To Hell With Smoking

One of the topics that i never get bored blogging about is on smoking. I know i've blogged about it many times before but i just don't get bored with it. And i constantly blog about it because somehow, there will be instances when smoking will irritate me. Like last night.

I was at the mamak eating while watching football. Then came a man and a woman who sit at the next table to me. While i was eating, i started to smell the disgusting smell of cigarettes. To my annoyance, both of them were puffing their stupid cigarettes. I was annoyed with the bitch more because she was seating closer to me and i practically have to inhale the fucking smoke. And i end up smelling like the cigarette smoke.

What was i suppose to do? Get up and sit at another place? Why should i? I was there FIRST. Perhaps that's what irritated me the most. The fact that i sat there first, not having to smell any bloody cigarette smell and then few minutes later these two assholes come and sit nearby me and started to smoke, blowing the cancerous smoke at me. Sure, it was not their intention for the smoke to hit me but they would notice where the smoke is blowing to right? Can't they be considerate enough to stand up and go and smoke somewhere else? Some smokers are considerate, MAJORITY simply aren't. You think non smokers like to smell those smelly stuff?

When i was in primary school, i participated in drawing competitions. I'm not Picaso or what but i can draw. And most of these drawing competitions require you to draw something for a campaign, either anti drugs or anti smoking. I have many ideas in my head on how anti smoking advertisements should look like. Back then, because we are just primary school children, we lacked artistic ideas. We can draw but usually it'll just be some direct anti smoking poster. Even those who get 1st place don't really scream creativity, just that the choice of colour and drawing is better.

As you grow older, your creativity and understanding should get better. Anti smoking advertisements should be creative and CARRY A VERY STRONG MESSAGE, make people want to look at it. Some advertisements are good while some advertisements are just plain lame and doesn't carry the right message, like MOST of those PETA ads that like to use nude women to promote their cause.

In Malaysia, i find the anti smoking advertisement lacks aggressiveness. The pictures of bloody baby due to miscarriages, cancerous sore throats, rotting feet don't really scare people. Yeah, it will scare those who become squirmish at the sight of bloody and gorey stuff but most smokers are simply hard core smokers who don't give a damn. They have this attitude that goes "F*ck You. I don't give a Sh*t on your anti smoking campaign activities. Your gory pictures don't scare me". So what can we do with such people?

Attack their conscience. Make them feel the slight guilt. What smokers failed to understand is that their act of smoking can kill those who don't smoke. Have they ever thought if they are smoking in front of those who are more PRONE to lung cancer? Sure smokers think they have strong lunch, hence they'll be puffing until their lungs can't take it anymore BUT what about those who don't have strong lungs as them? Have smokers ever thought it's very bad when they smoke in front of children and pregnant woman?

Ah, and men. They care a lot of about their "little brother" and their sexual performance. Combine smoking and impotency, voila! You might hit the right spot. But seriously, do you think girls find a guy is hot if he smells like a smelly cigarette while she makes out with him?

Below i have provide some very good foreign advertisements on anti smoking which i think Malaysia should follow if the government still refuses to ban public smoking :





You know, i believe this is true..








The message is in small fonts but it reads : "smoking isn't just suicide, it's murder!". For those who are BLUR, it means --> not only do you kill yourself by smoking but you kill others around you who have to smell and inhale the fumes of the cigarette.











Really, i wonder which stupid and irresponsible mother will smoke while she's pregnant. She might as well abort the baby.




I think this is Malaysia advertisement. not as scary and creative as above.

My Dream Cats

i LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE CATS... Love them soooooooooooooooo verrrrrry mucccch!! I swear i can just cry looking at their cuteness.. I love fat cats.. I love cats that love to play and cuddle with u.. I simply love "manja" cats... I will spoil them!! I love all cats but below are the DREAM cats that i sooooo dream of having :

1. AMERICAN SHORTHAIR :







2. RAGDOLL CATS





3. SIAMESE KITTY





4. BRITISH SHORTHAIR









5. ANY FATTY CATS









P/s : i think by now u will know im a catophile.

