Neutering & Spaying Your Kitties

Neutering is for males while spaying is for females. These are procedures to sterilize your cats from reproducing. Why don't you want your cats to reproduce?

1. No time to look after so many cats.
2. Not enough money to support so many cats a.k.a food, cat litter, medication etc.

I have two furbies, Boo and Brownie. I bought Boo first because Brownie because I have no intention to mate them. Then later i bought Brownie because I was afraid Boo will be lonely and bored since I can't spend my whole time with her. I got a male cat because logically, a male cat will be more friendly to a female cat. Besides, I wanted to mate them and have cute kitties!

Then Boo started to be on HEAT. It was torture for me because she was noisy. She will be noisy for a week then return to normal. However, her on heat pattern is twice a month and it will last a week each. SO THAT IS DAMN LONG TO ENDURE.

Brownie is younger than Boo for about 4 months so he still can't hump her and have no sexual urges. Good for him because MALE CATS ARE SUPPOSE TO BE LOUDER. Noise is a main concern for me because I'm staying at a condominium. I don't want any animal hater neighbour to complain about me having cats. It's UNFAIR when condos and apartments don't allow you to have pets provided you ensure their cleanliness. Animal haters shall rot in hell.

Aside from the noise, my main concern was also putting them through surgery. I worry too much sometimes. I don't want some vet's negligence to happen and cost the life of my cats.

Anyway, I finally decided to spay and neuter my cats because :
 
1. Boo's too noisy. And apparently when you don't get laid, you become stress and she looks stress and wasn't eating right. She's not much of an eater but at least she's eating her wet food now compare to when she was on heat. Meowww meowwww meoowww meoooow. high piercing meows. I was so stressed that i played some loud music to drown her meows.

2. Kittens. As much as i want to have them soooo badly, I know I can't look after so many cats in a small space. Of course I would give away some but what happens if the new owners don't take care of them well? Some people want to have cats but don't comprehend the obligations that comes with it. And putting Boo through LABOUR? That's painful! (yes, im dramatic and i spoiled my cats like crazy). 

A PICTURE OF THEM IN THE CAR BEFORE GOING TO THE VET. 

AFTER THE SURGERIES AT MY HOME. POOR BABIES SO DAZED

Anyway, I was kindda worried how they were behaving after the surgeries and after regaining consciousness. Both were afraid of me, didn't want me to touch them.


Since they can't walk properly yet (dazed), I left them in their cages for 2 hours. After I let them out, they could walk. Boo was hissing the whole night while Brownie was meowing the whole night. They were not in pain since Boo was quiet and Brownie wanted to play. 



EFFECT after the surgeries? Boo is quiet and eating better now. Brownie still the same, playful as ever. And here I thought they say that your cats are suppose to be quiet and lazy.

But i do hope they grow fat and big!

A Man in a Female Beauty Pageant

http://www.glaad.org/blog/jenna-talackova-finalist-miss-universe-canada

I quote a sentence from the article : 

 

"The organization and its owner Donald Trump also announced policy changes that will allow transgender women to compete."

I'm totally against transgender competing in Ms Universe (for women). Let me list down my sensible reasonings : 

1. if u r a country who still believe in God and His teachings, you wouldn't allow such thing because you are only encouraging people to the "dark side". So yeah, conservative God fearing country might not stone transgenders or crossgenders to death but they won't recognize same sex marriage or laws to recognize such people nor to give them legal rights as a new gender.

2. First of all, if Ms Universe or any pathetic beauty pageants know the meaning of BEAUTY, they will have a RULE that contestants will be disqualify for plastic surgery and intake of hormones. And instead of that lame "bikini" segment, they should have NO MAKEUP SEGMENT. That's how you appreciate genuine beauty. And of course the questions to test your intelligence and to ensure you are not just a pretty bimbo. Now, if there were such rules, TRANSGENDERS DEFINITELY CAN'T COMPETE. 

3. So really, what is beauty? Silicones and hormones? Bravo Bravo.

4. You have transgender beauty competition so whoever is a transgender, can compete in that. Don't have to be nosy and join the female beauty pageant. 

Lets just say im very dissapointed with Mr Trump n people who don't appreciate the real meaning of beauty.

