Monday, January 24, 2011

Selling Your Face and Body

http://qjphotos.wordpress.com/2010/10/04/mimikakiten-the-next-maid-cafe/

Above is a link leading to an article titled "Mimikakiten: The Next Maid Cafe?". To make a summary of this article, it' basically where men have to pay certain amount of money to get their EARS CLEANED by YOUNG BEAUTIFUL WOMEN. Quoting a phrase from the article :

"A husband lying down with his head on his wife’s lap having his ears cleaned is an image of domestic bliss in Japan, and it’s said that when a guy has no one to clean his ears, it can be a lonely experience to do it for himself."

S-T-U-P-I-D....

I cleaned my own ears ever since my mom taught me how to do it. And the thought of feeling LONELY because i have to do it myself never cross my mind.. Or only MAN feel lonely having to clean his ears by himself? BIG BABIES!

i have no respect for jobs that PAYS you to wear 20 inch make up to look pretty (more like a fake clown), dress beautiful or sexy and to serve and entertain MEN..

And a thing or two about MAID CAFE, which i just googled up since i'm not that fimilar with Japanese culture although i know somehow their culture seems to represent their women as submissive :

1. "Maid cafés are a subcategory of cosplay restaurants found predominantly in Japan. In these cafés, waitresses dressed in maid costumes act as servants, and treat customers as masters (and mistresses) in a private home, rather than as café patrons."

2. "Waitresses in maid cafés are often chosen on the basis of their appearance; most are young, attractive and innocent-looking women. For example, Royal Milk Café,[4] a popular maid café, reports that the average age of its waitresses is 20."

3. "Maid cafés were originally designed primarily to cater to the fantasies of male otaku, obsessive fans of anime, manga and video games."

4. "Today, the maid café phenomenon attracts more than just male otaku, but also couples, tourists, and women. Though the waitresses at maid cafés are sometimes interpreted as objects of romantic or sexual desire, they can also be viewed as simply aesthetically appealing figures."

Aside from that, a few months ago i was watching a program on tv which tells the story of a particular profession in Japan. I forgot the name of the profession but these women were selling nuts or whatever snacks it is. But to make the business more appealing, these women are young, pretty, cute, beautiful and will be dressed sexily. And when these women are interviewed, that don't feel there is anything wrong selling the snacks while dressed scantily or knowing the fact that men want to buy those snacks just to have the chance to talk to these girls. How desperate men can be...


Anyway, do you see what i'm trying to point out here? As a woman, you are being paid to look beautiful and to entertain men. Some are being paid to look beautiful and to dress scantily to SELL THINGS. This is simply degrading to women. It also shows how submissive women are.

So yes, the saying that "beauty is only skin deep" is Bull Sh*t... Look around you, women will always be pressured to look pretty and beautiful. Men will always emphasize how they want a beautiful wife/gf. Work jobs will emphasize how young and pretty you must be. A woman who is smart will hardly be acknowledged for her intelligence, especially if she's not pretty.

What a SUPERFICIAL world we are living in.

4 comments:

  1. just a perverted guy who keeps the perversion only to himselfJanuary 27, 2011 at 9:41 AM

    just a thought. would you like wearing sexy outfits and get paid for it, or would you rather wear sexy outfits for free ? either way, men will always see you as a piece of meat, not as a person.

    on the other hand, what you wear usually describes what kind of person you are. even though there are sayings that we should not judge the book by its cover, what is outside potrays what is inside, most of the time.

    what is the difference between a ripe apple and an unripe one ? the color. easy right?

    i bet you don't like people to judge you by the way you dress. but then, that is what you did, didn't you?

    in the end, the color of an apple does tells us what it tastes like.

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  2. firstly wearing sexy is obviously wrong. nobody is perfect. And my imperfection is OBVIOUS to be seen, unlike imperfections such as cheating,lying, backstabbing, watching porn, sleeping around etc.

    I'm sexy for myself. And if a guy says im not sexy, screw him, i will still wear what i want as long i like it and im comfortable with it.

    To some extend, a person who likes to wear sexy inside and out tells a lot about that person. But it's like a guy who drives a BMW. He can either be rich, or he is in fact poor and has many debts but in order to look glamourous and to be envied, he drives a BMW anyway. So you can't make a complete conclusion on that person UNLESS YOU GET TO KNOW HIM/HER in detail.

    Like i said, people can judge me, it's their loss. I know myself better and i don't hurt people.

    really? it's the colour? you can put an ARTIFICIAL COLOUR to make it look fresh and yummy but the moment you take a bite out of it, it taste like crap.

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  3. From a guy who loves apples, red or not, it can still taste like crap if it is crap. Its that simple.

    Eleena, u never cared for others judgment on u. Right? Don't think he'll win on this one either.

    But if I may, no one is capable of making a complete conclusion. Not even themselves throughout their lives. Except for death.

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  4. yeah, i don't really care about someone's judgment on me if i didn't do anything bad to that person.

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