Happy Father's Day 2010!

Father's Day is this coming Sunday. Unfortunately i won't be able to meet him on Sunday since he's going to Terengganu with my brother. But i'll meet him on Tuesday... Anway, i bought him a card, and i really like the words written on the card because that's exactly how i feel. Below is a picture which i took of the card :





And below is the crap that i wrote in the card :-) :



On special occasions, i love to give cards to my love ones. When i had a bf before, i would give him cards for his birthday, valentines and anniversary. And he'll give me cards too, but he'll just write one, two or three sentences. MEN!

Why i like to give cards? Knowing myself, i express my feelings better through words in writing rather than verbally. Very rare for me to express words verbally but i do do it sometimes. I don't say words like "I Love You" or "I Miss You" easily. I only say it when i really mean it. I put value to those words so sometimes it amazes me how many men can say i love you or i miss you to me that easily even when they r not my bf. It just shows either they say that frequently to all girls or they don't really mean it.

Anyway, what i write in cards i mean it. Perhaps that's why i can write a lot in cards because i don't know how to say it verbally or too shy to say it verbally.

So back to Father's day. My dad is the number 1 Man in my life. No man, including my husband (if i had one in the future) can overtake that number 1 spot but that doesn't mean i don't love my bf/husband. It's only logical that my dad is at the number ONE spot because he has been looking after me since the day i was born, provide me with necessities of life, give me the best things in life and always looking out for me.

And what does my partner do? Sure he will look after me once I'm married to him but he will never sacrifice himself as much as my dad. Again, this is only logical. Men will care for his children more than his wife. Why not? Children is his own flesh and blood. Ha, that's why when you read cases on "wills", the husband will leave more to the children than his wife.

Not every man can be the best dad in the world. Not every man can live up to the task of being a responsible father. You hear stories of so many irresponsible fathers doing irresponsible things that they don't deserve to be called fathers at all like rape, backstabbing, murder, etc. I'm just very thankful and grateful that my dad isn't like that and that he's always there when i need him the most. I will always remember the sacrifices he made for me for the past 24 years of my life.

I have learned a lot from my dad. He's a wise man. In a way, i think 60% of my personality is more like him while the 40% is like my mom.

Namawee --> Malaysia's "sweetheart" (implied sarcasm)

This link will bring you to his video on World Cup :

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bByWv1jiAYo


While this will bring you to his video on TNB :

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hAHQGvFqcSE

If you don't know Namawee, then shame on you! Kidding. He's a Malaysian who become popular because of his stupid music videos singing things in a CRUDE and disrespectful manner. His first controversial song was the Negarakuku. Look it up in You Tube. That's another lame fucked up video which i would comment right now but that's old story. Besides i commented it before in my older blogs. The reason why it become controversial is because his video is very racist and he humiliate the "azan". Attack the Malays all you want but you are a real son of a bitch for saying something like that about the azan.

Now, the newer videos i have given in the link above.

The FIRST video :

Probably inspiration from the World Cup 2010 which is currently ongoing. In that video, there's a line that goes "Bola tak boleh, amoi boleh". I think he's condeming the local Malaysia football team since people are always complaining about Malaysia's local football. But what's the shit with "amoi boleh?" It's not like Malaysian football players are involved in sex scandals like the English Club players. Then he wants to bitch about the Thomas Cup? Men, is it so hard for them to respect things? They can't respect themselves, the football game or women. In that video, there are a bunch of sexy girls playing football. Why don't you get real Malaysian girls who play soccer to kick your fucking sorry ass instead of a bunch of girls wearing makeup playing sports who can't even kicked the ball right? And it's disgusting to see the pervert guy trying to grope the girls. Is that how you men carry your image? Some of you anyway. Overall, this is a very distasteful video.


