

The truth is, when most people provide help, they expect something in return.

Traumatized?

So recently my house was broken into. The motherf*cker thieves stole my laptop, my whole collection of watches and some of my necklaces. My laptop was still new, just 5 months because previously my old laptop was also stolen (that's another f*cked up incident).

So how did these motherf*ckers do it?

They cut through the "telinga" of the house grill. By doing so, they need not cut through the padlock.



Then the f*ckers destroyed my door :









And they ransacked my bedroom :



This is a CONDO. The monthly maintenance is EXPENSIVE. How do you know expect me to be damn pissed off? I'm not really angry with the management office but i'm damn pissed off at the thieves for making me go through this. I WISH DEATH UPON THEM!

My principle is straight forward SIMPLE. If you don't make my life a living hell, i won't make yours a living hell either.

It's moments like this i wish i know the art of black magic (watch Long Khong (Art of the Devil).

And it further pisses me off when i see these motherf*cker culprits in the CCTV. For the time being, the management haven't released a hardcopy of the footage of the of the CCTV but once i get it, all hell will break lose.

I think i'm kindda traumatized by this incident. I can't trust the security of the condo until they do something about it. Why this whole mess happen is also due to their negligence. That's what happens when u take something for granted. I know it's not entirely the security's fault but i expect some form of compensation since i'm paying the maintenance at a high price.

There's also a possibility that the tenant/resident of my block is involved since it seems like they do know when i'm in and when i'm out. It took them 15 mins to break into my house during broad DAYLIGHT. 5%$4$*!

Sometimes i feel depressed when the image of my room being ransacked suddenly popped in my mind.

I curse all the thieves involved in this incident. I wish them a slow terrible painful death and the same to their generation of family. Always remember your family before doing something BAD to another human being. Don't expect me to be kind and merciful when you make my life a living hell.

Victim of Cirmcustances

Remember there was a bedtime story for children about "The Boy Who Cried Wolf" (i hope i got the title right). Basically it's about a boy who was looking after his sheep (i think he's a shepherd). He's a prankster actually. So one day, to entertain his boredom, he simply called out for help that there is a wolf attacking his sheep. So the villagers came to help but only to found out it was just a prank. The shepherd had a good laugh.

He did that the second time AGAIN. At this point, the villagers were pretty annoyed.

Then on the third occasion, a WOLF actually came and he cried out for help and nobody bothered to come because they think it's just another prank by the shepherd. So one of the sheep died.

Moral of the story : don't be an irritating prankster.

Okay, the real moral of the story is that once you LIE, nobody will really believe you. People's trust in you will deteriorate with every lie you made. And when you actually tell the TRUTH, nobody will actually believe you. And you only have yourself to blame for that.

I'm retelling you this story is because when it comes to work, you need to built a good reputation. Don't commit too many mistakes, don't give the lazy-i-don't care-attitude and always come on time. Because one day, when you make a "mistake" when in fact the mistake wasn't caused by you, nobody will believe in you because previously you have made too many mistakes. Quoting my boss, "victim of circumstances". This kind of thing do happen and the cause of it? You are simply UNLUCKY.

Supervising Your Horny Partner

I hate massage parlors. You can see a lot of them here in Malaysia, even at my place here Kota Damansara. Why do i hate them? Perhaps because i know that most of them aren't genuine massage centers, in other words they provide sexual services. The massage part is just a disguise for them since providing sexual favours in return for money is illegal. Prostitution is illegal in Malaysia, unlike some immoral countries who actually legalize them.

I was reading the news article whereby housewives are complaining how their husbands frequently visit such centers and the fact that the government isn't effectively doing anything to stop non genuine massage centers. Duh, what do you expect when the authorities are MEN (i'm in my PMS mood so expect a lot of bitchiness).

What do these housewives really want? Will shutting down such massage centers stop their stupid horny perverted husband to find other sources for sexual favors?

I always believe that you can't stop prostitution because there will always be a demand for it. The demand comes from perverted DESPERATE horny men who is willing to pay for sex.

Now, if men are self discipline and don't go for prostitution, there won't be prostitution right?

There won't be cheating if the man or woman don't seek the companionship of a third party.

Hence affairs, like prostitution, always begins from the cheating partner who simply have an ATTITUDE PROBLEM a.k.a selfish, inconsiderate, perverted etc.

Some women love to supervise their partner so much to the extent that she checks all her partner's belongings which includes phones, diaries, social network accounts, etc. Paranoid and obsessive? Seems that way. You simply don't trust your partner, hence the excessive supervision.

Some know their partner is a player but yet choose to remain with such partner and gets angry at the women who her partner is fooling around with. That's really stupid since it's her partner who initiate the flirting in the first place and yet she wants to blame the third party?

If i was in such shitty situation, i'll just dump my useless partner instead of wasting my time making sure he doesn't cheat on me by obliterating everything that makes him horny and giving him sexual favours.

