So MEN are FLIES then?
I came across this pic and it caught my interest. It's a good comparison to hejab (head cover). Women are like sweets, men are like disgusting flies :-D. However, it also cause some dissatisfaction in me.
So yes, women are told to cover up to protect themselves. It seems like every where a woman goes, she needs to protection. And if she doesn't that the protective steps, society will blame her. Example, if she doesn't dress decently, and she gets raped, people will say serves her right. But if she dresses decently and she was raped, only then people will call the man an animal.
That's another reason why woman can't go out late at night, because of the dangerous men lurking around, waiting for women who are ALONE.
Ha, you don't even have to wait night time for it to be dangerous. So long as you are alone, you will be in danger. Like me, I go to public places but because i'm ALONE, there are a few occasions when i came face to face with dangerous men.
Me doing things alone, is it my fault? It's not always practical to do things with friends. Furthermore, i don't have a bf who can accompany me and protect me in some way. So is this why women are encouraged to get MARRIED? Ha, even in marriages some women have to deal with abusive husband.
This world have never been fair to women. Then again, when were things ever fair? If you don't dress decently, people say it's your fault, you are just looking for trouble. If a robber robs a rich man, do you blame the rich man for having a lot of property?
When it comes to women, women are always at fault. There will always be ads to remind women do dress decently to protect themselves. Yes, i admit it's a good thing but why should women bear all the damn BURDEN? Why can't there be ads to remind men to look after what they "see" or "feel". When you see a scantily clad woman, you think she's immoral, lacked religous teachings. It's so easy to judge a woman right? But when a man ogle or drools after scantily dressed women, or owns porn it's NORMAL, he's not a bad man.
I'm bored, its before getting off of work and to the gym, and this caught my eye for a little bit because I think there's something that I can say that agrees with you. :P
ReplyDeleteHave you ever thought of the idea that the Hijab, is actually a culture thing? Its good to wear, no doubt, but sometimes when you're in Malaysia, there's a sudden impracticality to wearing it. But take my words as someone who is still looking for the truth. For so far I have understood in the Quran is about accessories on the body, and perhaps not the body itself. I could be wrong.
There are ads about men not covering their faces actually. However, these are restricted to mosques. I haven't seen them myself, and there's no picture of a free hair woman pasted on the walls also. Mostly done through sermons though. huhu.
i've heard some discussion bout the hijab being a culture thing and that all the Quran demand is for the followers to dress decently.
ReplyDeleteLogically, why should the hair be covered so strictly? it's from the neck below that symbolizes a woman's sexuality.
Funny how in Malaysia, they r so obsessed with covering the hair but yet while cover the hair with the hijab they wear tight clothes..
I guess the accessories on the body would include the choice of clothes?
why do men need to cover their faces? or u mean cover their faces with facial hair?
before, another hadith was written that Nabi keeps a neck length hair so as not to look womanly.
ReplyDeleteif you've ever heard of a man ogling a woman because of her hair, let me know. I can say myself that I find a female attractive if they have shorter hair. But it attracts me. Perhaps what they understand from mendekati zina.
I find tight clothes disrespectful to the idea of closing your aurat. frankly that's just women showing off. Its fine if its for themselves though.
It could be. It could also mean jewelry. It could also mean body parts. Allah is sort of direct on that line, so take which one you understand most.
Men cover face? In Malaysia? Eh, I mean women. Damn. I actually women but the idea here is that the ads are displayed to men in mosques. Go figure.