The SECOND video :

Namawee attacking TNB. slightly better but not a good video after all. He did ask reasonable question like why is the TNB building all bright up while the whole of Muar city has no electricity? But if you are RUDE to people, people will be rude back to you. Look at how Namawee ask the questions, lacked professionalism plus with all the rude cursings. And you want people to take him seriously? I'll slap him if i was working with TNB. And i really hate it when people use the word "cibai".. is that a Chinese word because a lot of malay guys use it too. Do you think you look and sound cool saying that? It's a complete turn off for me.


If you want people to take your complaints seriously, do it in a professional and reasonable manner. Reason with people. It's like when you preach to people about religion, you don't force people to listen to you, you make them listen to you but at the same time you do it in a respectful manner, not violently and rudely.

Yes, in my blogs i do curse and bitch sometimes but i give reasons. And i usually use bad words for personal matters anyway against people who did me wrong personally. And when you touch on issue relating to country, race, religion, you MUST be SENSITIVE. You can't simply say rude and mean things even if it's true to some extent.

I just don't like Namawee and his videos. They are rude, crude, distasteful and disrespectful. And only people who have these kind of characteristics will like such video or encourage him to make more videos like this.

Fake Woman

It has come to my attention that there are so many fake things being created for a woman. Let me lists them :

1. Fake eye lashes.
2. Fake contact lenses to make ur eyes super big so you'll look super cute (popular trend in Japan).
3. Fake double eye lids.
4. Liquid foundation to cover ur scars, pores, pimples.
5. Hair extension --> that's fake.
6. Makeup --> Especially the heavy ones, totally can change your whole face like make ur cheekbones higher or your nose sharper or draw your eyebrows to make it perfect. I know, usually people pluck their eyebrows.
7. Silicone boobies.
8. Butt pads. Yes, to make assless women have asses.
9. Fake branded handbags like LV, Gucci, Prada etc.
10. And other fake accessories...
11. Fake virginity. You can do some kind of operation to make a fake hymen so that your man will think you are his darling little virgin and he's your FIRST.
12. Plastic surgery --> gives you permanent fakeness.

So imagine if you combine all these in a woman, she'll be like the ultimate faker. I mean you can enhance your looks or whatever but don't overdo it. Some women can't live without makeup. You'll never see her without her makeup while some women actually goes to sleep with her eyeliner.

All these fake stuff is like an athlete taking steroids. Sure he performed better but can he be proud of his achievements? No. He didn't work hard on his talent. It isn't natural. And do you think a woman deserved to be called pretty if her beauty is man made a.k.a plastic surgery? Any woman can look pretty with make up or plastic surgery. Of course if you are naturally pretty, make up with make you prettier.

No wonder there are so many she males and transvestites. There are so many fake products for women.

Mandarin and Tamil teachers may be made compulsory

Mandarin and Tamil teachers may be made compulsory

If this does happen, then 'sekolah jenis kebangsaan' should be abolished because i thought the purpose of such school was for Chinese and Indians to maintain and sharpen their Mandarin and Tamil language. They can do it at home among family members and relatives but i guess schools are to sharpen their language more. It's the same as the Malay language. The Malays do know how to speak Malay just by communicating in that language with family members but yet they still need to be taught the language at school because at home they don't use the proper grammar. Thus, that's why you still can see Malay students getting grades like D,E or even F for such language. The reason? Not that they can't speak Malay but they are LAZY TO LEARN.

But really, is learning other races language in Malaysia necessary to create racial unity? You see, the main languages here in Malaysia are Bahasa Malaysia and English. First it was called Bahasa Melayu before it was changed to Bahasa Malaysia, because some think it's unfair, perhaps because those who speak Malay doesn't necessarily have to be Malays, which is true so the accurate term is Bahasa Malaysia. So Malay is the national language and those calling themselves Malaysians should be fluent in speaking Malay.