Undoing the Natural

http://my.entertainment.yahoo.com/blogs/sideshow/makeup-reddit-user-posts-startling-photo-212024218.html

Sometimes, you don't even know something is "wrong" until someone pointed it out to you and give you ideas that the "wrong" is unacceptable and must be changed.

I'm talking about female looks. When I was in high school, suddenly STRAIGHT HAIR is an It Thing. Many girls started to go to the salon and have their curly/wavy hair straighten out permanently until it regrows. It seems like you are only pretty if you have straight hair and friends will encourage you to straighten your hair. My hair was wavy and at one point of time I was guilty for committing the hair straightening trend but I didn't redo it when my hair start to grow back to its wavy ways. 2 reasons for this : back then it was expensive and I couldn't really care and I kindda missed my wavy hair.

I also see my friends being obsessed with plucking their eyebrows because according to them, if your eyebrows are shaped nicely, it will enhance your looks. Unless your eyebrows are really thick or thin or both your eyebrows connected to each other, I wouldn't really notice any problem with your eyebrows. I never plucked my eyebrows because I was never unhappy about how my eyebrows look until one incident happened to me which still didn't really change my opinion about my eyebrows.

I accompanied my ex stepmom to a salon because the bitch wanted to get her eyebrows plucked. Then one of the workers there asked me whether I wanna do mine and i said no. In an attempt to change my mind and get more money, the stupid bitch said my eyebrows look like a man and if I were to shape them nicely, I will look pretty. Fuck u. But I was young then, in my late teens so instead of being super angry, I was semi angry but more hurt and suddenly become self conscious of my looks no thanks to that stupid insensitive whore. But I'm proud to say that i never once plucked my eyebrows despite friends telling me I should give it a try. The reason why i never do it :

1. i don't like people telling me how i should look.
2. i have no time for eyebrows plucking.
3. I couldn't give a shit about it.
4. Waste of money. And even if i can do it on my own, i couldn't give a shit about it.
5. I dont have issues with my eyebrows and so what if others have?

What I'm trying to point out here by giving you example of my experiences is that society tells you what is pretty and what is not. Why should society dictate for you what's the ideal beauty? Below are what society dictates as pretty (in Malaysia) :

1. Fair skin.
2. Thin/Skinny/Slim.
3. Straight hair.
4. Big eyes.
5. Eyes with double eyelids.
6. And many more.

And so you have girls obsess with skin products to make their skin as white as a corpse and girls who wear thick eye makeup to make their eyes bigger. Now they have that ridiculous contact lense to make your pupil big and black. And that fake thing to make it look like you have double eyelids when in fact you don't.

Why do girls want to feel proud with their excessive makeup covering their facial flaws or plastic surgery to enhance their beauty when they are not natural and some temporary? Not only that, forcing others to such trend and if others don't join it, they will be taunt about how ugly they will look without the fake beauty enhancers.

Kindly do not force and pressure others into your idealistic beauty. And girls, please have more confidence in your self. No point aiming for perfection because nobody is perfect. Only God is perfect.

Ethics when using smartphones or whatever technologies

News have been reporting on how gadgets a.k.a smartphones and tablets are "destroying" the family institution.

1. Spouses having affairs when the other suspicious busy body spouse sneakily check the phone and found lovey dovy messages from a third party.

2. Children absorb with texting and surfing online with their gadgets over dining with family.

But besides family, i find it extremely irritating when friends do the same too. Every second wanna text/surf online. Thank God my close friends don't do that but i have encountered some during "dates". Made me want to shove the phone down throat and out of his ass. It's a MAJOR TURN OFF during dates. What could be the cause of this ?

1. The jackass must have think im not interesting, hence chose to busy himself with his damn phone.

2. The jackass doesn't know how to communicate with a woman, hence play with his phone while one of us figure out what to talk about.

So basically a person who likes to keep himself/herself occupied with the gadget while in the presence of other fellow human beings can only mean the following :

1. His/Her online friends are more interesting.
2. Real live humans are BORING to be around with.
3. Don't know how to communicate with real live humans.
4. Naturally born to be rude and inconsiderate with the "i don't care what u think about me and my gadgets".