Men aren't children, they don't need supervision.

Your Fault?

A person who is rich will probably buy expensive cars, a big house, jeweleries etc.We will never really know the main reason why they buy these expensive things. Could be to show off or simply because they have the money to buy good quality products. Let's face it, most good quality products are indeed EXPENSIVE.

Expensive things are prone to be stolen. Is it your fault if you bought a big house and it was being burglarized? Had you bought a cheap house, the probability of your house being burglarized will be minimal.

Or is it your fault if you were to use an expensive phone or laptop and some idiot stole it? Had you not use an expensive phone or laptop, perhaps no one will be interested to steal.

But yet, regardless whether your things are expensive or not, a cheap house still face the problem of being burglarized and a cheap phone can still be stolen. As long as they are people who have the DESIRE TO STEAL, robbery and burglary will still happen.

We don't blame the owner for buying expensive things and display them for public viewing. It's their choice. Of course they need to take extra precaution to safeguard their expensive items.

So what im really trying to say here is that, a girl who wants to dress sexy, it's her choice. You don't blame her for being sexy and that's why she gets raped. However, perhaps you can blame her stupidity if she puts herself in a dangerous position which caused her to get raped. Like go out with unknown man or with a few man.

There will always be MEN WITH THE DESIRE to RAPE WOMEN. Same goes to the fact that there will always be people who WANT TO STEAL. Regardless whether the person is sexy or not, or the thing is expensive or not, such crimes will still take place. And most of the time, it's not sexy girls who get raped or rich people things get stolen. Why? Because they DON'T MAKE IT EASY for these criminals to rape them or have their things stolen.

P/S : for the rape, im only referring to cases where the women are stupid enough to go out with unknown men or be surrounded by a bunch of men or being too trustworthy to men.

Jobs That Tend to Objectify Women As Sex Symbol

http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2011/6/5/nation/8835999&sec=nation

Don't tell me there is NO DIFFERENCE when you CHOSE to be sexy and when you are being PAID to be sexy.

The same goes with whether a woman is a HOOKER or not. If she requests to be paid, means she's a hooker. If she doesn't request to be paid, means she's not one but when a woman is open about her sexuality, society will see her as a nymphomaniac. Double standards. It's ok for a man to express his horniness but it's not okay for a woman to do so without being called all kinds of name while a man will only be called a pervert.

Referring to the article above, this "Bunny" bullshit job no doubt objectifies woman.


What is a Playboy Club? Wikipedia.com states "Playboy Club is a chain of nightclubs owned and operated by Playboy Enterprises".

What is a Playboy Bunny? Wikipedia.com states "waitress at the Playboy Club.... Bunnies wore a costume called a "bunny suit" inspired by the tuxedo-wearing Playboy rabbit mascot, consisting of a corset, bunny ears, a collar, cuffs and a fluffy cottontail."

What kind of job objectify women as sex symbols?

1. When you are paid to dress sexy/skanky/slutty to promote a product. I always see these when it comes to cars, where women dress like skanks, giving out car pamphlets. Then you have the Umbrella Girls during the F1 Circuit. Also i have seen girls promoting electronic products where their company "salesgirls clothes" involved short skirts, heavy makeup, tight tops/low cut tops. Why do you need women to dress scantily to promote a product? To attract DESPERATE MEN to buy your product because to rely on the quality of the product alone is not enough? Your product must really SUCK. Some business minded idiot will tell me that it's MARKETING STRATEGY. I guess they don't teach you Business Ethics.

2. Prostitution obviously.

3. Main objective of job scope is ENTERTAINING MEN. Women are born NOT to entertain men. Not to be a "beautiful trophy" next to a man. Why do men need to be entertained? Why do we need to carter to their needs? Entertaining a man in the sense that to go out with him, engage in conversations with him should be done mutually, NOT BY BEING PAID. And women who do such jobs are required to look pretty or sexy. Why, men don't want to be entertained by not so pretty women who can actually strike up a conversation?

3. Any job that requires you to be attractive. Im the kind of person that emphasize on the quality of work that you do, not how pretty or handsome you look. Maybe modelling is an exception to this since the modelling world requires you to be attractive since people will be looking at your pictures but why do you need to be attractive just to sell something? It's your selling skills that counts. Last time when you want to be an air stewardess in Malaysia you need to be pretty, slim and tall. Maybe the height thing u can understand since you need to reach up to the luggage compartment but slim and pretty? Can't a slightly bigger girl be a stewardess? What is the job scope of a stewardess anyway? Looking after the passengers on board. So why do you need to be pretty and slim for that?

Conclusion : Any job that is PAYING you to look beautiful/dress sexy and entertain MEN (by being seductive) is a job that objectify women as sex symbol. The keyword here is BEING PAID.