In Malaysia, every Malaysians should be able to communicate in Malay and English with one another. You have 2 languages which you can communicate among races yet the racial unity isn't that strong. Why? So what if you learn other language? If i learn your language, will you be more keen and excited to accept me, as if i am one of you? It saddens me how people use language to "bitch" about others because they think others won't understand what they are bitching about. So the bright side of learning other language is you will understand whether people are bitching about you in other language.

Language isn't the key to racial unity. I think there should be "Malaysian Culture" class. What does this class do? Teach you of the main races that exist in Malaysia like Malay, Chinese, Indians, Singhs and the bumiputeras in Sabah and Sarawak etc. You learn about these races' religions, beliefs, cultures etc. But most importantly, this class will teach you how to respect other culture and races and not to behave in a discriminatory manner to others that are different from you. The idea is to teach people about RESPECT. I know subject like History which is being taught in schools covers this but i don't think it's comprehensive enough, and it doesn't teach things like don't speak in a language to another which some of those surround you don't understand when you are capable of speaking in a language which others can understand you. This is like race etiquette or something. Many don't realize that this is RUDE because many aren't blessed with common sense and consideration. Why do you think we have bad drivers in Malaysia?

As a Sabahan, sometimes i feel insulted at the level of knowledge of Sabah and Sarawak that the West Malaysians have. They think we live at trees or eat weird stuff like worms. Sabah may not be as advance as KL but we are not that back dated either.

What's the point of learning another language if you don't understand the meaning of respect? Or you are ignorant of other people's culture. I've seen non Malays who are very ignorant of the Malay's culture and religion despite the fact that Islam is the country's national religion. You don't need to know in details, just the basic stuff. And vice versa for the Malays who are also ignorant of other races belief and practices. Just because you are the majority doesn't mean you should be ignorant of those non majority.

Racial discrimination also arise because from home, hatred is being taught to children by parents who are not happy with other races. When the children sees this and hears what bad things parents have to say about other races, they will behave in the same manner, bring such bad behavior to school and later in life. The hatred intensifies when these people are surrounded by their own race, thus give more opportunity for them to vent out their anger and bitchiness to other races.

Manly Sports

I was viewing a video of England's goalkeeper Green making his mistake in the match between US and England. Since i don't like England and Brazil and loss or draw will make me happy. Anyway, it was a silly mistake made by the keeper but i did feel sorry for him.

What got me interested are the comments people made for the video, mainly from the Americans and the English people. I know these two have some kind of rivalry between each other so it will always be about who's better. One of the issue is that SOME AMERICANS think soccer or football is lame compare to their every popular "American Football".

Some say soccer/football isn't as macho/manly as American football. My opinion from the perspective of a WOMAN - in the end who gets to determine what's manly or not, woman right?:

1. Soccer/football shouldn't be equated with American football because there are so different from each other. In American football, you need stronger upper body because you tackle with your hand. As for soccer, no hands are allowed unless you are the goalkeeper and the tackle is done via FEET. Some soccer haters say that soccer depends on a lot of luck and the players are a bunch of drama queens. What sports don't depend on luck? Every sports does. As for being drama queens, yes that's true and they need to practice being drama queens to sharpen their acting skills once they quit football :-)... Soccer/Football is more to skills and stamina while American football you definitely need good strength to handle tackles. Basically it's like this, American football screams tackle while soccer doesn't.

3. The REAL sport that should be compared to American football is RUGBY. These two sports are almost the same, they scream TACKLE! Some of the differences? rugby don't use protection like helmets or body pads while football does.

So really, if anybody want to know what sports amount to the ultimate manliness, it's RUGBY.



FOOTBALL. Sure football seems less rough bout they still produce good looking and guys with hot bods... Besides, it's fun watching football because of the strategy/skills. It's an interesting sports. Micheal Ballack!!!! I MISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU..



AMERICAN FOOTBALL. A lot of tackles but with protection.



RUGBY. A lot of tackles but without protection.