Going back to the breakdown of the family institution due to these gadgets, i don't understand why parents must get smartphones and tablets for their children. Every where i go, i can see children playing games on the tablets while on family outing. Why in the f*ck do u need to bring the tablet if you are on family outing? To keep your children occupied while you, the parent will be busy buying your stuff? Sometimes children just need to tolerate with the boredom. Might as well you ask your child to bring the school textbook and read it instead of playing games. It irks me to see children playing with tablets.

When tablets were not created ages ago, children back then were just fine. They don't need games to keep themselves occupied while out on a family outing. I remember never bringing my Tetris game when i go out with my family. The Tetris game was left at home.

So yeah, if parents want to accuse their children of being too absorb with their smartphones and tablets, parents can only blame themselves for getting these unnecessary gadgets. If your child is below 17, why in the hell do they need a smart phone? You are only exposing them to danger especially with no parental supervision. I know parents are "pressured" socially to get these gadgets but they need to overcome that.

As for partners who have affairs via gadgets, don't blame the gadgets. Gadgets only make it EASIER TO HAVE AFFAIRS. ages ago, men only can have affairs with hookers since they have to manually drive all the way to the brothels. Now you can even screw with ur sis/bro in law, friends, colleagues etc. You simply got to live with the fact your partner is an asshole of a player so either you leave such partner, or you caged him like a loyal animal.

The only way to solve this issue is if you learn to respect others and be considerate to others and make the effort to start a conversation and listen. Not bury yourself with the gadgets.

The 901 Demo

On 9.1.2012, there was a street demonstration at the KL Courts Jalan Duta. Unfortunately I have to attend one court case there. The street demo consists of Anwar Ibrahim's supporters (go google if you don't know what's up with him). Purpose of the demo? Because the stupid supporters think by being there the judge will find Anwar not guilty of the sodomy offence. Or maybe they want to create some "action drama" if Anwar was found guilty. Anyway, the verdict was that Anwar was NOT GUILTY of the sodomy offence.

Im not a supporter of the Opposition nor a die hard fan of the Government. I just find politics in Malaysia to be boring, bitchy and dramatic. From the bombing of some Mongolian lady to a politician who likes "jambu men".

But I seriously HATE STREET DEMONSTRATION. I didn't even support the Bersih demo. Why do i hate street demo :

1. You never achieve anything by demonstrating in public besides showing just how many supporters you have for your cause.

2. Public nuisance.

3. No matter how you say it will be peaceful, a violent act, be it a minor one, is bound to happen.

4. You will attract people who have "bad intentions" who will disguise themselves as supporters of the cause.

And i'm always RIGHT (in the above matter anyway). So what was my experience on that annoying day of 9.1.2012 at the KL Courts?

Several days before the demo took place, i was informed by my friend that the KL Courts public car park will be CLOSED to ALLOW THE STUPID DEMO TO TAKE PLACE. Why in the f*ck did the government allow this BS to take place? The govt didn't give permit for Bersih but they gave permit for this? At this point, i was pretty pissed with the govt for allowing the demo. Why am I being emo about this?

1. Where in the f*ck am i suppose to park?

2. I have to get up EXTRA EARLY to avoid jams.

To further add on to my stress, my friend told me no taxis will be going to the kl courts.

So on that day itself, i woke up around 5 30 am and left the house at 6 30am. Reached courts around 7am and it was already packed with people and the roads to the KL Court have been blocked. I had to parked nearby to the income tax building (and the parking was damn far. It was a 10- 15 mins walk to the court. And i had to park illegally because there was no parking.

While walking to the courts, I have to walk through the annoying supporters of Anwar. A guy was giving out "Anwar Masks" and it looks freakishly creepy. It's kindda funny though to see men in "kopiah" and women in their "tudung labuh" attending this crappy demo. They are obviously supporters of PAS who support anything that is against the government. Security was tight like hell. If you claim you are a lawyer but don't really dress like one, they won't let you in.

There were many people but i don't think it reached 100k. The Opposition had made statements that 100k people will show up.

On my way walking back to my car, i saw this lady who brought her son to this demo and the child was in a wheelchair. Definitely a f*cked mother who don't care about her son's safety. Why in the hell do you bring children to demonstration?

Just shortly after that, there was a small blast and i was like deaf for a few seconds on the left ear. I was damn scared because the blast was nearby and some people were running away while some idiots just stood still and give me a hard time getting pass through them. I speed walk all the way to where I parked.

My conclusion from this ordeal :

1. You must be a sore loser to waste your time attending this demonstration.

2. Those responsible for the small blast could be from :

a. Anti govt supporters - to show pro govt supporters are not happy with the verdict.

b. Pro govt supporters - to provoke the anti govt supporters.

c. Assholes who just want to cause chaos - no need explanation for their motive.

3. No matter how you say the demo will be a peaceful one, there is bound to happen a violent event because the moment you gather people at one place, you can't be sure whether all of them are genuinely supporting your cause. Some would love to use this opportunity to cause chaos.

4. You are pretty f*cked up if you bring children to such place.

5. Old people or people with medical conditions who attend such thing are plain stupid and don't value their life. Newspapers are probably gonna report how "heroic" these people are for attending the demo despite their condition. I only see utter stupidity and ignorance on their health and people who love them.

6. Unless govt or some authority is gonna do something drastic which can affect your life or if it's a matter of life or death, street demo/public demo shouldn't be allowed. Street demo coz court is going to announce their verdict is stupid.

7. Street demo = public nuisance.

The Mind of an "Evil" Child..

I came across this picture on a facebook site. The caption tat came with this picture was that some "kids" put firecrackers in this dog's mouth, hence the facial disfigurement of this dog. I felt very sorry for this dog, the fact that he/she is still alive but living with a face that is disfigured this bad. Sometimes i wonder if this was a photoshop act... I wish it was though.

And this was caused by KIDS? Im not sure, are these kids below 12 years old or above 12 years old? When people say kids, i always think it's below 10 years old.

From a legal prespective, those below 12 years old can't commit crimes a.k.a doli incapax (if i remember correctly, can't be bothered to recheck it now).

When children commit certain crimes, i always look at the WAY THEY COMMIT THE CRIME and the way they ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS. This is to determine whether they are truly innocent or devil in the body of a child. A person may look like a child but the mind is evil and mature.

There was this case where these 2 boys, 12 or 13 years old killed a toddler. They HID the boy after they killed the child. If you don't know what you did is wrong, why HIDE THE BODY?

People say the difference between an adult and a child is that an adult knows what is wrong and right while a child is unable to do so.

So now if I were to ask the child this "why don't you put the firecrackers in your mouth or your friend's mouth instead of in the dogs?". What do you think he will answer?

They know the firecrackers will create an explosion that will HURT you.

So they want to know what happens when you put it in a LIVING THING.

Some humans don't appreciate the life of ANIMALS. They think they are superior than animals a.k.a you can kill animals for fun but you can't do it to a human. Disgusting.

Like today, at the cafe while having my brunch, I saw this whorish ugly bitch who kicked a cat who was just sitting under her chair. Of course the cat wanted food but the cat wasn't even meowing for food, the cat was just sitting that, letting you make the choice whether you want to feed her/him or not.

Her 5 or 6 year old daughter copy cat the whorish mother's action. And when she kicked the cat, she was smiling. I don't blame the girl because obviously it was the ugly bitch's fault for setting out a BAD EXAMPLE . Of course the girl will think it's ok to do it since her stupid mother did it any wway.

To all you animal abusers who don't respect animals, you will all burn in hell.

Men I Can't Be With...

In the spirit of new year 2012, i'm listing down the characteristic of MEN that i won't tolerate :

1. smoker.

2. clubber.

3. too much into "trend and fashion".

4. player/womanizer.

5. stingy.

6. can't make a decent conversation.

7. doesn't love cats.

8. allergic to cats (sorry, cats over man).

9. chauvinist jackass.

10. has a problem with me being fleshy/meaty/fat.

11. rude.

12. inconsiderate.

13. lazy.

14. jobless.

15. arrogant and talks about himself 24/7.

16. has a lot of girl-friends.

17. unhygienic.

18. i need to make it to no. 20...

19. not affectionate.

20. not punctual